And being asked for a menu is a red flag for a lot of SPs.
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And being asked for a menu is a red flag for a lot of SPs.
“Rates and services please”
I’ve almost completely stopped responding to those. I’m not just going to drill off every single thing I offer or would be willing to offer in hopes of potentially landing on whatever it is you have in mind. And even if I did, not listing it doesn’t mean I’m not willing. I cant name something I may not even know exists but am down to try.
So yes menu and menu related talk is 100% red flag for me.
The below are my personal Green / Red Flags:
Green Flags:
- Clear and concise communication
- Mostly positive reviews (YMMV taken into account)
- Well designed and informative website with matching social media footprint
- Unambiguous pricing and service summary (No, this does not mean a menu with acronyms)
Red Flags: (No judgment and I totally understand the reason behind some of the requirements, but each of them is a deal breaker for me) - This also answers the question of @Rebaynia
- ID requirement for screening
- LinkedIn profile requirement
- Pre-payment / deposits
- Handing the money to another person prior to the encounter
- More than one review that mentions bad hygiene
- More than one review that mentions attitude issues
- More than one mention of smoker breath
- Fake / only outdated photos
- False advertising
Green Flags:
- Clear and concise communication
- Mostly positive reviews (YMMV taken into account)
- Well designed and informative website with matching social media footprint
- Unambiguous pricing and service summary (No, this does not mean a menu with acronyms)
Red Flags: (No judgment and I totally understand the reason behind some of the requirements, but each of them is a deal breaker for me) - This also answers the question of @Rebaynia
- ID requirement for screening
- LinkedIn profile requirement
- Pre-payment / deposits
- Handing the money to another person prior to the encounter
- More than one review that mentions bad hygiene
- More than one review that mentions attitude issues
- More than one mention of smoker breath
- Fake / only outdated photos
- False advertising
This would also be a red flag to me and a head scratcher.
Does she even get the money? Is she doing that against her will?
Not red flags, literal dealbreakers
Yes, all my red flags are dealbreakers for me personally
My answer is i don't give ideas... tell me what your looking for and i will let you know if it is gfe, extra, or unavailable....
I wouldn't want every person i see to expect the same thing all the time... i need this to be fun too, for me it is playtime, and everyone plays differently...
i don't want my days to be filled doing the same thing over and over, and i don't want to have to do everything all the time either because that's just exhausting...And if it isn't something they have desired before, why should I be the one to plant it in their head to try it..
Green flags:
Include some information about yourself.
A few pictures, nothing too explicit, let me wonder a little.
And always show your rates.
Red flags:
The opposite of the green flags.
I have not seen an Indy in a long time, and all because of one particular lady, she turned me off and i just moved on. I don't get it when you ask us to send you an email , answering all your questions and then i ask a few questions of my own, just to be told that i ask too many questions and to fuck off.
I wont apologies for asking questions, the questions i posed were perfectly within my rights as a client.
I like an all natural woman, my questions were exactly in this line of information.
If i want to know if you have extensions, wear wigs, any enhancements, i think these are questions that should not be considered rude.
My rant for a beautiful Saturday night. Time to head out and seek some personal attention.
Include some information about yourself.
A few pictures, nothing too explicit, let me wonder a little.
And always show your rates.
Red flags:
The opposite of the green flags.
I have not seen an Indy in a long time, and all because of one particular lady, she turned me off and i just moved on. I don't get it when you ask us to send you an email , answering all your questions and then i ask a few questions of my own, just to be told that i ask too many questions and to fuck off.
I wont apologies for asking questions, the questions i posed were perfectly within my rights as a client.
I like an all natural woman, my questions were exactly in this line of information.
If i want to know if you have extensions, wear wigs, any enhancements, i think these are questions that should not be considered rude.
My rant for a beautiful Saturday night. Time to head out and seek some personal attention.
You understand what in trying to say. On occasion, clients express a desire to read reviews about service providers, but unfortunately, these providers often attempt to divert the conversation or avoid discussing the topic altogether regarding the client inquiry.
KingRonSanders sum it up pretty well.
One of the biggest major turn off for me is the social media attitude. Either complaints against clients at every turn or a "gold digger" attitude. Like consistently asking for gifts, or giving the feeling she's doing us a major favor seeing us. On the opposite a nice social media attitude is obviously a turn on, i mean not sexually but as in giving a good impression.
