Maybe she thought I felt judged by her since I didn't really wanna do anything after the first 20 minutes. Either way it wasn't a great way to end the encounter, or the night.
Have you ever met a SP that you were hyped up for but then met her & felt so disappointed?
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It sounds familiar to me, I heard it from a SP I saw once, verbatim. It could even be the same SP, judging by their choice of words.
I would note it was not a very good experience and the words she spoke I took to mean; " I am sorry I did not live up to your expectations'.
Indeed.
I met a SP in Toronto about a year ago. She had pages and pages of great reviews detailing her looks and service. It was a letdown on both fronts. It wasn't even a matter of YMMV. In theory I got all the services that were listed but there was just no chemistry at all and I felt zero attraction towards her physically.
In my head I pictured her to be like my ex from a few years back, which set an unrealistic (and probably unobtainable) standard in beauty, sexual energy and intimacy.
In my head I pictured her to be like my ex from a few years back, which set an unrealistic (and probably unobtainable) standard in beauty, sexual energy and intimacy.
You know, for as long as i have been at this, and reading the title, i cant say that i have. Now, not to say that i have never been disappointed, its just that i always go in with low expectations and try to never get hyped up about much in life.
I have heard that there's no such thing as a bad BJ, having a lady lube up your piston with her warm saliva, as her tongue slowly licks your cone of any drippings, well you get the point, even a bad BJ, done incorrectly will still feel good. Guidance is the key, some ladies think going fast is a good thing and concentrating on the entire shaft. I like a few quick DT, then brought to a long and slow movement, then a few more quick and long submerging's, with a little swirling of the tongue around the head area, as her hand glides up and down in a slow movement, with eye contact, she can gage the pressure that's needed to get you to the finish line.
So, if i am disappointed in a session, then its even worst then having being hyped up and then disappointed, because of my low expectations and yes i have been disappointed.
And i have to admit that there were times i was disappointed with myself, so i will not always blame the SP. There were times i wish i would of just said, sorry wrong hotel room but alas i am not this type of person, i would rather just go with the flow and have regrets then to hurt a ladies feelings by telling her she is not to my tastes and sending her away.
So, in the end, yes i have been disappointed by bad service or just not to my likings and I'm easy to please.
I know when i do my job and clients are disappointed with the work, ill always do right by them, but it seems that we can not always get the same in this industry from all providers.
Some ladies have apologized for poor service and said they would make it up to me, and its appreciated. I like this kind of professionalism, and sometimes its not about being professional, its about caring about what you do or the person that you shared this time with.
I have heard that there's no such thing as a bad BJ, having a lady lube up your piston with her warm saliva, as her tongue slowly licks your cone of any drippings, well you get the point, even a bad BJ, done incorrectly will still feel good. Guidance is the key, some ladies think going fast is a good thing and concentrating on the entire shaft. I like a few quick DT, then brought to a long and slow movement, then a few more quick and long submerging's, with a little swirling of the tongue around the head area, as her hand glides up and down in a slow movement, with eye contact, she can gage the pressure that's needed to get you to the finish line.
So, if i am disappointed in a session, then its even worst then having being hyped up and then disappointed, because of my low expectations and yes i have been disappointed.
And i have to admit that there were times i was disappointed with myself, so i will not always blame the SP. There were times i wish i would of just said, sorry wrong hotel room but alas i am not this type of person, i would rather just go with the flow and have regrets then to hurt a ladies feelings by telling her she is not to my tastes and sending her away.
So, in the end, yes i have been disappointed by bad service or just not to my likings and I'm easy to please.
I know when i do my job and clients are disappointed with the work, ill always do right by them, but it seems that we can not always get the same in this industry from all providers.
Some ladies have apologized for poor service and said they would make it up to me, and its appreciated. I like this kind of professionalism, and sometimes its not about being professional, its about caring about what you do or the person that you shared this time with.
It either meant she was fully judging him for the bad encounter or she wanted to diffuse the tension by making sure you understood she was not judging.
Weird way to end a meeting!
Out of all the SP's I saw it only happened to me once, had nothing to do with her looks or personality and we did communicate with DM's for a while before I met her.
