Are physically unattractive men overrepresented in your clientele vs the general population? In other words, if we picked 100 escort client at random and 100 men at a supermarket downtown, which group would contain the most unattractive men?
I'm going to answer this one because I feel like there are many insecurities behind it, not just yours but a lot of men's. Honestly what is attractive is subjective and I think if you picked 100 men from random supermarkets and 100 escort clients you could never tell them apart.
A lot more men than you think hire escorts once in a while or try it at a phase of their lives, but most men are not on the internet reading about sex workers constantly.. attractiveness isn't what distinguishes regular clients of sex workers and other men.. what makes a difference is more psychological in my opinion.
Depending on the person the difference between "regular men" and men who hire many escorts is in terms of mental health, personal struggles & happiness, social skills, tendencies to have addictions, neurological differences and levels of empathy and anti-social behavior..