Why do clients feel like it’s ok to pay black girls less than white girls?
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Comes from my own experience like many things I post. A client that told me he’s been on a dinner date with a white colleague of mine but has never asked me on one
I don't like to criticize how other sex workers are doing their job, and this is a very competitive industry.. But in my opinion, SW'rs who ditch their clients when they are seeing others are being emotionally reactive and are punishing themselves.
I hate it when clients say things like this, just to make you feel bad.
He doesn't deserve to see you. It might not even be the truth.Did he specifically say he spent more time with her because she's white?
I hate it when clients say things like this, just to make you feel bad.
Did he specifically say he spent more time with her because she's white?
No but that’s definitely not because she charges less, she charges double what I charge. I think some clients like drama, maybe they don’t have enough of that in their personal life
I agree. That's kinda what I was hinting at earlier when I say that competition between girls is a reality but it puts all the power in the hands of the clients. It's not the majority, but some clients seem to love creating drama between girls and love to make us feel bad. In my opinion, some clients figured out that the differences in rates between colleagues create friction, and I think they brag about hiring providers who charge a lot more on purpose, for their own benefit. Maybe he thought you would give him more if he says that. When clients pull stuff like this or start gossiping about colleagues it makes me not want to see them anymore. It's weird, insensitive and manipulative.
Think of it this way. If you hired an artist and paid them 300$ for a painting you commissioned, would you volunteer the information that you've paid another artist they know 1000$ for a piece of the same format? If I had the money to pay 1000$ for an art piece, it means I can afford tipping the one who charges lower or giving them more work, and not bragging about paying more.
(thankfully, it's not the vast majority)
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Yes not too long ago a client wanted me to travel very far so I dared ask for a deposit which he refused. The day after he sent me the screenshot of his conversation with another provider in which you could see she was thanking him for the dinner date
Whoever said women were drama queens has not met an escort client
I'm rolling my eyes in the back of my head........ How is that necessary? He sounds like a huge narcissist, you dodged a bullet.Yes not too long ago a client wanted me to travel very far so I dared ask for a deposit which he refused. The day after he sent me the screenshot of his conversation with another provider in which you could see she was thanking him for the dinner date
Whoever said women were drama queens has not met an escort client
I've had clients do this type of thing with me too. lol 2 months ago I had a client mention ''soooo.. I'm thinking of bringing either you, (x provider) or (z provider) to my cabin for a weekend, how can you convince me?'' both providers charged at least 100$ more than I do. (he offered that information, I didn't ask or check) I just said ''I can't convince you''
I'm rolling my eyes in the back of my head........ How is that necessary? He sounds psycho.
I've had clients do this type of thing with me too. lol 2 months ago I had a client mention ''soooo.. I'm thinking of bringing either you, (x provider) or (z provider) to my cabin for a weekend, how can you convince me?'' both providers charged at least 100$ more than I do. (he offered that information, I didn't ask or check) I just said ''I can't convince you''
Definitely a case of “I haven’t gotten enough attention in my life so here’s my revenge”
Yes, exactly. He definitely thought I was going to do something to impress him, or that he was going to make me feel inadequate. I just didn't care, because I don't want to keep seeing a client like this. He never booked again. Manipulators aren't worth entertaining.
Just to make it clear in case someone doesn't understand. what bothers me isn't that he saw other providers, it's that he gossiped about multiple providers in malicious ways, then he tried to pit some of us against each other by pretending he was going to book an entire weekend at his cabin (which is probably false) and mentioned that the others have higher rates than i do to make me feel bad or manipulate me into offering something more, who knows what. I know many of my regulars and repeat clients see colleagues of mine, and i'm totally ok with it
In fact it's happened before that clients told me they were considering booking @Julia Sky and @LC18 and some others who don't advertise here, and I encouraged them to do it
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Sps are the most drama free and very accommodating I find! Relationships were the hardest!Yes not too long ago a client wanted me to travel very far so I dared ask for a deposit which he refused. The day after he sent me the screenshot of his conversation with another provider in which you could see she was thanking him for the dinner date
Whoever said women were drama queens has not met an escort client
I love that as sps try to accommodating everyoneUs SP's are in relationships too sometimes
Without knowing the full context, I dont necessarily think that this is about race. I don't do those kind of dates, but if I did, I would choose by personality & vibe, and potentially the desired fantasy if that makes sense? But as I said, I dont know the context or the person in question.
Probably in that case good for him but no need to tell me
This is very sad to read that certain people can be so low.
Even though it's easier to say than do, put him behind you ... that's where the assholes are.
I wouldn't want to appear like a white knight (awful joke sorry lol)
But yea tbh it took me a while to figure out the right words to explain my opinion on this, but it applies to more than just racism: when someone is used to being discriminated against and mistreated because of a specific trait, it's natural to spot certain power dynamics and associate disrespectful behavior with discrimination even if derogatory language isn't used, particularly when you notice that other people get treated better. Does this make any sense?
I get it. Perhaps there was a nefarious motive behind it, or it was simply tactless.
100% agree there was no need to make this statement but some people just say things without thinking too much. So while it was certainly disrespectful it does not necessarily have to be discriminatory.
I don’t think going on a dinner date means treating a SP better, or does it? For me it’s a whole different activity type, for which my choice of SP might differ compared to an incall date for example.
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