(warning : sarcasm ahead)
I've never thought of that before.
Lol
But seriously, I know what you're saying. But some people don't actually want to be coached. Of course I try. At first, with subtle hints, Body language, eventually just explain that perhaps they should be careful about their saliva (the post above just reminded me of the few experiences where the person would literally leave a puddle of saliva in my mouth.)
Just like daty, there are some people who are more interested in doing things in a way they specifically enjoy, or they just don't know how to do it differently. That's just how it is.
I don't doubt that it's the same for women. It's not a gender specific way. There are reptile kisses of both genders who think of the other as an amazing kisser when they happen to meet someone who likes to kiss the way they do.
Like I said, when it's good it's really good. And when it's bad it's really bad and too often gross too