Explain to her how dangerous it can actually be and report it to the agency owner. That's pretty much all we can do..
Asking girls for BBFS
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Explain to her how dangerous it can actually be and report it to the agency owner. That's pretty much all we can do..
Sir Doc Holliday, that's a very good question. While the risks with having BBFS even higher with that SP, in the "heat and lust of the moment," my Mr. Johnson is really going to test my will to decline the offer: risks far greater (and potentially deadlier) than the few minutes of rewards. The German built their cars extremely well; but my brand new car was a total loss. And I live with sore shoulders and ego.
As as for the car analogy, I recently accidentally crashed my very expensive brand new German car (US$165,000) into a freeway way wall and I'd be dead immediately if I didn't have my seat belt on -- I likely would have been ejected out of the car! So I will try my best to decline the BBFS offer. And I won't see that SP again.
Haha damn..and I thought I had an expensive German car, but not now
It was a lease
. I'm so glad I bought gap insurance coverage! My auto insurance companies aren't happy with me for crashing a month old brand new Porsche 911 Turbo but driving a 911 (an awesomely scary experience at 130 mph) was on my bucket list but having unprotected sexual intercourse with an SP is NOT.I own a 997, it is trully a wonderful car. German cars at the exception of Porsche are crap really. On e39s alternators were water cooled because the engine got very hot. That's a quick fix without thinking longterm. Plastic everywhere to save on weight but ends up breaking after a short time, the list goes on.
Porsche is way overpriced and most models are nothing more than a fancy VW, which depending on the model and where it was built can be better than a similar class Porsche. I actually prefer BMW's that are built entirely in Bavaria, Germany.
How are the German SP's in Germany? Do the ladies there offer BBFS in most cases or regularly as part of the menu? If so, guys who want BBFS should go to Germany for that.
It was a lease
Now this is a great analogy for condom. A condom is gap insurance. When you first meet a girl (SP or not) and the relationship is just getting off the ground you use a condom until she is on the pill you both are tested and have discussed ramifications of unprotected sex? Or maybe it protects the gap between the two sexual organs???
I sometimes go on the classified ads website to lurk a bit and it really mind blow me to see some things. Here is an ads i saw couple days ago...
I censored the name and number because first i really don't want to help promote this person and obviously stay in the merb rules, but man thats pretty fucked up. Im not sure whats more gross tough between the scat thing or the bareback...
I can't understand that these persons openly promote themselves this way. Of course the person in this ad is not a spinner DDG obviously, but going that far to make $...
I censored the name and number because first i really don't want to help promote this person and obviously stay in the merb rules, but man thats pretty fucked up. Im not sure whats more gross tough between the scat thing or the bareback...
I can't understand that these persons openly promote themselves this way. Of course the person in this ad is not a spinner DDG obviously, but going that far to make $...
This thread is really eye opening, I think it's a topic of discussion that could go on forever. My younger years were during a time of "Free Love" and let me tell you the only thing that was feared was the prospect of starting a family unexpectedly. Since my divorce I have had several long term relationships and in each case made an agreement with the woman in question (once we agreed to be exclusive) that we would both go and be tested. In one case the young lady had Chlamydia and was unaware . The crux of the agreement was that we would remain exclusive and that if tempted or either of us wanted out we would simply tell the other before entering into a sexual relationship that would put the other at risk. I have found that this honesty has allowed me to enjoy time and sex with my partner without fear of contracting anything deadly. I encourage you all to think about the consequences of your sexcapades
A few Winnipeg posters have accused providers who offer bare full service. We have an informal "no fly list".
Sometimes several people say "yes she offered it" other times it seems like a lone unhappy customer.
Accusations have to be very carefully examined. This can obviously be a disaster for an innocent woman, and there is always that one asshole with a grudge against some woman.
Sometimes several people say "yes she offered it" other times it seems like a lone unhappy customer.
Accusations have to be very carefully examined. This can obviously be a disaster for an innocent woman, and there is always that one asshole with a grudge against some woman.
There's ways to tackle this ,its called corroboration of credible people ,many of you will guess the rest ?
Since it's not a new phenomenon experience escort operators from my beginning had ways to keep it to a minimum .
The demand as the offer
Cheers
Booker
Sorry but I have no trust in that one, too much bullshittery going on now, 30 yrs ago perhaps. But as stated, 30 yrs ago there was not much to worry about.
It's incredible this still goes on, though I can't say it's surprising. Thanks for taking a firm common sense stand by acting for the safety of all participants in the industry no matter who the clients are or whether they have been faithful long time clients. There should never be any equivocation on this issue and everyone in the industry should support and applaud your action 100%.
