Ask us anything part 3
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I tend to not visit those either for my safety and comfort. I’ve had bad experiences
I've had good experiences in airbnb's but I can see how it could go wrong.. I also wouldn't stay in one if I was touring and hosting
Would like to know from an SP point of view, on a first time meeting, what is the best etiquette or conversation topics to have, and suggestions of how a client should be out going and/or direct in his communication style?
Also, as an SP, do you feel encounters are better the first time or with a regular type of client meeting monthly, ie is there an advantage of being a regular client.
Also, as an SP, do you feel encounters are better the first time or with a regular type of client meeting monthly, ie is there an advantage of being a regular client.
I'd say the type of thing we don't usually want to hear is gossip against other providers, comparisons, mention of previous reviews and questions about the industry..
As a SP I often prefer seeing clients I've met before, the advantage is the connection and things feel more natural.. however it depends. Sometimes I'm really excited about meeting certain new clients. Also it's not because someone is my regular client that he's one of my favorites..
Be yourself! Cliché, I know.Thank you for the don'ts, would appreciate to also hear of the do's too
You talk about the same subject as on a first date. Maybe not "where do you live", but passions, restaurants, activities, projects, school, etc. Remember that you will not be the only one doing the conversation, so the other person will talk too, so no worries and let it flow!
Though, I am not sure what you mean when you say "suggestions of how a client should be out going and/or direct in his communication style?" ?
I think we appreciate if you talk about your interests, tell us a bit about yourself.. ask her about her taste in music, film, etc. just be yourself and act as if you were on a date but without asking questions that are too personal.. personally I like it when clients allow themselves to be outgoing, it shows they're in a good mood and have a positive attitude. But some people are shy and that's fine tooThank you for the don'ts, would appreciate to also hear of the do's too
i know you didn't ask clients, so maybe out of line, but i'm a "repeat" kind of guy so 1st date are often not as good as the following ones. So for me there's clearly an advantage in being a "regular", for that and for several other reasons.
Yeah I find that sessions tend to improve over time with many clients. I think most of us try to keep our clients.. but I often know at this point who will repeat and who won't.
I had some amazing first dates with clients, then the second was a disaster.
I’ve had some awkward first dates and then the next ones were completely amazing. It all depends
[Men] Have you seen a lot of erect penis in real life?
Now before you giggle and tell me “you’re so silly Lena”. I’m asking because a lot of you don’t know what a big dick is. I have told a lot of men that theirs was big and they didn’t believe me. I blame porn and the fact that they probably haven’t seen that many penises in real life
Now before you giggle and tell me “you’re so silly Lena”. I’m asking because a lot of you don’t know what a big dick is. I have told a lot of men that theirs was big and they didn’t believe me. I blame porn and the fact that they probably haven’t seen that many penises in real life
Penis yes. Erected no.
Yes porn is to blame for those insecurities.
However porn or not, these kind of comments has never and won't happen to most of us (at least for me).
Myself none in real life, saw smaller and larger in porn, therefore thinking I am average, with which I am comfortable with.
I've stopped telling men they have big dicks because they always react like this.. and ultimately I don't care how big someone's dick is. As long as I can work with it, I'm cool with any size. I also think mainstream porn creates a lot of cognitive distortions in people about sexuality and the human body
Dans la vraie vie, j'ai vu quelques pénis en érection sur des sites de fantasmes et il y en a de tout les formats. Ça m'a permis de juger du mien mais toutefois, j'apprécie les commentaires honnêtes des femmes rencontrées ici sur la taille et l'allure.
Je trouve cela flatteur, un plus et je les en remercie. Toutes me disent que si elles le disent c'est qu'elles le pensent.
Je trouve cela flatteur, un plus et je les en remercie. Toutes me disent que si elles le disent c'est qu'elles le pensent.
Oui parce que franchement ça ne me donne pas à grand chose de mentir là dessus
I've seen a lot, been to swingers clubs and parties etc...
Here's my two cents. For what it's worth, I'm 6.5" (7" on a great day ) so I am slightly above "average" however, although I've never had any complaints, most of the erect penises I've seen were way bigger than me.
However, I think that's more because I was exposed to "unaverage people"... Being ENM is not commonplace, and so the people who are in that space are not part of the majority... My theory is those anywhere near or below average never show anyone but those they are personally intimate with, and inversely, those that are 1.5" or more from the average flaunt it more.
Here's my two cents. For what it's worth, I'm 6.5" (7" on a great day ) so I am slightly above "average" however, although I've never had any complaints, most of the erect penises I've seen were way bigger than me.
However, I think that's more because I was exposed to "unaverage people"... Being ENM is not commonplace, and so the people who are in that space are not part of the majority... My theory is those anywhere near or below average never show anyone but those they are personally intimate with, and inversely, those that are 1.5" or more from the average flaunt it more.
That makes sense, if I had DDs I would not wear a top ever. Ok I’m slightly exaggerating but I would find ways to walk around topless
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