When it comes to reviews you can't please everyones so i understand a few neutral to negative reviews (as long as its not ultra bad) is fine, if there is lots of good reviews.
The booking process can also be a "red" or "green" flag. I like to keep it simple. Its complicated enough to deal with some stuff in life you have no choice, if i plan an escort trip to the city, its already complicated for me setting everything from travel to hotel etc, i don't want to have to add on top of that.
And finally the donation. I know some peoples may disagree with me on this but if the price is way above market price this give me a sense of entitlement and a lack of respect for the customers. It goes around a bit to my first point about social media.
One of the biggest major turn off for me is the social media attitude. Either complaints against clients at every turn or a "gold digger" attitude. Like consistently asking for gifts, or giving the feeling she's doing us a major favor seeing us. On the opposite a nice social media attitude is obviously a turn on, i mean not sexually but as in giving a good impression.
When it comes to reviews you can't please everyones so i understand a few neutral to negative reviews (as long as its not ultra bad) is fine, if there is lots of good reviews.
The booking process can also be a "red" or "green" flag. I like to keep it simple. Its complicated enough to deal with some stuff in life you have no choice, if i plan an escort trip to the city, its already complicated for me setting everything from travel to hotel etc, i don't want to have to add on top of that.
And finally the donation. I know some peoples may disagree with me on this but if the price is way above market price this give me a sense of entitlement and a lack of respect for the customers. It goes around a bit to my first point about social media.
It all depends how it’s asked. But also why do you care about extensions and wigs? Are you into hair pulling?
I always mention it to people not to pull my hair because I wear hair extensions. I haven’t had any complaints so far, rest of me is all mine.
I have been told by many in person and I’ve read here and elsewhere that Twitter could be a dealbreaker for many. After all it’s a marketing tool for us so it’s always better to present ourself in a positive light.
You might have a bad encounter but there’s no need to go on Twitter to complain. It might scare some clients away.
Personally not into hair pulling much but love hair PLAYING. I mean putting my hand in hairs gently especially during BJ. Unless its a restriction specifically told me its something i enjoy. I don't mind hair extensions but i am not a fan of wigs. They usually don't look good, look very fake and remind me too much of movies with street walkers . Just personal pov of course.
Fair enough. I’ve noticed that too, men tend to like grabbing my head/hair.
That made me think of:
Its just so a nice feeling moving your hand into beautifull soft hairs . Maybe it classify as a fetish? Lol
lol I get the hands in hair, grabbing hair, even pony tailing it, but any other girls experience the ones that earmuff the hair? like rotate the hands as if your adjusting winter earmuffs? It breaks my concentration and I just want to tell them not to knot it all up lol, I can just imagine the tangles they are making and just don't like it. seems to be the same guys who like to figure the ear.
When I told master he found it funny too that they would do that.... I find that so F***ed up... I've only seen people from 1 location seem to do this. I get different cultures.. but really I'm sure their women wouldn't enjoy it either so where do they ever get it to do that yeesh...
I always try to be mindful and respectful with all genders, so i believe i asked nicely. And no to hair pulling unless both parties agree. Like i said, all natural and i like to caress a woman's hair and scalp, running my fingers through their hair and to not be told, please not the hair, or my fingers getting tangled up in extensions and i guess same reason for wigs.
Also, whenever a lady leaves my place, there's hair everywhere when they have wigs and extensions. Sink, shower, floor and of course the bed.
When i call agency's, i ask these questions and a few more, i am not told to fuck off. Agency bookers know me and know what i like and dislike, so most times we bypass all the questions. Sometimes i just have to refresh their memories without any hitches or glitches.
Like i always say, your bodies are yours to do as you wish, but please, do it for yourself, not for me, i love you the way you are. Plus most of the time, your personality will outshine anything you may want to enhance.
I'm surprised no one brought this up but an sp who advertises "party friendly" is kind of a red flag for me. I couldn't care less with you use as I am a poly substance user myself and have had really intense substance fueled sessions but to advertise it seems sketchy. I don't know if said sp is looking to provide party favour, profit of my stash or was willing to barter sex for substances which is more risk than necessary.
Thank you, that’s an excellent point. I personally do not work with sex workers that are “party friendly” who that like to party. What you do in your personal time is your business but I care about my reputation and I don’t want to take the risk to work with someone who is too intoxicated to be on their A1.
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