I agree that today is much different than 30 years ago but that being said, I'm 30 years older and wiser. I can spot a liar a mile away these days. If in doubt........... and yes, I have walked away because I had a suspicion
I agree that today is much different than 30 years ago but that being said, I'm 30 years older and wiser. I can spot a liar a mile away these days. If in doubt........... and yes, I have walked away because I had a suspicion
I have found throughout history "human beings" are extremely consistent in their strengths, weaknesses, and quirks. The only thing that has changed in 30 years is the span of reach of the consequences and the ability of resources to deal with them.
Regarding whether you can find honesty or not, in relationships people will gravitate toward certain types of partners. A lot of the chances of finding faithfulness or honesty is mostly determined by the strengths and/or faults of the individuals making the choices and their ability to stick to them rather than yield short term "excitement". In short, what you look for and desire is often what you get. Human beings can have faithfulness and honesty if that's really what they are prioritizing, but many say they want that then pick a partner they know does not meet that priority or has a lesser chance of living up to that. Yes you can be fooled but more often you fooled yourself about what you could easily see would happen, or you knew you were moving toward something else and did it anyway.
If you want honesty you must first be honest from within.
Like Hungry, to tell my own experience, that was very but very rare that someone proposed that or even more rare that someone tried a "direct approach without telling" (only once and the guy was more than tipsy, celebrating a great success at his job... He wanted me to stay all night long after that our convinced time together, and I was not trusting him anymore enough... He could have tried while I was sleeping, no thank you sir, I will pass) and after, he was so upset that I told him no, that he just decided to not give the donation for the extra hour I stayed. The only time I have been fooled that way. So I learned.
Maybe the fact that I am an experienced indy ...not meeting last minute with a kind of screening prevent those things? I just don't know.
I just know that all the people who want to take advantage of someone and make her do something "strange" are running after the new girls, because they are so "innocent". And I can tell because I had made a brief incursion in another sex work a couple of years of that under another name, and I lived all that kind of pressure again... (and I received very good reviews for that other sex work as well by the way ;-) ... Anyway, old stories now. The only thing why I am talking about it is to relate that yes!! when you are new in the biz, oh boy that you are sollicited for everything usually "prohibited".
personal comment: Is it just me, or do you feel strange when a subject open about "what some hobbists might do wrong" we are having automatically an auto-defense replica that state that "oh, you know, girls are doing it too!" Me think sincerely that girls are just answering to the demands and there's someone, somewhere, that show them that was "working" like that. Because that's such strange, all the ladies that I know are just scared about BBFS.
Maybe the fact that I am an experienced indy ...not meeting last minute with a kind of screening prevent those things? I just don't know.
I just know that all the people who want to take advantage of someone and make her do something "strange" are running after the new girls, because they are so "innocent". And I can tell because I had made a brief incursion in another sex work a couple of years of that under another name, and I lived all that kind of pressure again... (and I received very good reviews for that other sex work as well by the way ;-) ... Anyway, old stories now. The only thing why I am talking about it is to relate that yes!! when you are new in the biz, oh boy that you are sollicited for everything usually "prohibited".
personal comment: Is it just me, or do you feel strange when a subject open about "what some hobbists might do wrong" we are having automatically an auto-defense replica that state that "oh, you know, girls are doing it too!" Me think sincerely that girls are just answering to the demands and there's someone, somewhere, that show them that was "working" like that. Because that's such strange, all the ladies that I know are just scared about BBFS.
In my earlier years as a hobbyist, one girl i saw told me a story about a new girl her agency had recently hired. I had asked her about a new girl they had recently hired (i think her name was Marjolaine, but i'm not sure since this happened over a dozen years ago). I told her that this particular girl had been offered to me, but i had declined since i knew nothing about her & there were only two or three girls from the agency that i was interested in seeing, including the girl i was with.
The girl replied "Good thing you didn't see her. She's fucking stupid." "What do you mean by that?", i asked. She told me that the previous day, which was that particular girl's first day on the job, she saw a client and when she got back to the group sitting in the car/van afterwards, she told them that everything went well, but that she had forgot to bring condoms. "So you used the guy's condoms?", one of the girls asked. "No, he didn't have any, so we did anal instead", the naive girl replied. The girls (and the driver) were shocked to hear this. "Are you fucking crazy??", one of the girls asked. The girl didn't know why they were so upset about it. She replied something to the effect "well, what was i supposed to do? None of us had any condoms."
I just read all these posts.I can not believe that these guys are asking this from the girls.I just booked a girl with James and he is flabergasted with these clients asking this from his girls.He told me he had another guy try it on one of his girls again yesterday he band him.James you are doing the right thing protecting your girls if I was an SP I would want someone like you on my side.No fucking around with this shit.
Out of curiosity how far is he willing to go to "protect" his staff. In some part of the world Pimps would kick the shit out of the customer if he did something to the girl.he didn't pay for or was not agreed by the pimp. If he has no muscle he can't do much. You might want to write little posts all you want but in the end if you can't make sure that there are real consequences this will become something you'll have to deal regularly.
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