Have you ever used/sent a Deposit for/to a SP?

[Vera.Reis]

I comprehend things extremely well you needn’t worry, and I think everybody else has also comprehended things.
These are not your finest moments.

BTW I don’t have a problem with SP doing well and having a nice lifestyle, that is the way it should be, there is nothing better than an independent woman who can create a fabulous lifestyle for herself and one that is ambitious and can make her dreams a reality.
That is exactly the type of woman I admire and like to spend time with and do.

What gets to me is when someone belittles someone else’s efforts or the money they earned and then claims her situation is not the same and it maybe for rent and electric bills and next thing you know she Is able to have a slew of caretakers running around her.

No I don’t think it costs zero dollars for someone to look good, you are still the one having comprehension issues.
My point was and is do not belittle $50-$100 that is being scammed from anyone as ”merely play money” nobody gives you anything for free everyone works hard to earn money, even us.

You are not going to change my mind on this even if you keep wanting to have the last word and think that anyone not having the same opinion as yours has to be wrong lol.

Para 1. Yes you are, because your responses continuously mischaracterize what I say.

Para 3. Never said that was my current situation, it is not because I get deposits. If a client doesn't want to pay a deposit it's his loss. I already have many deposits for Toronto, many who are terb members, and I don't arrive for 9 more days. It's no skin off my back.

Para 4. You acted like my maintenance, that is part of my business as I market myself looking a certain way, was my "play money" when really it is hundreds of dollars I wouldn't spend if I wasn't an SP.

Para 5. I keep replying because you keep making false assumptions.

 

[Flyingby]

I think I can express my opinion like everyone else.
perhaps if you don’t like what is being said which so far is polite you should move on.
I am not bashing anyone I just don’t like it when scamming is being belittled as merely play money.

Actually. This.
Fradi quote: “You are not going to change my mind on this even if you keep wanting to have the last word and think that anyone not having the same opinion as yours has to be wrong lol.”

And a few other of your comments were rude and condescending.
she’s right though. It is our play money. Like going to the casino. Or drinking at a bar. It’s not my gas money. My haircut or clothes money. It’s my discretionary spending. Of course. I don’t want to lose it.
i can choose to send a deposit if I really want to see a girl.

 

[Bbw hunter]

Wow...pass the popcorn!
Nah I never send deposits. Why risk it?
Besides the Econolodge never requires it.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Wow...pass the popcorn!
Nah I never send deposits. Why risk it?
Besides the Econolodge never requires it.

Exactly. Anything can happen even with the best of intentions and it is your money on the line. Besides it is way more simpler to book with an agency, no deposit required, no government ID or Linked In required, and no references required. A simple text to XO or Vog is all I need to book an escort.

 

[Fradi]

Actually. This.
Fradi quote: “You are not going to change my mind on this even if you keep wanting to have the last word and think that anyone not having the same opinion as yours has to be wrong lol.”

And a few other of your comments were rude and condescending.
she’s right though. It is our play money. Like going to the casino. Or drinking at a bar. It’s not my gas money. My haircut or clothes money. It’s my discretionary spending. Of course. I don’t want to lose it.
i can choose to send a deposit if I really want to see a girl.

Really how about you have reading comprehension issues you think those are endearing comments, and that is what started things.
Anyway who made you judge and jury to begin with.
You are welcome to agree with her and to send deposits as much as you like, not my issue or problem.
Btw now you are being rude and condescending and judgemental.

I have stopped replying to her.

 

[Bbw hunter]

Exactly. Anything can happen even with the best of intentions and it is your money on the line. Besides it is way more simpler to book with an agency, no deposit required, no government ID or Linked In required, and no references required. A simple text to XO or Vog is all I need to book an escort.

Exactly Cloud! I keep it simple. We are spoiled for choice in this great city . No reason to risk your hard-earned money on a wing and a prayer.
I think once a girl asked me for an etransfer. I said "what's that?".

 

[CLOUD 500]

Really how about you have reading comprehension issues you think those are endearing comments, and that is what started things.
Anyway who made you judge and jury to begin with.
You are welcome to agree with her and to send deposits as much as you like, not my issue or problem.
Btw now you are being rude and condescending and judgemental.

