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[neverbored]

This may be a sensitive question, but I've always wondered what is the mindset regarding your future ? For some girls, this is a second revenue stream, but I've known a lot of girls for whom this was the only revenue stream and there aren't many jobs out there that can pay what this pays. I've known only a handful of girls that actually had the mindset of putting money aside and when their beauty starts to fade, they can hit rock bottom really fast. Another issue I see, even with a degree, if you haven't worked in that field for a few years, the skills fade, which means the value on the market also fades.

At what point do you start working on the next step ?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Ah ok.....oui en terme d'exercer un autre travail/métier/profession au moment de quitter votre travail actuel.....ou simplement comme beaucoup d'entre nous penser ou même rêver à un autre travail qu'on aimerait faire ou qu'on aurait aimé faire....par exemple perso
je fais la même job que j'aime depuis 25 ans maintenant.....MAIS mon souhait/rêve aurait été de devenir un joueur de tennis professionnel.....lolll.....

At what point do you start working on the next step ?

I never had a dream career!

Maybe it'll also partly answer the question above about our future. I can only answer for myself, of course.

I am studying now, but I am not sure it would be what would replace this job full-time if I decide to quit escorting. It is something I would love to do long-term, though. My field of study is fascinating and I am good at it, but I am not sure yet if it is to replace anything. It complements my life right now. Ideally, when I quit, it is to retire officially. "The" real retirement!

I must add that my mindset always has been to have the means to do what I want to do, when I want it. I am not talking about material, mostly about life achievements, or choosing another direction in life if I see fit.

 

[curly]

Do you feel you become jaded about sex after a while doing this job?

 

[Gambling Fool]

What are your best tips for a successful 48 hour rendez -vous ? (after having agreed on price and location)

 

[LC18]

Do you feel you become jaded about sex after a while doing this job?

No, because I see different people all the time, they all bring their own flavour which makes my sex life pretty interesting.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

What are your best tips for a successful 48 hour rendez -vous ? (after having agreed on price and location)

I would still add a detail about the location that makes a great difference: a hotel with a pool and/or a hot tub that is accessible. It's nice when we're a bit tired in the afternoon and we don't want to go too far, relaxing and reading by the pool is always fun. It's also a good way to spend a slow morning.

Suggest activities you want to do, discuss them and choose together. Most importantly, follow through. What do I mean? Don't come up with fake excuses to cancel the activity just to spend more time in the room!

Planning a lot of time outside having fun in the city is great, but be mindful that if your day is filled from head to toe with no time to breathe, you might be both too exhausted for some playtime after dinner. Or it might not be as enjoyable as you thought. In other words, don't pack your days too much! Planning some downtime, and being realistic about the duration an activity takes, with enough time to get ready for it and the commute, will allow you both to have plenty of energy to enjoy your private moments!

Ask her how many hours of sleep she needs and allow her to get her beauty rest in full. Don't wake her up during the night unless she explicitly states you can do so.

She might request some personal time, the when and how long should have been discussed before booking to make sure you are on the same page.

Personally, bringing me my coffee as soon as I wake up is a really nice touch!

Knowing I'll be hungry as soon as I get off the plane and taking me for a quick bite is quite appreciated!

I will probably think of something else later.

 

[gaby]

...and is the CASINO still a place girls like to go????...perso i like it de temps en temps...and was wondering if it was a place/sortie à condidérer.....y incluant le repas....???

 

[Gambling Fool]

I would still add a detail about the location that makes a great difference: a hotel with a pool and/or a hot tub that is accessible. It's nice when we're a bit tired in the afternoon and we don't want to go too far, relaxing and reading by the pool is always fun. It's also a good way to spend a slow morning.

Suggest activities you want to do, discuss them and choose together. Most importantly, follow through. What do I mean? Don't come up with fake excuses to cancel the activity just to spend more time in the room!

