DFK refused?

[AlmostMidaged]

Lfk tongue’s touch and move a bit. Only minor depth of tongue crossover to the other mouth.

Dfk tongue’s collide for multiple seconds or times. Total depth and or mouth penetration.

The word deep before French kissing tells you what you need to know.

 

[cloudsurf]

Now I remember.....

I got denied once. This was the second meeting with a girl who was great on my first time meeting her. She was aggressive on the DFK department with all that deep tongue play and all. Then on the second time I saw her a few months later the whole thing just dropped down a few notches to the point of why even bother. Then after some talk she stated she got a boyfriend and she is still banging for $$$ and he doesn't know that she was doing this. Doh! She started getting upset, I took half of the donation and her meal as it was a dinner engagement and sent her home.

Something like this happened with my ATF. On our third date I found that she was all of a sudden hesitating about kissing. I asked wtf is going on and she told me that she has a new BF and doesn`t feel right about kissing me.
I said no kiss no see. I told her that I don`t want to see her again until she starts kissing again. Three weeks passed and I got an email from her telling me that she dropped her BF and wanted to see me.
For the next 5 years till she got married , she was an avid kisser with me.

 

[Anna Bijou]

#3 is the way to go.
#1 and #2 not so much.
But definitely a skilled #3 for me.

Notice there's no aggressive tongue invasion lol

At 4m30s

 

[Anna Bijou]

Lfk tongue’s touch and move a bit. Only minor depth of tongue crossover to the other mouth.

Dfk tongue’s collide for multiple seconds or times. Total depth and or mouth penetration.

The word deep before French kissing tells you what you need to know.

Well that is the definition of dfk that worries me when I get asked. To me, that is way beyond dfk, that's buccal assault or oral invasion.

And that's the issue illustrated right here. Not all men have this definition of dfk. So wth am I suppose to answer when I'm asked if I offer dfk? Specifically ask them what their definition is? Lol

I hate that acronym.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Well that is the definition of dfk that worries me when I get asked. To me, that is way beyond dfk, that's buccal assault or oral invasion.

And that's the issue illustrated right here. Not all men have this definition of dfk. So wth am I suppose to answer when I'm asked if I offer dfk? Specifically ask them what their definition is? Lol

I hate that acronym.

You already answered this yourself a few post above. Just say you are offering kissing, nothing else, they will have to figure it out.

 

[Anna Bijou]

You already answered this yourself a few post above. Just say you are offering kissing, nothing else, they will have to figure it out.

OK is that your way to tell me to shut up already? lol

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

No, not to shut up! I would never do that.

 

[bel.jon]

#3 is the way to go.
#1 and #2 not so much.
But definitely a skilled #3 for me.

Notice there's no aggressive tongue invasion lol

At 4m30s

Ok mais qui fait 1 et 2 . Ça doit tellement être désagréable

 

[Anna Bijou]

You want to know why some providers are cautious about DFK? Because of

The Buffet
The Vampire
The Reptile
The Spin Cycle
The Darth Vader

I'm sorry but these are all traumatizing. Especially when subjected to again and again.

When someone asks if I provide DFK, I have no way to know if what they have in mind is The Reptile or The Spin Cycle. Because those are most definitely NOT my definition of DFK.

 

[Fradi]

You want to know why some providers are cautious about DFK? Because of

The Buffet
The Vampire
The Reptile
The Spin Cycle
The Darth Vader

I'm sorry but these are all traumatizing. Especially when subjected to again and again.

When someone asks if I provide DFK, I have no way to know if what they have in mind is The Reptile or The Spin Cycle. Because those are most definitely NOT my definition of DFK.

I don’t know if this was meant to be funny or not because actually it is kind of gross and I doubt anybody is talking about this being either DFK or LFK.
This I can see is a touchy subject with you as it is with me as I totally enjoy kissing and find it is one of the best parts of being with a woman, but as with all things it is only enjoyable if both are comfortable with it.
For me personally I would rather not see a woman who turns her head away when you are trying to kiss her, but kissing doesn’t mean an assault on her mouth either.

 

[Anna Bijou]

Seriously? The ones I named because they have been some people's idea of DFK. Why else would I share this. That's only a sampler btw.

I'm just posting to explain what I mean when I say it's hard to agree ahead of time to something you don't know means to the other person. I like kissing but I don't like kissing like that. That's not dfk to me. But I assure you it is to many people who then think the lady isn't providing something she promised. If I promise dfk, that in the video is not what I'm promising. That's all. Didn't mean to offend.

