Do you tip SPs?

[Lily from Montreal]

I would be very surprised f I knew beforehand but since I do not count the money at the beginning,I find it is tacky,I just expect to be able to see the donation prepared so I would not know...
It did happened it the past I found out after the meeting ,the pleasure is the same...

 

[BookerL]

My bookings are usually between 4 and 6 hours sometimes more !
I have tried giving the tip in the donation envelop many times ,it consisted of a $100 bill ,freshly printed !Lol

It went by ,unnoticed ,every time ,strange !Lol:lol:



Cheers




Booker

 

[lgna69xxx]

As far as tipping BEFORE the date, do most tip a waiter or any other service industry professional BEFORE the meal/service? Just a question, not judging others preferences. I suppose this works both ways. Like the old slipping the front desk clerk a $50 before they asign you a room, hoping to get a nice upgrade like Vegas used to be famous for.

I have tipped in the past if service was more than I expected but the best tip you can give any lady in this business is publicity with reviews, whether public or amongst friends privately, or helping the lady when she has any questions that you may have the answers to, etc... Also a great "tip" is repeating with her.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

BookerL,it is not unnoticed...I do count the money...only after... and shortchanging is a sure way not to get repeats...

 

[BookerL]

Hello lgna69xxx and all

As far as tipping BEFORE the date, do most tip a waiter or any other service industry professional BEFORE the meal/service? Just a question, not judging others preferences. I supposed this works both ways. Like the old slipping the front desk clerk a $50 before they asign you a room, hoping to get a nice upgrade like Vegas used to be famous for.

It is a argument which can be used ,however I do believed there is a big distinction between a waiter ,waitress ,
And SP of GFE/PSE ,and when you are already receiving a excellent service ,how much upgrade can you expect ?

I have tipped in the past if service was more than I expected but the best tip you can give any lady in this business is publicity with reviews, whether public or amongst friends privately, or helping the lady when she has any questions that you may have the answers to, etc... Also a great "tip" is repeating with her.

Well when you already do all of the above ,what is left to do to show great appreciation .




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[BookerL]

BookerL,it is not unnoticed...I do count the money...only after... and shortchanging is a sure way not to get repeats...

Sorry Lily I was not referring to your situation ,but mine ,and obviously short changing is a no repeat situation !



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[Lusty Pig]

I pay for the time and get the service. No more. I don't consider this a "tip industry". I don't want to be considered any more a sucker for having to pay for sex in the first place

 

[johnybird]

Reading what i'm reading hear, and on other boards, my way of thinking might be wrong

I have always thought of tipping as a little Impersonal. I've only seen independents and have the habit of seeing the same ones, I enjoy getting to know them and have gotten to know a couple of them really well which makes tipping them feel even more impersonal.

I have bought gifts in the past or I'll bring over something I know they enjoy or show my appreciation for them in different ways. I would imagine they appreciate that as much as a tip because of the thought and effort that goes behind it, I find it shows how much I appreciate them a lot more as opposed to taking out an extra $20 or $40 dollars at the end of the encounter.

But then again, like people have said here, it is a business after all so I may be waaaaaay off.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Not off,a gift is more personal but you have to have met before if you want to make sure it is the right one, a tip the first time is a happy medium to show appreciation for an over the top experience,just nice does not warrant a tip,it is supposed to be nice to meet lol
Good for you if you've met enough to reach the gift plateau. But again neither tip or gifts are expected...only a bonus

 

[UncleBob]

I find that when people negociate to get lower prices for their session, it has the effect of doing the opposite of tipping.
It is like asking the SP to tip the client
Some SP will accept to lower prices to keep good regulars. Some SP will offer to take less. But a client that ask to pay less no matter the reason, I find this behavior unrespectful...

A SP told me once that she was asking 200, the client negociated to 180, she accepted. Then after the session, he gave 200, lol... I guess he felt he tipped her

I will tip a girl once in a while if she provides exceptionnal service. And I tip after the session ended.

I still have a max budget of 200. So when asked price is 200, I very rarely tip. But it may happens on very exceptional situation.

 

[man77777]

I have bought gifts. I would imagine they appreciate that as much as a tip because of the thought and effort that goes behind it, I find it shows how much I appreciate them a lot more as opposed to taking out an extra $20 or $40 dollars at the end of the encounter.

You're not their friend nor their BF. They will never tell you cause an indies have to make you think you're the one, but they don't care how much you appreciate them and they want the relationship to stay "impersonnal" as you said, cause they don't want a personnal relationship with clients. If there were anything else than a business relationship between you and them, you wouldn't have to pay to see them. Sorry to say it so frankly, but it's sometimes useful to remind it.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Think i replied to that in the past but personally if i pay an extra, the extra is usually the tip for me. If she charge 200$ all included, then usually ill tip at least a 20, cause it does not go over my budget and im glad she was willing to go the extra mile. Now of course depend always if i had a good meeting. If no extra is allowed, then it would need to be a VERY exeptional session for me to tip.

