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[gaby]

Some years ago we used to have social evenings/get together ----twice a year-----in a bar/disco downtown with members and sps from agencies and indies....it was fun and nice event.....of course no sex involve .....lolll....it was only drinking/eating/dancing./chating...
so question......would b interested/participated in such an event.....or not???

 

[KingRonSanders]

Some years ago we used to have social evenings/get together ----twice a year-----in a bar/disco downtown with members and sps from agencies and indies....it was fun and nice event.....of course no sex involve .....lolll....it was only drinking/eating/dancing./chating...
so question......would b interested/participated in such an event.....or not???

gaby???

T'en rappelles tu?

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/threesome-with-ebony-beauties-channel-muller-and-sabrina-dumont-a-vip-3-miracle.133106/

 

[gaby]

I forgot to mention que les membres étaient invités a apporter des cadeaux/gifts et un tirage avait lieu en fin de soirée pour les filles seulement.....oui KRS des heures de plaisir.....des moments inoubliables .....faut quand même préciser que si des rencontres plus intimes se produisaient c'était par après ...à la discrétion des convives....and btw CHANNEL et SABRINA avaient été tellement populaires que JAMAIS je n'ai eu l'occasion de parler avec ces beautés lors de cette soirée.......lollll...me suis bien repris par la suite....

 

[Sylar]

Question. Where should it be put? When i recieved in my hotel it was easy for me, i would just clean after the girl left and put it in the bathroom trash bin. But with an incall i never know whats better. Usually i remove it toward the end when im ready to finish (i enjoy BBBJ or HJ myself to finish) and the escort handle it, sometimes they just put it on the table next to bed... But i never know whats the best way to be "classy" about it.

You bring a dog poop bag, deposit it after the deed and take it with you. Make sure to not lose eye contact while doing it so, to establish dominance.

I am joking of course, but wouldn't it be hilarious to see the reaction?

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Some years ago we used to have social evenings/get together ----twice a year-----in a bar/disco downtown with members and sps from agencies and indies....it was fun and nice event.....of course no sex involve .....lolll....it was only drinking/eating/dancing./chating...
so question......would b interested/participated in such an event.....or not???

I hosted one in 2019 it was fun Would be interested in organizing another one but I would need help from other providers.

 

[gaby]

Well that's a good news ROSIE for our community/members......loll....quite sure you will find some helpers around....wish you will succeed.....

 

[excentrix]

Loving these Q&A's! Thanks to those for answering them!

Tried to look back, but couldn't see if anyone asked already.

My wife and I have been fantasizing on having a threesome for some time now. I'm sure fantasizing and reality can be quite different. We always said if ever we would have a threesome, it would be with a professional. She is leaning towards having a guy, I of-course am leaning more towards having a lady, but at the end, I would be excited for both scenarios. I'm sure we would both be quite nervous about it when and if the first time happens. We have been to a couple of swingers club before, but only watched and be watched.

What would be your suggestions on how to go about it for the first time?

 

[Rebaynia]

Loving these Q&A's! Thanks to those for answering them!

Tried to look back, but couldn't see if anyone asked already.

My wife and I have been fantasizing on having a threesome for some time now. I'm sure fantasizing and reality can be quite different. We always said if ever we would have a threesome, it would be with a professional. She is leaning towards having a guy, I of-course am leaning more towards having a lady, but at the end, I would be excited for both scenarios. I'm sure we would both be quite nervous about it when and if the first time happens. We have been to a couple of swingers club before, but only watched and be watched.

What would be your suggestions on how to go about it for the first time?

I would screen the escort, ask them how they handle couples... I have seen couples who complained that in the past having a woman she payed so much attention to the man that the wife was feeling left out... or I guess the same for the guy but I don't hear about that scenario..
Just be sure the lady you do invite to join is as excited to play with your wife as she is to play with you.. otherwise a 3some can quickly go from fantasy to nightmare... You want to come out of the expierience a stronger couple, both enjoying, not a weakened one feeling insecure from the expierience...
My personal philosophy is the more she enjoys the expierience the more likely it will be a reapeated occurrence. Both partners comfort levels should always be the goal... The invited girl is there to enhance your love, not get in the middle of it.

 

[LC18]

Loving these Q&A's! Thanks to those for answering them!

Tried to look back, but couldn't see if anyone asked already.

My wife and I have been fantasizing on having a threesome for some time now. I'm sure fantasizing and reality can be quite different. We always said if ever we would have a threesome, it would be with a professional. She is leaning towards having a guy, I of-course am leaning more towards having a lady, but at the end, I would be excited for both scenarios. I'm sure we would both be quite nervous about it when and if the first time happens. We have been to a couple of swingers club before, but only watched and be watched.

What would be your suggestions on how to go about it for the first time?

