No price I never even want to sleep at her place I asked her if I could she said sure. Everything planned with her.
Cheated by Montreal sp
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Do you think I would rush. No, I never rushed she was the one who initiated all these. She wanted to go to a club, party, lunch, everything.
Yeah man I thought she was a good soul, she was very open to me. I thought it was true.
She thought of visiting an agency to collect details on Monday but before that she want to see the city on Sunday. No she never asked for payment. It was like normal civi date. She is coming on Saturday afternoon returning to Montreal on Monday afternoon so no way to work.
She has some other work but plan got canceled but still she want to come and see the city.
I think she want to switch to Toronto as she had an issue with agency but she had talked to the people and sorted out maybe that’s why. But my issue is she could’ve been direct. At 12.30 she told me in 20min she’ll be in Toronto I told I’ll be there at 3 or before. She said ok and told me she’s walking around and don’t like Toronto and might be leaving I got shocked. Told her she’ll be happy and wait. Once I got ready and toluene my car on, I asked for location that’s when she said, she left Toronto and will meet me in Montreal. I was halfway through with all gifts and well dressed. Fucked up. After that never messaged.
today morning 7.30 I asked if she left, no reply. I asked her where she is, no reply and few others, no reply. Suddenly got a message at 1.30 that she’ll be in 20 min. Normally she messages me fast today very different.
No pal I still like her. She was a nice lady. I don’t want to ruin her career. She gave number and want to book directly if I visit Montreal she’ll get fucked.
I agree. Locks to me like like he got caught up in the situation. The girl is an escort not his Girlfriend and anyone who has been in the game for any serious amount of time should know that escorts change their schedules and plans on a dime. It wasn't this escort that told him to set up this whole itinerary, he seemed to have done it by his own choosing, trying to impress beyond what is reasonable. In the end he scammed himself and hopefully its lesson learned. No point in naming the escort, as this can be the the same with the majority of such agency girls.
I don’t see such a big deal other than your ego was hurt or you really have the hots for this girl that bad.
So you spent some money on a cruise and on a gift, so what put it down to a learning experience.
Go on the cruise depending on the gift give it to a friend, a sister, or the next SP only this time get to know her before giving anything more extravagant if that is what you did.
Yeah it sucks if you have the hots for this girl but she is an SP and not your girlfriend and you don’t really know her from a whole in the wall so you are probably much better off than if she does something like this once you establish a chemistry and dumps you after.
Im just putting my experience so that so that others could learn. Nothing against the sp. I didn’t even mention her name. Also, I know what to do with the gifts.
I think most others have already learned lol
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Sorry this happened to you man. I don't think you were cheated though. You acted like a horny virgin, and got burned. I learned this with civilian girls in my youth. Planned a lot, spent a bit of money, motivated by my own starry-eyed fantasies, and then the girl was either fickle or got scared by my enthusiasm and my money and efforts were wasted.
With a civilian girl, if she bails, you just write it off that you were incompatible, or she's shallow or a hotter guy came along, and then you move on. I wouldn't say she cheated you.
With an SP who bails, I don't think you can call it cheating if you guys did not come to a financial arrangement.The situation sounds like the same as with a civilian girl, only with this one, you had previously had some sort of financial contract for your first rendezvous. This Toronto visit didn't have any financial contract, so I would be hard pressed to call it cheating.
It sucks, and she may be a bad person to change her mind so suddenly, but that's life. You can't expect to date and not pay this girl like a GF, and then expect her to not cheat you like an SP. Which one is it, are you paying for her time, or not?
To be fair, I might have done the same thing you did, and got burned, and felt shitty about it.
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With a civilian girl, if she bails, you just write it off that you were incompatible, or she's shallow or a hotter guy came along, and then you move on. I wouldn't say she cheated you.
With an SP who bails, I don't think you can call it cheating if you guys did not come to a financial arrangement.The situation sounds like the same as with a civilian girl, only with this one, you had previously had some sort of financial contract for your first rendezvous. This Toronto visit didn't have any financial contract, so I would be hard pressed to call it cheating.