Replies always varied for this, when i first started i wasn't tipping at all, it didn't crossed my mind, then some people said to me i should and all, so i started tipping but then i realized why should i tip for a "not so exeptional meeting"

The thing is i hate the concept of tip in the first place. In a bar you are literally expect to tip no matter the service you receive, and much more than 15% too. For a 4-5$ beer your expected to give 1$. In a restautant if you don't tip your usually seen as very greedy and they will notice you. Only fast food seem to be out of this ruling. Some of them like mcdo do not even allow tipping so when i go at other fast food i rarely tip. I mean ill give only the change that comes back, like if it cost 8.65 ill give the 35 cents... something like that. One case wich is a bugger me a lot is Subway... i live next to it, i go there very often, but i do not take vegetables in it or anything, im very basic. At first when i moved here i was tipping 1$ but then realized hell its costing me a lot... so i lowered it down to 50 cents... I feel i got to let a tip cause i go there often and they know me...

Anyway, back on SPs, it seem the norms are very separated. Some guys think because they book her lets say once per week that they should not tip, there repeated business is the tip if i can say. Other would think since they really like her and see her often, a tip should be given, while with a girl he will probably never meet again, then tipping would be a waste...

I dunno personally... guess it really depend on the budget...

As UncleBob mentioned, if you find an SP that still offer 180 and you have a good time, i would be more than happy to add the 20$ to make it 200. As 200 is more or less the minimum price these days. Its like when Wildtime started, i saw somebody there at something like 140$ or something, can't remmeber for sure but it was very low, i left a 35$ tip ... cause the price was so low.

 

[chowzilla]

I don't always tip, but when I do its because I had a really good time... As in the service was very good and felt intimate. If the service is just what is expected... Maybe I won't tip.

Essentially I tip so the girl remembers me

What sucks, is paying for a HDH and she does a really good job, that's when I struggle to tip cuz I feel you are already paying extra for the fact that she gives awesome service or she's extremely hot. Tipping would be expensive in the end. I guess in this situation it would depend on whether I'm determined to see her again.

 

[BookerL]

Tipping would be expensive in the end. I guess in this situation it would depend on whether I'm determined to see her again.

Hummmm! Tipping repeat ?No tipping no repeat ?

So the SP has the heads Up, on whether she will see you again?




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[johnybird]

You're not their friend nor their BF. They will never tell you cause an indies have to make you think you're the one, but they don't care how much you appreciate them and they want the relationship to stay "impersonnal" as you said, cause they don't want a personnal relationship with clients. If there were anything else than a business relationship between you and them, you wouldn't have to pay to see them. Sorry to say it so frankly, but it's sometimes useful to remind it.

I appreciate you being frank and I do understand your point, like any business you have to give your service with a smile if you want them to come back, I do it every day.

I don't consider myself a BF or “the one” to any of them, but there are a couple that I would consider more like friends than others. And with all due respect, it is possible to still maintain, and most importantly, respect the business relationship while still occasionally socializing or keeping in contact with someone outside the bedroom or “business hours”.

If you are walking out of an encounter with one of these women and it didn’t feel personal, then you have been seeing the wrong type of girl. And I do not mean any disrespect with that statement, I really don’t.

Not sure why you’re singling out Indies either.

Anyways we’re going off topic now, just had the need to address your post

 

[lgna69xxx]

Very much agree with this.

with all due respect, it is possible to still maintain, and most importantly, respect the business relationship while still occasionally socializing or keeping in contact with someone outside the bedroom or “business hours”.

 

[man77777]

If you are walking out of an encounter with one of these women and it didn’t feel personal, then you have been seeing the wrong type of girl. And I do not mean any disrespect with that statement, I really don’t

Agree with you, with a good SP, it always "feels" personal... But rarely is. That's their job to make it feels personal.

A lot of time I had the feeling there were more than just a business relationship. My humble experience showed me that when it really became personal (friendship or more), then the girl refused to be paid for any time I spent with her. That is for me a good test to see if she's sincere with me.

(If by personal, you were just talking about minimal socializing and light keep contact, then I totally agree with you)

 

[BookerL]

In my observation, everybody tries to screw the government : construction guys take cash jobs, rich customers ask contractors to bill their companies for work they do on their personal houses, wellfare people use the money to buy cigarettes and booze instead of trying to find a job, the list goes on (of course not all construction guys are like that, nor rich or wellfare people, but in all sectors people screw the government). Point it, reducing this to sps isn't treating them fairly, but that doesn't justify anybody not to pay taxes.
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Well ,I was involve in all those scenarios as a Booker !:lol:
Une anecdote ,je ne sais pas si c'est révélateur de quelque chose mais le premier du mois,j'avais plus de clients qui appelait et plus de filles qui" Bookais" off ,les coïncidences son parfois étrange n'est ce pas ?

Ah oui et les pourboires était meilleurs

Au Plaisir



Booker

 

[BookerL]

Lol j'ai aucune idée de quoi tu parles

Je parle de coincidences !Lol


Au Plaisir



Booker

 

[johnybird]

The point I was just making from my original post is that, to me, I felt giving a tip felt a little impersonal. It had nothing to do with if there was a friendship or not, if the girl was genuine or not. Even for a first encounter I find tipping impersonal.

Considering the nature of the time being spent with her. I think a well thought out gift or gesture would show my appreciation a lot better to her, again this is only how I feel. I'm not disagreeing with tipping or in any way against it.

Agree with you, with a good SP, it always "feels" personal... But rarely is. That's their job to make it feels personal.

A lot of time I had the feeling there were more than just a business relationship. My humble experience showed me that when it really became personal (friendship or more), then the girl refused to be paid for any time I spent with her. That is for me a good test to see if she's sincere with me.

(If by personal, you were just talking about minimal socializing and light keep contact, then I totally agree with you)