What would be your suggestions on how to go about it for the first time?
Find someone who offers couple sessions. Don’t be shy, tell the escort it’s your first time so that they can guide you and make it less stressful for you.
Maybe you could do a foursome, just throwing that idea. Everyone would be happy.

Personally I recommend incall so that it’s on a “neutral” territory. You won’t get weirded out after.

 

[excentrix]

What would be your suggestions on how to go about it for the first time?
Find someone who offers couple sessions. Don’t be shy, tell the escort it’s your first time so that they can guide you and make it less stressful for you.
Maybe you could do a foursome, just throwing that idea. Everyone would be happy.

Personally I recommend incall so that it’s on a “neutral” territory. You won’t get weirded out afte

I would screen the escort, ask them how they handle couples... I have seen couples who complained that in the past having a woman she payed so much attention to the man that the wife was feeling left out... or I guess the same for the guy but I don't hear about that scenario..
Just be sure the lady you do invite to join is as excited to play with your wife as she is to play with you.. otherwise a 3some can quickly go from fantasy to nightmare... You want to come out of the expierience a stronger couple, both enjoying, not a weakened one feeling insecure from the expierience...
My personal philosophy is the more she enjoys the expierience the more likely it will be a reapeated occurrence. Both partners comfort levels should always be the goal... The invited girl is there to enhance your love, not get in the middle of it.

Thank you for your amazing suggestions. Yes, I actually would prefer to give most of the attention to my wife. Seeing her enjoying the moment would be the biggest turnon in itself.

 

[excentrix]

What would be your suggestions on how to go about it for the first time?
Find someone who offers couple sessions. Don’t be shy, tell the escort it’s your first time so that they can guide you and make it less stressful for you.
Maybe you could do a foursome, just throwing that idea. Everyone would be happy.

Personally I recommend incall so that it’s on a “neutral” territory. You won’t get weirded out after.

Thanks for your suggestion. Was also thinking the best time to try is when we are out of town. Someowhat like your suggestion, and feel like "neutral" territory.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Loving these Q&A's! Thanks to those for answering them!

Tried to look back, but couldn't see if anyone asked already.

My wife and I have been fantasizing on having a threesome for some time now. I'm sure fantasizing and reality can be quite different. We always said if ever we would have a threesome, it would be with a professional. She is leaning towards having a guy, I of-course am leaning more towards having a lady, but at the end, I would be excited for both scenarios. I'm sure we would both be quite nervous about it when and if the first time happens. We have been to a couple of swingers club before, but only watched and be watched.

What would be your suggestions on how to go about it for the first time?

Lucius and I offer duos at a fair rate and we are also real life partners But as my colleagues said, try to look for a companion that offer their services to couples and who clearly talk about it on their website. Hiring someone is usually less dramas and less stressful than doing it ''in the wild'' as you do not have the pressure of performance you could have with another couple or a third person.

 

[curly]

Has doing this job made you jaded toward men, relationships or faithfulness in a couple?

What, if not that, had it changed in you?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

in percent terms (tip/total session rate), at what point does a tip go from bad to okay, from okay to good, and from good to generous? are there other non-pecuniary factors that drive or shape this assessment, such as the client's wealth/class or your level of personal enjoyment from the session?

There's no such thing as a bad tip! Any amount is appreciated if it's your preferred way of saying thank you and showing gratitude. Even 10$ is fun since I'll think of you the next time I buy my latte with your 10 dollar bill.

any thoughts on the effect or advantages/disadvantages of pre-tipping vs post-tipping (meaning clients who only pre-tip vs clients who only post-tip, not clients who do both, who I assume, all else being equal, are preferred)?

I can only speak for myself, but unless you are a regular client, I find pre-tipping weird, or simply a way to manipulate me into giving a better service. I am always wary when this happens with a new client.

Tipping post service shows genuine gratitude for what happened between us and an authentic desire to tell me you loved your session since you are under no obligation to tip me. For these reasons, it feels more personal and is cherished.

rank in order of preference (assume all are of the same monetary value, even if they vary in fungibility):
- gift card - physical object delivered in-person - physical object shipped - cash - wishtender purchase (almost the same as cash)

I as said before, any physical gifts that I never talked about or are not on my wishlist are usually not wanted and, therefore, not as appreciated. Cash is always useful. Sending your monetary gift through my Wishtender is also quite fun since I have savings accounts dedicated specifically to my school fund and my wellness retreat. When you send it under one of those items, I can instantaneously redirect this money into said accounts and really (as opposed to virtually) see how close I am to achieving my financial goal!

A fun gift to be shipped is a bouquet de fleurs from "socialflowers". Other than that, offering your gift in person is much more enjoyable in my eyes.