 

[Fradi]

You didn’t offend I just can’t believe anybody would actually do what is shown in that video, I was not sure if you meant it as a joke or you were serious.
To me that whole video was gross, that is definitely not what kissing is about and that video was meant to be a total exaggeration, I don’t see why any man would do that to a woman.
If this is just a sampler then you have definitely met the wrong kind of people. and it is a shame you had to deal with such behaviour.

 

[cloudsurf]

You know what guys it`s different strokes for different folks. As long as both participants enjoy it , then it`s not gross. Pamela loved it when Tommy licked her face. I had a g/f who loved to lick my eye balls. I had another g/f who would get an orgasm when I licked and bit her ears. The tongue is a very talented and erotic organ and kissing can take on many varieties.

 

[Anna Bijou]

You know what guys it`s different strokes for different folks. As long as both participants enjoy it , then it`s not gross. Pamela loved it when Tommy licked her face. I had a g/f who loved to lick my eye balls. I had another g/f who would get an orgasm when I licked and bit her ears. The tongue is a very talented and erotic organ and kissing can take on many varieties.

Totally agree. And the same thing may be enjoyable or a turn on with one person but not with another.

In the context of escort and clients, I think people should maybe be clearer about what they want than just saying DFK.

Fradi: meeting the wrong people -
Well I've met a lot of people (who are we kidding lol) so my odds of meeting reptile style kissing are greater than the average person.

There is definitely a significant number of people who kiss in some of the ways shown in the video. I'm a living version of a research project & using fairly representative sampling. Ha!

However, I obviously have my personal preference and kissing style so what may not be enjoyable to me could be perfect for another lady.

When kissing is good it's really good!

 

[cloudsurf]

When kissing is good it's really good!

Ahmen to that

 

[Lucky 64]

Ahmen to that

I really like reading merb lol !!! It started with a bad breath to a definition of French kissing!!!Again the chemistry between two persons and depends how it s done .I war reading a review not long ago about an so who used het tongue down the troath and someone guys were disgust lol !! Kissing is it supposed to be sensual and part of a built up to turn you on

 

[CLOUD 500]

Totally agree. And the same thing may be enjoyable or a turn on with one person but not with another.

In the context of escort and clients, I think people should maybe be clearer about what they want than just saying DFK.

However, I obviously have my personal preference and kissing style so what may not be enjoyable to me could be perfect for another lady.

When kissing is good it's really good!

When contacting an escort and there are no reviews I will always ask if she does DFK and I will describe explicitly what I want because DFK is the most important part of the session. Just asking for deep french kiss with tongue is very descriptive and offers no margin for error. However some escorts get offended when you are explicit and some will just cut you off.

 

[parmenides]

I think there is something lovely about not knowing what will happen. The bad dates make the good ones even better. Why try to make sure everything will be perfect. That kills the spontaneity. The duds are part of the learning. That being said, I used to play the French Horn

 

[Anna Bijou]

When contacting an escort and there are no reviews I will always ask if she does DFK and I will describe explicitly what I want because DFK is the most important part of the session. Just asking for deep french kiss with tongue is very descriptive and offers no margin for error. However some escorts get offended when you are explicit and some will just cut you off.

All of the styles in the video mean DFK to some people. Saying deep French kissing with tongue doesn't tell me if your tongue likes The Reptile or The Spin Cycle. But I understand what you are saying and I guess there's really not much more you can say. But it's just something I have learned to manage.

Tbh I have turned down appointments when someone put a lot of emphasis on DFK, lots of it and that it was the most important thing for them. In those situations, I just didn't know if I could provide what they had in mind and didn't want to risk an awkward, disappointing experience on both sides, so I declined.

In reality, I may have totally enjoyed their version of DFK but I couldn't know that. And I just really can't promise reptilian tongue kissing as main feature. It's just the way it is. Makes me anxious so I just avoid it so they can find someone who doesn't mind.

But I get that it's not really possible to describe more and that most providers probably feel differently about it than I do. One of my quirks, maybe. Lol

 

[Flyingby]

You want to know why some providers are cautious about DFK? Because of

The Buffet
The Vampire
The Reptile
The Spin Cycle
The Darth Vader

I'm sorry but these are all traumatizing. Especially when subjected to again and again.

When someone asks if I provide DFK, I have no way to know if what they have in mind is The Reptile or The Spin Cycle. Because those are most definitely NOT my definition of DFK.

That was funny
Disgusting but funny
Could not bring myself to watch the full video