Have you ever met a SP that you were hyped up for but then met her & felt so disappointed?

[Lunaseraphim]

I think at a certain point there's a limit as to what an increased price point can get you. If I compare agencies at 260 to 300 per hour versus indies at 450 to 600 plus... unless there's something really unique like ethnicity or a service that is only offered by a select few... With all due respect to all the great SPs out there, I don't think that twice the fee equals twice as many or two times better shots...

I know what you mean if you think about it in many shots you're getting. I just think it's odd because before this month I charged way under 450, and I got positive feedback about everyone I saw in the past few weeks... I even had clients book me again immediately after the session.

I'm not saying it's impossible someone had a bad session with me because it does happen, but usually I can feel it when it's not a good match. I had a client last week who gave me direct feedback about something, and I was very glad that he did, I came up with a solution so he wouldn't be disappointed by me. It would be cool if people did this more often.

 

[Stickler]

I had a client last week who gave me direct feedback about something, and I was very glad that he did, I came up with a solution so he wouldn't be disappointed by me. It would be cool if people did this more often.

Its 2026, most people aren't keeping it real.
They hide behind their phones where they can comfortably say something without the repercussions of getting punched in the face.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Its 2026, most people aren't keeping it real.
They hide behind their phones where they can comfortably say something without the repercussions of getting punched in the face.

Nobody is going to get punched in the face by me but I see what you mean...

 

[interferon]

Same.. it makes me sad when clients are disappointed but I wish I knew exactly what went wrong so I can get better in the future..

I think theres some responsibility on the guy to say "Hey can you _______ a little ______,er /_______,er /_______er" whatever. Some SPs - like you - have great instincts but no-one can know exactly what an individual guy wants.

Edit - I see you already talked about this stuff in post 131.

 

[twenty4seven]

yes, just to name a few, there was NoraB, LunaS, Julia Sky, Savannah, i mean for the price, i was expecting to get my soul sucked out of me lol, but i guess it was not meant to be

Wild, these are among the best providers in the city. Either you're not communicating what you're looking for or the expectations you've set are not reachable, either way it looks like you might be the common denominator here.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Same.. it makes me sad when clients are disappointed but I wish I knew exactly what went wrong so I can get better in the future..

It's not always something WE did wrong and can correct either.

And sometimes they don't know how to express themselves, they don't have the words on the spot.

I will be a disappoitment for some, and a most beautiful encounter for others, whatever my rates are, reviews and marketing. Such is life.

 

[mtlspacial]

Wild, these are among the best providers in the city. Either you're not communicating what you're looking for or the expectations you've set are not reachable, either way it looks like you might be the common denominator here.

I haven't had the opportunity to meet the others, but from my point of view LunaS was one of the best encounters I had in a long time.

I'm still craving for that experience again.

 

[Frozen]

yes, just to name a few, there was NoraB, LunaS, Julia Sky, Savannah, i mean for the price, i was expecting to get my soul sucked out of me lol, but i guess it was not meant to be

I'm not 'white knighting' or maybe just a little but I looked to your history and I'm having a difficult time finding a review of anyone? Lots of questions though. Care to share details of your encounters where things were 'not meant to be'?

it's a great community where you give back once in a while.

Cheers,
Fredd

 

[madmonkey82]

I know what you mean if you think about it in many shots you're getting. I just think it's odd because before this month I charged way under 450, and I got positive feedback about everyone I saw in the past few weeks... I even had clients book me again immediately after the session.

I'm not saying it's impossible someone had a bad session with me because it does happen, but usually I can feel it when it's not a good match. I had a client last week who gave me direct feedback about something, and I was very glad that he did, I came up with a solution so he wouldn't be disappointed by me. It would be cool if people did this more often.

Honestly it's not about the match necessarily.
I have personally chosen not to meet with ladies past a certain price point because I feel like I get what I want out of my existing choices. If that was not the case then I would consider higher priced providers. And since I'm doing short sessions and I'm not going out with the lady to be seen, I dont see the added value. Also I'm not looking to build a chemistry beyond the session.
I am sure if my disposable income was at a much higher level my opinion may be different. But at this point its like what do I want? A massage and some intimate exchange. Am I getting that from where I go? Yes. No need to upgrade or change.

 

[madmonkey82]

One girl told me she charge premium premium because she doesn’t need that many clients
Their rate has nothing to do with the service

I agree but I don't need the exclusivity of being the one or one of the chosen few. I look at it as a service. If I'm happy with the sp or mp at my price point no need to upgrade.