 

[LC18]

in percent terms (tip/total session rate), at what point does a tip go from bad to okay, from okay to good, and from good to generous? are there other non-pecuniary factors that drive or shape this assessment, such as the client's wealth/class or your level of personal enjoyment from the session?

any thoughts on the effect or advantages/disadvantages of pre-tipping vs post-tipping (meaning clients who only pre-tip vs clients who only post-tip, not clients who do both, who I assume, all else being equal, are preferred)?

rank in order of preference (assume all are of the same monetary value, even if they vary in fungibility):
- gift card
- physical object delivered in-person
- physical object shipped
- cash
- wishtender purchase (almost the same as cash)

in percent terms (tip/total session rate), at what point does a tip go from bad to okay, from okay to good, and from good to generous?
Like my dear friend Giselle said, there’s no bad tip. The fact that you gave me more than what I asked is already generous in my opinion.

are there other non-pecuniary factors that drive or shape this assessment, such as the client's wealth/class or your level of personal enjoyment from the session?
I have some wealthy clients that have tipped me 100% so they basically gave me double my rate and then some. Other clients might give me $10-50 extra

any thoughts on the effect or advantages/disadvantages of pre-tipping vs post-tipping (meaning clients who only pre-tip vs clients who only post-tip, not clients who do both, who I assume, all else being equal, are preferred)?
It’s just like everything else, I recommend you tip at the end because what if the service sucked and you already tipped?
I give the same service to everyone but I would lie if I said extra bills in the enveloppe don’t give me an extra motivation. The last person who sent me a gift before we met got quite the thank you in person

rank in order of preference (assume all are of the same monetary value, even if they vary in fungibility):
- gift card
- physical object delivered in-person
- physical object shipped
- cash
- wishtender purchase (almost the same as cash)

Cash
e-gift cards
Wishtender
Physical objects delivered in person are super cute not always practical if you’re touring
Physical objects shipped it really depends on the object and the country of origin. Also where is it shipped?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I give the same service to everyone but I would lie if I said extra bills in the enveloppe don’t give me an extra motivation. The last person who sent me a gift before we met got quite the thank you in person

Just as a follow up question, if you don't mind, if a new client you have a future booking with is sending, say, Wishtender gifts ahead of your first meeting, does that come off as manipulative?

I haven't seen it that way, but I must agree!

The situation I talked about above is when a client, who never showed any more interest in me than others, put more money in the envelope at the beginning of the meeting.

But in the situation you mention Lena, indeed, it creates a build-up, a connection and shows that his interest in meeting me, personally, is real. I had clients whom I never met (yet) but sent me extra on the deposit as a gift, or gifts from my Wishtender, accompanying these with personal emails where they thanked me for accepting them as new clients or for the time I took to answer their questions, or simply because I said something on Twitter that touched them and they want to help. They tell me the reason behind their gift and feels less like a manipulation tactic for the "extras" they hope to get.

 

[Fradi]

I don’t think most men, I certainly don’t expect anything extra because I tip someone either before or after it is just a way of being kind and trying to show that you are either happy to see them again if it is a repeat visit or that you appreciate that they agreed to see you for your first meeting.
Personally I guess I always remember my father who said that you always open the door with your elbow when you visit a lady you want to impress because your hand will be full, you should never visit a lady empty handed be it chocolates or wine or pastries, flowers or jewelry depending on the bond you have.
This advice has always served me well.

 

[Rebaynia]

in percent terms (tip/total session rate), at what point does a tip go from bad to okay, from okay to good, and from good to generous? are there other non-pecuniary factors that drive or shape this assessment, such as the client's wealth/class or your level of personal enjoyment from the session?

Every tip is appreciated... only time it is bad, is when someone trys to undercut the price.

any thoughts on the effect or advantages/disadvantages of pre-tipping vs post-tipping (meaning clients who only pre-tip vs clients who only post-tip, not clients who do both, who I assume, all else being equal, are preferred)?

I don't see a difference between pre-tip vs post-tip... I appreciate either. And have been taken by surprised with post-tip added extra...

rank in order of preference (assume all are of the same monetary value, even if they vary in fungibility):
- gift card
- physical object delivered in-person
- physical object shipped
- cash
- wishtender purchase (almost the same as cash)

I don't have ways for electronic gifts. I don't even know how to set it up. only chance they have for tipping is in person. As for gifts, I have only really had tangible gifts from 1 client who every time i see him, even though it isn't expensive, it is touching and appreciated. A plastic flower, a tiny teddybear... ect.. just seeing how smitten he is, is such a pleasure to see him when he can afford to see me.

 

[gordon87]

Why is it some girls can have sex without lube and some apply it even before you contact each other?

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Why is it some girls can have sex without lube and some apply it even before you contact each other?

Because our bodies are all different and depending on the time on our menstrual cycle we might have more or less natural lubrification.