In this case if you ever find yourself in that situation it might be best to just coach them (explain to him how you like to be kissed). Some people really do not know how to kiss and no one ever explained it to them. The same goes for anything else like DATY. I came across some girls also that had no idea how to kiss (none of them were escorts, just regular girls or strippers). But all of this is always YMMV.
DFK refused?
- Thread starter Hunterzzzzz
- Start date
Some people over do it with DFK, I definitely feel there is a difference between a sensual DFK and someone wishing to DFK you and there is saliva dripping down mouth or too much saliva or bubbles of saliva. Some people enjoying spitting in Sp’s face or mouth….
Saliva exchange or over putting one’s mouth over the Sp’s.
It should be something enjoyable for both people and there definitely is a sexy way to kiss someone and a sloppy type of way of kissing someone….
(warning : sarcasm ahead)
I've never thought of that before.
Lol
But seriously, I know what you're saying. But some people don't actually want to be coached. Of course I try. At first, with subtle hints, Body language, eventually just explain that perhaps they should be careful about their saliva (the post above just reminded me of the few experiences where the person would literally leave a puddle of saliva in my mouth.)
Just like daty, there are some people who are more interested in doing things in a way they specifically enjoy, or they just don't know how to do it differently. That's just how it is.
I don't doubt that it's the same for women. It's not a gender specific way. There are reptile kisses of both genders who think of the other as an amazing kisser when they happen to meet someone who likes to kiss the way they do.
Like I said, when it's good it's really good. And when it's bad it's really bad and too often gross too
I sense that there are people who don't know how to enjoy themselves at all and that seeing sps is intended as a simulation of trying to match watching porn stars enjoy themselves (assuming that porn stars are actually enjoying themselves). People do this in terms of music taste, what films they watch, books, sports, etc. Nothing of their own in it-just trying to meet someone else's ideal. Some sps, however, are amazing at the kind of education involved in learning to enjoy one's self, but it is rare to find them. Should be schools for this stuff.(warning : sarcasm ahead)
I've never thought of that before.
Lol
But seriously, I know what you're saying. But some people don't actually want to be coached. Of course I try. At first, with subtle hints, Body language, eventually just explain that perhaps they should be careful about their saliva (the post above just reminded me of the few experiences where the person would literally leave a puddle of saliva in my mouth.)
Just like daty, there are some people who are more interested in doing things in a way they specifically enjoy, or they just don't know how to do it differently. That's just how it is.
I don't doubt that it's the same for women. It's not a gender specific way. There are reptile kisses of both genders who think of the other as an amazing kisser when they happen to meet someone who likes to kiss the way they do.
Like I said, when it's good it's really good. And when it's bad it's really bad and too often gross too
It`s rare , but I love it when a woman gets so aroused that she drools from both ends.....her pussy as well as her mouth.
It`s a joke but I love my women like I love my beer......foaming at the mouth. lol.
The older I get the more ways I find female arousal, in its intricate and different ways so fascinating. It`s a merry go round .
There’s many reasons an sp might not dfk/kiss..
It’s something very intimate that she wants to keep for her personal life. (She’s already providing a service with her body.. maybe she just wants to keep her lips for her spouse)
Sometimes it’s because of a bad experience where a person tried to shove their whole tongue in her mouth..
It’s something very intimate that she wants to keep for her personal life. (She’s already providing a service with her body.. maybe she just wants to keep her lips for her spouse)
Sometimes it’s because of a bad experience where a person tried to shove their whole tongue in her mouth..
Maybe...but if you work for a reputable agency in Montreal it's usually GFE or GTFO.
I will never understand this a BJ and FS is not personal but DFK is and they want to keep it for their personal life.
Strange way to justify to yourself that what you are doing is just business but when you DFK it is love or personal at least to me it is.
Hope the spouse is satisfied with this special treatment reserved especially for them, personally I could never accept my girlfriend/spouse having sex with other men while she is with me.
NO MAN understands this reasoning, Fradi. And any guy who tells a sp he understands this logic is just lying to stay on her good side lol.
Some girls, luckily only a very few, use this line as a way to test the limits of their intimate service denial. Its a bullshit excuse.
Dearie me, I might just be a woman then!
I have the same mindset about DFK in my personal life. I make a distinction between romance and sex, and DFK is one of them. It's the same logic as saying that if I sleep with you, it doesn't mean I want to be in a relationship with you.
Sex is a very mechanical act to me. I mean, the instructions are pretty easy to follow. Passion and sensuality adds to the emotions, but romance is still something else. Like love, passion and attraction are different. I'm pretty sure that in most of women minds, kissing under the Eiffel tower is more romantic than sucking a cock under the Eiffel tower. Ask whichever would make her the happiest. BJs are more sexual for sure, but not necessarily more intimate. It just depends how your perceive things, and it's totally subjective, there's no written rational rules about it.
Anyways, just my two cents.
Sorry none of that makes any sense to me.
If you are going to fuck and suck someone else’s dick I wouldn’t consider it romantic that I am the only one you are kissing.
If it works for you and some of the ladies that kissing is the sign of romance and true love go fo it, personally any SP that will turn her head and not kiss whether that is LFK or DFK which is another topic on its own it will be the first and last time I see her, she is welcome to do all the kissing she wants with the one she is reserving it for.
These days DFK seems very 50/50. It used to be pretty much 9/10 SPs will provide DFK. It is another side effect of this mess
Can't wait until more talent comes back. CoVID is over and I've been seeing more new SPs come onto the roster. The ones that have been providing limited service will soon just lose all their clients (even poorly reviewed girls I have seen in the past have been fully booked in the past 2 years, just ridiculous)
Hopefully this summer, we see a boom of girls returning to MTL. Maybe the past 2 years of many SPs doing the bare minimum and still being fully booked, due to low supply, will end soon.
Can't wait until more talent comes back. CoVID is over and I've been seeing more new SPs come onto the roster. The ones that have been providing limited service will soon just lose all their clients (even poorly reviewed girls I have seen in the past have been fully booked in the past 2 years, just ridiculous)
Hopefully this summer, we see a boom of girls returning to MTL. Maybe the past 2 years of many SPs doing the bare minimum and still being fully booked, due to low supply, will end soon.
How is it bamboozling? Do you mind to elaborate, I’m not fully comprehending how something like that can be a cliche protocol.. it can actually be the truth
All we are saying ``give kiss a chance``(en excluant messy hazardous DFK).Anyhow an antique depuis d`antiquité!&in our époque commodifié maudite kiss!
Ahh they use that as an excuse to deny DFK. One logic and the only one I can think off is A)She hates this job so much and hates the clients or B)She is really turned off by that specific client. So the logic is when you DFK someone their whole face is in your face and your mouth and tongue, so if you hate the job or are turned off by that client the fact their face is in your face makes it hard. But a penis is a penis, if you do FS well often especially non GFE girls like to do doggystyle because your face is turned away from theirs. Either way I am with you on this one, I will never spend money on an escort that does not do DFK. To me it is the most pleasurable experience and guarantees me a hard on the rest is negotiable like I can live with CBJ but no DFK no way.
Post edited because I wrote it wrong.
Last edited:
Probably the main reason why most SPs claim that this is their favorite position, they dont see your face and you dont see theirs.
Similar threads
