This is very common for québécois, I remember my grand mother using it when referring to her dog.
Guidoune is kind of like pitoune lol
This is very common for québécois, I remember my grand mother using it when referring to her dog.
hey you put a box other and we dont get to say what other is
my vote goes to
Me Love You Long Time
My mom says this ... yikes.
More in the general sense as old quebecois speak as you say but it can include sex workers. One of my friend's father used to say "allez au guidounes" while speaking of going to the strip club. It just when i saw this word it reminded me of older peoples using it in the age of my mother or friend's parents ...Is that what she means? Guidoune is a sex worker? Or like old québécois speak for slut shaming someone who's not technically a sex worker but seen as a little too much? Lol
Totally makes sense to use the term that you feel most comfortable with. Will also depends who you are talking too.
The term whore is used by a lot of sex workers referring to themselves, including myself - in specific circumstances. But it's never acceptable for anyone else to use is, especially if it's meant to insults obviously.
Most men AND women are so brainwashed by misogyny that even when we think we reject it, we can't help but have leftovers hidden in all kinds of places we don't realize. So no matter what, most people can't say it being 100% non offensive. So it's our word.
I absolutely hate hearing non sw women jokingly call each other or themselves whores because you just know that a little digging would uncover the response "I don't mean *that kind of whore*" (ok so stfu and find another fake way to seem edgy. Lol)
However I do want to bring something up Respectfully, just to give some pause for reflection.
(I don't think you meant any harm but just FYI to everyone who still uses this term, it's incredibly stigmatizing, derogatory, judgmental and unnecessary. It's also very rooted in racism. I think we can retire the offensive dehumanizing term "crack whore" once and for all, for good. It's uncalled for, addiction isn't a personal or moral failing and anyone who knows even a little about substance abuse, harm reduction and mental health knows its far more complex)
So that's my take, just food for thought. Always be suspicious when someone makes a lot of effort distancing themselves or throwing others under the bus for their own benefit. Getting off my soapbox now haha
Cheers! xo
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I have thought about it for a while! And now that someone pushed this thread to the top again, I'm going in.While some argue that "service providers" is a more respectful term that acknowledges the agency and independent of those involved, others may have different perspectives.
You dislike those terms probably because you prefer to hide the fact that you are hiring sex workers? When talking to me, other sex workers or about the profession to anyone, we should call a spade a spade, there should be no shame in that.I do not like any of the terms mentioned. I prefer to say companion or a date. At least if someone asks me what I am doing I'll simply say I have a date.
Good point. Like cash in an envelope... I don't hire because it's a donation. Therefore I'm not a client.you prefer to hide the fact that you are hiring sex workers?
No envelope needed with me!Good point. Like cash in an envelope...
Yes I hide it. I have only told a few people, and the reason is because a lot of the people I know won't understand, and, and this is a big and, my job. If at my work they were to find out that I hire, and I'll use the terms you so much like, hookers, whores or prostitutes I will get fired. Remember that this is still a taboo business so I try to be the most respectful as I can.You dislike those terms probably because you prefer to hide the fact that you are hiring sex workers? When talking to me, other sex workers or about the profession to anyone, we should call a spade a spade, there should be no shame in that.
No, I was not attacking you, mostly adding to your comment! I precised my thoughts in a following comment.And I think you're taking my comment the wrong way. You actually have a man who is respectful and a gentleman.
"Un prestataire de l aide social (bs) " recoit, il ne donne rien. Une sp donne et recoit.I have thought about it for a while! And now that someone pushed this thread to the top again, I'm going in.
I would say that the term "service provider" seems respectful, but because any business is a provider of something (Telus or Rogers are service providers), it takes everything away from what we actually do. The sexual aspect of our job is not mentioned, therefore it is respectable and polite. It's a prude term that I use on Twitter so my posts don't get concealed by the app.
I think "sex worker" is a respectful, neutral and inclusive umbrella term for all the possible jobs on the market. More importantly, it doesn't hide the fact that sex is work and should be accepted. Escort is good but only a category of sex work, same for stripper and pornstar. We all fit under "sex workers".
I forgot to add that in French service providers (prestataires de service) has no meaning for my job, it's not something you will ever hear. Travailleuses du sexe (sex workers) have the same meaning that everybody can understand in my two official languages.
Mecene=patronI think I use the word client because I'm not sure what else to refer to them as...
-I find refering to them as a john doesn't feel right.
-Beneficiary is just too long a word.
-Friend is just too informal.
They are clients, or regulars. The difference for me is a client I have seen once only, or not at all yet, and regular is someone I have met before, and there after.
I refer to going to see someone as visits, as I see them at their place, and it is the time I am visiting for that is paid, not the acts within.
Date for me has romance in it, and if I'm not being taken out on an actual date... I can't call it that, or how I view a real date is tarnished.
What about boyfriend? lolAnd what about "client"? I just hate this term. It sounds like a dumb ATM
Would a better term would be something like "beneficiary"?