Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

I get it. Perhaps there was a nefarious motive behind it, or it was simply tactless.
100% agree there was no need to make this statement but some people just say things without thinking too much. So while it was certainly disrespectful it does not necessarily have to be discriminatory.

I don’t think going on a dinner date means treating a SP better, or does it? For me it’s a whole different activity type, for which my choice of SP might differ compared to an incall date for example.

I don't think a dinner date means getting better treated necessarily, but I feel like in general, if a man takes you on a dinner date, it means he feels proud to be seen with you in public and thinks of you as someone he could have intelligent conversations with over a nice meal and a glass of wine, he sees you as mature and sophisticated and or worth spoiling. A dinner date is a way to spoil a provider, most of us get excited when we get that type of bookings because they are special occasions. It's not that difficult to understand... If I found out a client who had initially booked me for 1h incall actually took someone out who charges way more on a 4 hour dinner date, I wouldn't be feeling very good about myself. I'd be asking myself what I did wrong and why he perceives us differently.

There's no point in debating endlessly about if there was a malicious intent behind the man consciously grabbing his phone in his hand, taking a screenshot of the conversation, cropping it and then sending it to the provider who advertises dinner dates once in a while and asked him for a deposit (which he refused to provide)....

 

[MasterPat]

Why do clients feel like it’s ok to pay black girls less than white girls?

Honest question, aren't black SP rarer and by consequence more exotic? Usually, the rarer the offer on the market, the more expensive it is?

Personnally, when I had a good session with a provider and it is near a meal time, I offer the person if they want to go grab a bite. Probably not the same as a diner date, but I often get a positive answer. I find it fun to share a meal and talk with them. Get to know them a bit more.

As for telling one provider that I am willing to pay more for the service of another provider seems counter intuitive. It is like going to the dealer and saying: "I bought my car acros the street. They charged me more for it and was happy to pay it." In the long run, it might just make everyone increase their prices.