I'm always so grateful to get your perspective and I think its so generous that you share here on the board even though you sometimes get flak for it. I'm wondering what you mean by "very very invested", I couldn't read between the lines to figure that out. Anyway, thanks again very much for sticking your neck out here, and wow you have a very beautiful neck.
I think what I mean by "very invested" in the industry and in "the hobby" is someone who is on this forum every day or almost, who talks about the industry very often and asks a lot of questions.. someone who is on every social media where escorts are posting and read every single one of my posts and other colleagues posts, who overstep a little.. people who I know read every single review of everybody, who have looked at every ad on every platform.
They often have seen many escorts and their excitement is cute for some of them but there can be a dark side. Some will talk about others with us and share details we aren't supposed to know, sometimes I feel compared.. some will deliberately try to cause conflicts or try to gain information about someone else.
In short - this doesn't concern you.
so you shouldn't worry yourself too much about this.
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But I get that vibe from some others, and it's not that I think they are bad people for it.. but I start feeling observed and exposed, it starts feeling like my privacy isn't safe or that they might exchange details about me with others even if they don't have negative intentions.
Before I advertised on this platform, I didn't really encounter this type of person at all. Even up until last summer, that wasn't common for me at all.
A few guys explained to me that they post here because they have no one to talk to about the fact that they see escorts... So I totally get it. But there's an issue of confidentiality and security.
I know I seem to be an open book and I'm face out but my private life is really important for me to maintain. When I entered the industry I could easily get bookings without having a ton of ads and constantly posting so I was still relatively anonymous. Now it's become really intense.
In the past most of my clients didn't look at review boards at all, or they just checked if I was a real person if they did. Now everyone sees everything and I could decide to have less exposure but then I'd have way less clients. I like it when someone enjoys my personality, intelligence and shares my interests! But it's different from somebody who just wants to talk about the industry and pry and gain information from me..