When we finally met I had a great time talking with her during dinner but once we started, felt no chemistry. I feel like neither of us did.
I actually saw her again, because I did enjoy her company, thinking maybe it was an off day for me but still no chemistry.
When we finally met I had a great time talking with her during dinner but once we started, felt no chemistry. I feel like neither of us did.
I actually saw her again, because I did enjoy her company, thinking maybe it was an off day for me but still no chemistry.
Ok, service quality is wearing off with years of abuse... But then, if you would have to recommend a fresh, GFE, friendly, bubbly, gorgeous SP, who would that be?
My kind of prostitute tbh. I like women who don’t kiss just like Naya @Xo. Thank you for the headsup.
Especially the ones who say mid service or “would not repeat” just because the escort don’t allow “anal, dato, toes sucking or other more extreme acronyms that these tricks are into. Started hitting the “ignore” button on a lot of profiles after seeing there are many dudes who rate prostitutes only based on these things.
I stay away from SPs that fall in one of these categories, (it does not matter how much I like their pictures and profiles.
I had few horrible experiences in the past, but once I followed this rule, I did not have any bad experience)
1.those who shamelessly and pathetically beg for gifts and money on their twitter account. Since when it became OK to beg for money?
few years ago it was unthinkable that a person with a little bit of dignity and self-respect do this. its a HUGE turn-off for me
2. those who share their experience with other clients on their twitter account ( "last night was amazing with Mr x.(a picture of sushi attached))"
3. those with mixed reviews: few bad reviews can be due to pushy clients,etc. but when 30% of reviews of SPs are bad, there is a good chance that bad experience happens for me as well. therefore, I wont take a risk
4. SPs with "no review policy": we can not trust just pictures these days since they are inaccurate representation of reality most of the time
I had few horrible experiences in the past, but once I followed this rule, I did not have any bad experience)
1.those who shamelessly and pathetically beg for gifts and money on their twitter account. Since when it became OK to beg for money?
few years ago it was unthinkable that a person with a little bit of dignity and self-respect do this. its a HUGE turn-off for me
2. those who share their experience with other clients on their twitter account ( "last night was amazing with Mr x.(a picture of sushi attached))"
3. those with mixed reviews: few bad reviews can be due to pushy clients,etc. but when 30% of reviews of SPs are bad, there is a good chance that bad experience happens for me as well. therefore, I wont take a risk
4. SPs with "no review policy": we can not trust just pictures these days since they are inaccurate representation of reality most of the time
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Those are really interesting points. I’ve twitted about that a few days ago and said I thought it was better to not share too much online. It’s good to keep certain things private and it makes them more special.
As to begging for money I don’t really see it that way. There’s a lot of men that gift us things on date and it’s often things we never asked for. Instead of bringing something useless, you could look at the tweets and get ideas.
I receive chocolate far too often. I can’t even eat it lmao, let’s just say my mama is very happy that she doesn’t have to buy chocolate no more.
What's that supposed to mean? I would have countered: "Just so you know, I don't judge ladies in the business. No one who calls the ladies judge them".
Hope Slava will be back. Yeah she's still in the pictures but been a while since she has been on the schedule
The worst hype is Brittany/Lynne at Eleganza in 2006. The pics posted by John in the members area were stunning. She's model material at the age of 18. Man and those gravity defying boobs were out of this world and she was 18! It took me a year to get to see her. She was impossible to book and left at some point and came back in 2007. By the time I saw her in 2007, she gained a bit of weight and was older. She didn't look as hot and her attitude left much to be desired. She wasn't really into it. I don't think I got all the items on the menu as advertised. She's too good for me In retrospect, I should have saved that 2h donation and stayed home.
In retrospect, I should have saved that 2h donation and stayed home.
It just really made me laugh, it really sounded like she had suddenly became a raisin. Old, deflated, dry but it was only a year later and she still wasn’t old enough to buy a beer in the US
If that’s his most disappointing experience then that’s amazing, if that’s the only time he’s ever met someone that wasn’t living up to the fantasy that’s amazing too. Honestly good for him
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