It sucks, and she may be a bad person to change her mind so suddenly, but that's life. You can't expect to date and not pay this girl like a GF, and then expect her to not cheat you like an SP. Which one is it, are you paying for her time, or not?
To be fair, I might have done the same thing you did, and got burned, and felt shitty about it.
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Cheating not financially but kind of emotionally. If she wouldn’t have replied me in the morning of the day that we planned I should’ve been good but she made sure I got ready, and started from my house.
Paying for her time doesn’t matter because she wants a favour from me to show her the city. I’m not a sugar daddy.
Normally with civie girls men initiate but this one was her.
I thought she was interested in me that’s how we were talking, once she informed me that she’ve booked an Airbnb and gave me the address. I was sure that she’d be here. But don’t know what happened just the night before.
[...] I liked the way she talked it looked genuine and true. That’s why I fell for her words.
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Despite all these she didn’t reveal her real name. She told me she would be comfortable after few meets. She was also telling me that she’s planning to move here as business was getting slow and boring, I said it will be the same here. So she just told me that would visit 2 times a week. I thought she wanted some help here so I wasn’t looking for sex alone. We talked so well I thought it was real friendship.
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Hey thanks for posting your story. Sounds like she played with you a bit, although hard to conclude for certain. Anyways, hopefully you can laugh and learn from this experience and move on.
FWIW here's another story. There was an agency girl in Montreal I saw several times a few years ago. On the last visit she mentioned some guy took her on a weekend trip. Just for fun I asked if she would ever consider me taking her on a trip, and she was game. Got her number and email and we stayed in touch. Sent her photos of a recent trip I took to Mexico and she was all "that's beautiful... I would love to go there...". Lol. I got the idea of setting up a trip with her, but quickly caught myself... I barely knew her and what's the rush? I decided I would put it to the test, if she would see me off the clock on my next trip to Montreal. When next trip came a few months later, we texted and agreed on plans she would come to my hotel after her day job (don't think she was working at the agency anymore). It was all set, things were great. But it ended up she couldn't come because... her phone battery died, then her roommate locked herself out of their apartment, etc. It all seemed rather lame to me and I suspected she was never serious. She sent me more messages afterwards but I never replied. Being in Montreal, it was easy to implement a Plan B. No investment made or lost, aside from some time spent in an amusing diversion.
FWIW here's another story. There was an agency girl in Montreal I saw several times a few years ago. On the last visit she mentioned some guy took her on a weekend trip. Just for fun I asked if she would ever consider me taking her on a trip, and she was game. Got her number and email and we stayed in touch. Sent her photos of a recent trip I took to Mexico and she was all "that's beautiful... I would love to go there...". Lol. I got the idea of setting up a trip with her, but quickly caught myself... I barely knew her and what's the rush? I decided I would put it to the test, if she would see me off the clock on my next trip to Montreal. When next trip came a few months later, we texted and agreed on plans she would come to my hotel after her day job (don't think she was working at the agency anymore). It was all set, things were great. But it ended up she couldn't come because... her phone battery died, then her roommate locked herself out of their apartment, etc. It all seemed rather lame to me and I suspected she was never serious. She sent me more messages afterwards but I never replied. Being in Montreal, it was easy to implement a Plan B. No investment made or lost, aside from some time spent in an amusing diversion.
It's almost similar, the only thing is you're not crying about it.
I think this has happened to a lot of guys here, me for one.
Mine was we were to go for dinner on a Saturday and then some loving later, she texted me and said first we have fun and after we go to dinner, my light lit up so bright they saw it on Mars.
Guess what right after I called a cab, she mysteriously gets a call that an emergency came up.
I never went back, even though she did text me back few times asking me to go see her, B TW she never offered an apology. Yeah I was pissed at first, but then after dinner and a few drinks later at a bar I laughed and laughed.
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