Ask us anything part 3

[LeDodo]

I got a question!

I'm about 5'9 205 pounds, I'm pretty overweight tbh, it makes me feel pretty insecure, is being fat typically accepted in the hobby?

I have about the same stats as you and maybe now more pounds. Didn't have issue about it.

Edit: 6' for 216 pounds

 

[Nachoy]

This post was entertaining to read although it doesn't read like the posts you usually write... wink wink gpt lol

listen to me as what im saying , not as something to analyze or decode.
I won’t try to pick apart your words or turn them into a pattern—I’ll just meet you where you are, and respond in a way that actually feels human.

 

[Oscar234567]

Why do you want to know that? Personally I don't think it really matters for the client. Some fake, some don't. A lot of clients will complain about us not being vocal in reviews or will ask us constantly if we enjoy it if we're not putting on a show, it can put pressure to "act". But being vocal or not doesn't have anything to do with how much we're enjoying it.

I get it but i feel like us men are programmed to think moaning means enjoying and silence means shes just not turned on. Maybe its porn to blame or maybe the guys who think that way had a ex girlfriend who was a fantastic actress.

 

[Fradi]

It should be immediately seen as a major red flag whenever a potential or regular client starts to expect anything for free. Some clients only use sex workers because they want to dominate and control women whom they treat with contempt. First thing they will do is try to stretch the boundaries and behave like they are entitled to get whatever they want.

Even if someone argues it's not the case, it puts the sex worker in an awkward position, so no client should even go there.

This is total bullshit.
There are clients that can form a friendship with an escort and are quite capable of having a dual relationship and not overstep boundaries and take advantage of each other.
Some of us actually think women are amazing and have gotten nothing but love and affection from them and treat them accordingly.
You can be a client when sex is involved and a friend when it is not.
You don’t ” go there” as a client, it evolves naturally over a long period of time and if it doesn’t it doesn’t it is very rare but can be amazing when it does.

I will always be there for the ladies I consider as a friend and it has nothing to do with wanting to have something for free, I can well afford whatever I need. there is never any pressure involved.
They are women like any other and they do have friends outside the sex world and sometimes even inside.

 

[mtlspacial]

This is total bullshit.
There are clients that can form a friendship with an escort and are quite capable of having a dual relationship and not overstep boundaries and take advantage of each other.
Some of us actually think women are amazing and have gotten nothing but love and affection from them and treat them accordingly.
You can be a client when sex is involved and a friend when it is not.
You don’t ” go there” as a client, it evolves naturally over a long period of time and if it doesn’t it doesn’t it is very rare but can be amazing when it does.

I will always be there for the ladies I consider as a friend and it has nothing to do with wanting to have something for free, I can well afford whatever I need. there is never any pressure involved.
They are women like any other and they do have friends outside the sex world and sometimes even inside.

Please read it again and try to understand the meaning of the words "expect anything for free". Emphasis on the word "expect".

The only place I expect free stuff is McDonald's, when I use my points with the app.

If a provider decides to give me anything or any time for free, it sure wasn't "expected" on my end. Nor would I even ask.

If you need a dictionary, let me know.

 

[Fradi]

Please read it again and try to understand the meaning of the words "expect anything for free". Emphasis on the word "expect".

The only place I expect free stuff is McDonald's, when I use my points with the app.

If a provider decides to give me anything or any time for free, it sure wasn't "expected" on my end. Nor would I even ask.

If you need a dictionary, let me know.

Now you are just playing with words lol.
BTW your points at McDonald’s are not free. Did you expect it to be?

 

[mtlspacial]

Now you are just playing with words lol.
BTW your points at McDonald’s are not free. Did you expect it to be?

Yes, I expect my points when I go to McDonald's. Because they advertise it will be provided if I make a purchase.

Sex workers don't advertise free time in their ads if you visit them enough. If some want to give it to you our out of the kindness of their heart, good for you. Some do want to hang out if they know you and like you enough.

But never demand it or expect it.

That's my point.

 

[Fradi]

Yes, I expect my points when I go to McDonald's. Because they advertise it will be provided if I make a purchase.

Sex workers don't advertise free time in their ads if you visit them enough. If some want to give it to you our out of the kindness of their heart, good for you. Some do want to hang out if they know you and like you enough.

But never demand it or expect it.

That's my point.

So we agree McDonald’s points are not free they are a reward for something purchased.

We also agree on the rest.
Experiences with an SP are unique to each individual.
Some of them make amazing friends.

Friendship cannot be demanded, it is one of the few things that can only be earned and given.
That was my point.

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