Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

I don’t allow photos or videos. Even with my own phone I’m not a fan, I just don’t like when people take photos of me because they keep shaking and don’t have the same artistic vision as I do. Whenever I did, I ended up deleting them and never using them

Exactly

 

[LeDodo]

I don’t allow photos or videos. Even with my own phone I’m not a fan, I just don’t like when people take photos of me because they keep shaking and don’t have the same artistic vision as I do. Whenever I did, I ended up deleting them and never using them

So in the eventuality you somehow allowed picture taking it would have to be a photo that you thought nice that will make it keep them?

 

[philonius]

I don’t allow photos or videos. Even with my own phone I’m not a fan, I just don’t like when people take photos of me because they keep shaking and don’t have the same artistic vision as I do. Whenever I did, I ended up deleting them and never using them

Why do they keep shaking Lena? Sounds like it might be partially your fault lol.

 

[LC18]

So in the eventuality you somehow allowed picture taking it would have to be a photo that you thought nice that will make it keep them?

No

 

[philonius]

You should ask for some royalties lol

The work is its own payment lol. It's just hot to know that I was even there and watched it unfold with my own eyes.

 

[Modnar]

Most of us don't want photos being taken..

For me a part of it is about not feeling sure that the picture will be good and feeling self conscious, I've had clients take photos of me during dates with my own phone number and they were terrible lol.. Most people aren't great photographers.

Someone else already asked this but I think there wasn't an answer: what about photos/videos that avoid the face?

 

[Modnar]

A few questions for SP's on reviews and client management (I apologize if this has been asked before; I tried searching but couldn't find a recent discussion on these topics):

• Do you read reviews written about you? If so, are you generally able to tell who the client was from the details in the review?
• Do you keep your own records of past clients? If so, what kind of information do you track (e.g., punctuality, communication, hygiene, etc.)?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

[*]Do you read reviews written about you? If so, are you generally able to tell who the client was from the details in the review?

I always know who wrote the review, yes!

 

[LC18]

About once a month I think about Bruna Surfistinha that was reviewing her clients online and wish I could do the same

 

[jeffmathers]

About once a month I think about Bruna Surfistinha that was reviewing her clients online and wish I could do the same

Is there a way for me to see the reviews? I googled "Bruna Surfistinha reviews" and am guessing this is from a movie or book

 

[Modnar]

About once a month I think about Bruna Surfistinha that was reviewing her clients online and wish I could do the same

What’s stopping you?

 

[LC18]

Is there a way for me to see the reviews? I googled "Bruna Surfistinha reviews" and am guessing this is from a movie or book

A book then a movie based on a real Brazilian escort

 

[ChloeCoeur]

• Do you keep your own records of past clients? If so, what kind of information do you track (e.g., punctuality, communication, hygiene, etc.)?

I keep records that include contact info, dates, session type, how it went, etc... useful for a number of reasons

 

[Modnar]

I keep records that include contact info, dates, session type, how it went, etc... useful for a number of reasons

That does make sense. I'm quite paranoid about STI's, so I even keep track of when I first notice things like spots or rashes and when I saw SP's.
Because of that, it would honestly be surprising to me if SP's didn't keep some kind of record.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

A few questions for SP's on reviews and client management (I apologize if this has been asked before; I tried searching but couldn't find a recent discussion on these topics):

• Do you read reviews written about you? If so, are you generally able to tell who the client was from the details in the review?
• Do you keep your own records of past clients? If so, what kind of information do you track (e.g., punctuality, communication, hygiene, etc.)?

Yes and I don't know who each person is but most of the time I can tell. And yes I do keep records of past clients when I can.. I don't write reviews like people here lol.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Someone else already asked this but I think there wasn't an answer: what about photos/videos that avoid the face?

I've had someone ask me to wear a terrifying fetish mask before for that purpose.. I said no.

 

[LeDodo]

A book then a movie based on a real Brazilian escort

A very long time ago I watched Secret Diary of a call girl. I think it's fictional but I might want to watch it again because back then I think I didn't understand the background lol

 

[CuriousGent]

I've seen people do this before. some of us are okay with it, some are not. I've often had clients refuse to match my donation to my duo partner, and I accepted it because I didn't want to lose the opportunity to do a duo since I really enjoy them.. but it's really ideal to match the rates. you are also mentioning different options. Once, I had a duo with a provider who had a PSE option. I assume the client saw that because he treated her very differently from me, he matched our rates (her GFE rate was higher than mine) but he did not pay for PSE.. He was a lot more rowdy with her and it made me really uncomfortable. I think it's important to discuss everything with both duo partners.

if you don't mind me asking, did it make you uncomfortable because PSE is not something you offer or because you felt like the other provider was herself uncomfortable?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

if you don't mind me asking, did it make you uncomfortable because PSE is not something you offer or because you felt like the other provider was herself uncomfortable?

It made me uncomfortable because he didn't pay her extra for PSE.. and I did feel like she was uncomfortable. She told me after the booking she thought he was rough with her. (he pulled her hair really hard to the point where I had to kinda move his had, slapped her ass really hard, i think COF or CIM too)

There are a lot of clients who think that because we offer something extra or something else we're always willing to do it and prepared. I've heard stories of providers getting "surprise anal" or "surprise CIM" with no proper compensation because they were charging these as extra..

There's a difference between GFE and PSE for a reason.. and there's a reason why providers charge more for PSE

 

[Sean007]

It made me uncomfortable because he didn't pay her extra for PSE.. and I did feel like she was uncomfortable. She told me after the booking she thought he was rough with her. (he pulled her hair really hard to the point where I had to kinda move his had, slapped her ass really hard, i think COF or CIM too)

There are a lot of clients who think that because we offer something extra or something else we're always willing to do it and prepared. I've heard stories of providers getting "surprise anal" or "surprise CIM" with no proper compensation because they were charging these as extra..

There's a difference between GFE and PSE for a reason.. and there's a reason why providers charge more for PSE

This kind of rough play is not really my cup of tea, quite the opposite actually. We’ve been through this multiplie times but what about discussing this kind of stuff beforehand to get CONSENT? I’m not sure one who is in this kind of kinks stuff goes to make sure his/her partner is OK with with whatever is going to happen. Rather simple I would say! Again my seances are generally “go with the flow” and since those are generally really smooth if a provider is not comfortable she has plenty of time to mention it before it is too late!!!