Planning a lot of time outside having fun in the city is great, but be mindful that if your day is filled from head to toe with no time to breathe, you might be both too exhausted for some playtime after dinner. Or it might not be as enjoyable as you thought. In other words, don't pack your days too much! Planning some downtime, and being realistic about the duration an activity takes, with enough time to get ready for it and the commute, will allow you both to have plenty of energy to enjoy your private moments!

Ask her how many hours of sleep she needs and allow her to get her beauty rest in full. Don't wake her up during the night unless she explicitly states you can do so.

She might request some personal time, the when and how long should have been discussed before booking to make sure you are on the same page.

Personally, bringing me my coffee as soon as I wake up is a really nice touch!

Knowing I'll be hungry as soon as I get off the plane and taking me for a quick bite is quite appreciated!

I will probably think of something else later.

Thanks Giselle for your tips.

 

[morocov]

I imagine there are some topics and questions you always get from new clients. Questions that make you think "oh boy... here we go again." Like where are you from? what do you do outside this job?. For how long have you been working on the industry? .... Which topics would you consider mood killer / boring?

 

[LC18]

I imagine there are some topics and questions you always get from new clients. Questions that make you think "oh boy... here we go again." Like where are you from? what do you do outside this job?. For how long have you been working on the industry? .... Which topics would you consider mood killer / boring?

I don’t enjoy talking about politics, religion and racism with my clients because these are very sensitive topics to me and can definitely be mood killers if you say the “wrong thing”. I normally just say “That’s interesting” and switch the topic.

I don’t mind people asking me where I’m from. While I don’t answer publicly because my background is very identifying, I don’t mind answering every time I meet someone new. Same for other similar questions.

 

[hob12]

Nothing like a good debate on taxation before hitting the bed.

 

[tesla-tesla]

How do you accept new members into the IndyCompanion collective? Do you vett them?

Do you have an internal "court" to resolve disputes?

 

[LC18]

How do you accept new members into the IndyCompanion collective? Do you vett them?

Do you have an internal "court" to resolve disputes?

All I’m going to say is that we do have policies and take internal issues seriously. Not everyone is accepted as some sex workers have demonstrated online that their behaviour does not align with the collective’s values. I believe the rest will remain confidential.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

I imagine there are some topics and questions you always get from new clients. Questions that make you think "oh boy... here we go again." Like where are you from? what do you do outside this job?. For how long have you been working on the industry? .... Which topics would you consider mood killer / boring?

Please don't ask us what our worst experience was. That's always very rude.

 

[tishina]

If you read MERB long enough, you learn quickly that one of the biggest issues SWers have with clients is hygiene.
Beyond that, what would be the second biggest challenge you face with clients?

 

[gaby]

GOOD CHEMISTRY...LOL

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

If you read MERB long enough, you learn quickly that one of the biggest issues SWers have with clients is hygiene.
Beyond that, what would be the second biggest challenge you face with clients?

The thing I found more challenging is in fact frustration when someone send me an e-mail without having read the website I spent hours working on. It is clearly written on it what are my rates and what I require for booking screening. I find it so weird that someone would bother to write me a whole damn e-mail and at the end refuse to send me their screening information. It's such a waste of time for both of us!

 

[nikond700]

Why when a girl kisses you her eyes are closed ? My gem, she as her eyes closes...why ? My eyes are always open so I can see the face.

When we fuck, she has her eyes open and looks at me all the time, but for the french kiss why close ? LOLOL

 

[hob12]

Why when a girl kisses you her eyes are closed ? My gem, she as her eyes closes...why ? My eyes are always open so I can see the face.

When we fuck, she has her eyes open and looks at me all the time, but for the french kiss why close ? LOLOL

I mean I close my eyes too, if only by reflexes. I feel like you kinda have to force it to kiss with eyes open lol.

 

[LC18]

My eyes are always open so I can see the face.

Ive always found it weird to kiss with your eyes open. My eyes are closed so I cannot know if the other person keeps their eyes open or not but I assume they don’t.

It’s just awkward otherwise.