 

[madmonkey82]

450 to 600$ or more an hour at that. For 450 to 600$ i could pay a mamasan at a random Massage parlor and experience every girl in the establishment, that I'm attracted to, for the next 4 hours. Which is totally something I'd do.
I never understood the high cost of "High end" escorts.
I mean no disrespect. Im sure some of you have your justifications behind it, I just don't get it

I'm sure that the exclusivity is out there. It's like comparing say a Tag Huer to a Rolex. Both look nice, are Swiss made and have similar features. One is 1500 bucks one is 30000. If I want to flaunt a Rolex I oay for it. If I want to be seen with a hottie for grand prix weekend that's something exclusive and carries a price. Both the hottie and the rolex are not my priority.

 

[DetectiveBOOBS]

Yeah that's also my point.. this seems more like a complaint about our rate than the service itself. The 4 providers named all look extremely different, we all have very different personalities and our service is probably different as well.

I apologize for the disappointment, I'm going to move on to something else now.. but one thing is clear I am always looking to improve myself and if the client doesn't tell me personally what I did he didn't like, I can't change anything.

As a Luna fan club member I appreciate every moment with you. Again, people have different preferences, not everyone will enjoy one provider and I’m sure from the providers perspective, one can love a client and another girl might hate him.

Please enjoy the rest of your day and don’t let this tiny thing ruin your mood.

 

[DetectiveBOOBS]

Yea, like personally, i’m okay seeing market rate companions, but i book 3-5 hours sessions or overnights if i can afford it, but i dont book the girls charging over the market rate in the upscale market. I wouldnt go pay 1500/hour to see the highest rate provider in Vancouver and go expect that their service is “perfect”. I just wouldn’t. But i also can’t afford to pay that level of rate, as i dont see value in seeing a companion for just an hour or two. I prefer the connection side of the service, as I need connection to enjoy sex. So i see who i can comfortably afford

There is one girl I’ve been curious and she charges 2k per hour and minimum 2h first client. Thats what some Indy charge for an overnight. I can’t afford an overnight let alone 2h with her. It is what it is. I’m sure she is an amazing person and she has stellar review as well but if one day I ever book her, I’m not going to expect anything different from another provider.

I think we should keep our expectation under control regardless of their rate

We are meeting human beings, not shopping for an object

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Honestly it's not about the match necessarily.
I have personally chosen not to meet with ladies past a certain price point because I feel like I get what I want out of my existing choices. If that was not the case then I would consider higher priced providers. And since I'm doing short sessions and I'm not going out with the lady to be seen, I dont see the added value. Also I'm not looking to build a chemistry beyond the session.
I am sure if my disposable income was at a much higher level my opinion may be different. But at this point its like what do I want? A massage and some intimate exchange. Am I getting that from where I go? Yes. No need to upgrade or change.

But that's also exactly what I said elsewhere in the thread if you paid attention to what I wrote.. If you found what you needed and you're satisfied with the price, good for you. If a provider charges a rate you can't afford and offers an experience you're not interested in, she isn't trying to force you to book her. No need to worry and complain about higher prices if you already find what you need elsewhere.

Also, sometimes clients reach out and tell me they are looking for something, and I tell them I am not the right provider for them. If I feel like I can't fulfill somebody's expectations, I will tell them that because I want to avoid situations like these. I can't guess what a client is looking for, and it's unfair to criticize me for something that isn't even advertised as a service I offer, or for a vague fantasy expectation I did not fulfill.

I want to mention that after seeing this user's comments, he seems to prefer curvier women & attractive BBW. It's a weird choice to book me in that case.

 

[LeDodo]

yes, just to name a few, there was NoraB, LunaS, Julia Sky, Savannah, i mean for the price, i was expecting to get my soul sucked out of me lol, but i guess it was not meant to be

Well maybe my soul is weak ... Got my soul sucked out of me ... Lol

 

[twenty4seven]

Well maybe my soul is weak ... Got my soul sucked out of me ... Lol

Yeah, honestly. I've only seen 2 of these ladies and I just know my balls would be raisins if I lived any closer.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Yeah, honestly. I've only seen 2 of these ladies and I just know my balls would be raisins if I lived any closer.

Maybe you can let us know which ones!

 

[twenty4seven]

Maybe you can let us know which ones!

Of those 4 I've only seen you and Nora and I'd be a desiccated corpse with an erection if I wasn't 6 hours away from you both.

 

[LeDodo]

As for me I didn't meet Savanna but can certainly vouch for the 3 other soul suckers lol

 

[Vardhan945]

I only charged 350$h until very recently. If you have certain expectations you have to tell the SP before, not everyone wants the same thing.

Also, it's very clear in all my ads that I offer a GFE service.. not PSE, even if I offer cimsw, cob and cof. sometimes people don't read carefully and it causes problems because they are expecting an experience I just don't offer.


Same.. it makes me sad when clients are disappointed but I wish I knew exactly what went wrong so I can get better in the future..

can u please explain what PSE is to you then if your GFE includes cimsw and cof?