Ask us anything part 3
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To SPs, is it rude to ask for feedback on my performance?
I’m bad at reading body language and non-direct communication and I want to get better for future partners. Not looking for a report card, just basic good/could be better, although a sexy principal busting my balls would be kind of fun.
I’m bad at reading body language and non-direct communication and I want to get better for future partners. Not looking for a report card, just basic good/could be better, although a sexy principal busting my balls would be kind of fun.
I don't think it's rude, but maybe ask about specific skills/performance. Also, each SP will have their own likes and dislikes, so YMMV on both sides.
You're free to ask.
But remember : you're asking a paid performer to evaluate the performance you paid them to participate in
If they say you're incredible, is it because you are, or because happy customers return ?
If they say you need work, is it genuine advice, or a reason to keep coming back ?
So the problem isn't getting feedback. The problem is knowing whether the feedback is honest, strategic, or simply part of the service.
Because business transactions are terrible places to look for unbiased validation. In industries built on persuasion, the line between honesty and flattery can get blurry. Not everyone is a liar, of course, but some professions reward persuasion more than honesty.
It’s like going to a high end restaurant and paying hundreds of dollars for a meal and drinks asking the staff to rate me as a customer
I kinda agree with you there. I wouldn't do it with a provider I'm seeing for the first time. I suppose they would refrain from criticising someone they just met.
What’s gonna happen when I tell you that you suck in bed? Are you gonna come back?
I usually don’t answer when people ask those kind of questions
I usually don’t answer when people ask those kind of questions
How about if the client has bad breath or BO despite showering/mouth rinse. Do you at least tell him that ?
Yes, I ask them if they use the mouthwash in the bathroom. If they says yes, I loudly say OH??
I don’t want to be too mean but I hope it gets the message across
I see most often penis that are small or extra small before an erection. I don't often see a penis that is long and/or with a full shape before getting erected. You are normal.
People need to know that there 2 types of penises: flesh and blood ones. Or called shower and grower
Learned something again this morning. Actually this is the only reason why I spend so much time on MERB, to educate myself
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This being the Ask us anything thread, here I go.
Is it common for clients, especially older ones like myself to take ED (erectile dysfunction) medication before meeting a SP? When I started seeing SP's, I figured that since I invest time and money to see an attractive lady, I might as well pay a little more to make sure everything works out well.
I'm pretty sure that I don't absolutely need to take the pill but at this point, it became part of the routine and I don't dare not taking it. It is working very well for me and even on the very occasional bad dates because of stress, fatigue or whatever (never the lady's fault), I always did my part.
By the way, one SP that I see regularly asked me if I was taking ED medication, she was curious about it. She seemed to think that taking the pill garantees an erection. I explained to her that ED medication helps to get an erection but I still need to be aroused and that she was very good at that.
This is a sensitive issue and not everybody wants to talk about it so thank you for sharing.
Is it common for clients, especially older ones like myself to take ED (erectile dysfunction) medication before meeting a SP? When I started seeing SP's, I figured that since I invest time and money to see an attractive lady, I might as well pay a little more to make sure everything works out well.
I'm pretty sure that I don't absolutely need to take the pill but at this point, it became part of the routine and I don't dare not taking it. It is working very well for me and even on the very occasional bad dates because of stress, fatigue or whatever (never the lady's fault), I always did my part.
By the way, one SP that I see regularly asked me if I was taking ED medication, she was curious about it. She seemed to think that taking the pill garantees an erection. I explained to her that ED medication helps to get an erection but I still need to be aroused and that she was very good at that.
This is a sensitive issue and not everybody wants to talk about it so thank you for sharing.
ED médication has been in my toolbox for a few years and i take some before every meeting and encounter. Nothing shameful about it.
Have to be careful with these. In my experience, they can indeed make you perform better, but they can also prevent you from Finishing. Nuthing like getting your mind... blown.. and not being able to seal the deal and your alloted time is running out
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