I have stopped replying to her.

I had the same issue with her. She was promoting Socialism and repeated quotes from the Communist Manifesto. That could explain her sense of entitlement in regards to her belittling us loosing our deposit and making it sound as if her income was more important then ours. I stopped replying to her a long time ago.

 

[djlucky7]

Have never paid one and will never pay for one. If they say it's my loss i even care less and I would avoid at all cost those girls regardless of their reputation. I have paid accommodation reservations in advance for travelling girls i messaged through instagram who wanted proof that I could provide with what we agreed on but that's another topic.

 

[Vera.Reis]

I had the same issue with her. She was promoting Socialism and repeated quotes from the Communist Manifesto. That could explain her sense of entitlement in regards to her belittling us loosing our deposit and making it sound as if her income was more important then ours. I stopped replying to her a long time ago.

Socialism and communism aren't the same thing buds. I'm definitely a Socialist, definitely not a communist, but as things stand I'm happy to organize with communists ;-) but of course, you don't know the difference between actual communists, and people who use communism as a cover to do uncommunist like things for their personal gain.

If I was soliciting some type of service from one of yall I'd consider it only fair to give a deposit for your time as long as I could verify you had an established business, so again yall are misinterpreting what I'm saying. It's not about one income being more important than another. The person purchasing a non essential service is the one we know has disposable income in the equation and thus less to lose. That's just common sense. That's not belittling, that's just stating facts. You not liking the facts doesn't make it not true.

 

[BigWillie]

To each their own. If everyone didn't pay deposits than many Indy SPs would not be insisting on this non-negotiable requirement. There's a market for it.

I personally wouldn't mind if, like many have said here on this thread, the lady is reputable, verifiable and trustworthy. It would be my pleasure to give her some peace of mind, especially for our first encounter.
Afterwards I would hope this would no longer be required and she would be open to same day meetings on the fly.


You can either:

A- Go to an agency, which would provide you your privacy of not having to fork over deposits and your true identity. Cons: ladies are extremely high volume.

B- Build a rapport with a regular Indy who sees less clientele, gives you that more personalized experience, treats you well during your time booked. Cons: requires deposits and screenings (for the lady's safety). Not really a con to me, but to some that hold their privacy closely it may.

There are a lot of scams out there, just do your research and make sure you are contacting her via the appropriate channels. Double check the #s always. Lots of scammers pose as reputable indies too it you're not careful.

 

[Doc Holliday]

I did this once & regretted it. It was an indy i had seen a few times. Saw her through an agency the first time, she retired & came back about three months later (after a boob job) & asked me for my help in how to get set up & find her find clients. I agreed to help her out & i felt we were becoming friends as we corresponded regularly. I saw her a couple of times & one time she asked me if i could pay her in advance for an upcoming appointment that we had scheduled. I told her i wasn't comfortable with this type of arrangement & always prefered doing this during the appointment. She insisted & begged me to help her out since she was late on her rent & even asked me if i trusted her & and i thought she'd scam me. We had known one another for a year or so & i had no reason not to trust her & i'd be helping out a friend, etc.

So of course i relented & at the same time figured i'd test her honesty. I did have my suspicions because the more i got to know the more i realized that she wasn't exactly the most stable individual out there so anyway....she was gorgeous & had that vulnerable personality that for some reason i've always been attracted to. And she kept praising me & telling me how much she appreciated everything i was doing for her so of course she knew how to strike my ego. So i agreed to give her half the money & she begged me to give me the full amount & added another excuse. So of course i relented. Again.

Well the next day she called to ask me if we could postpone it to the next day since she was asked to work an extra shift at her real job (she worked at one of the high-end supper clubs on St-Laurent). I told her this wasn't possible since my flight out of Montreal was in two days. So she begged me over & over to extend my trip & of course i relented. Again. And of course on the day of the appointment she was a no-show & wasn't answering her phone, her texts or her emails. More money lost. Of course! I was pissed!! So i decided that i wasn't going to have anything to do with her anymore & used this experience as a positive in that it showed me her true colors. I can't stand dishonest people & she was now at the top of my list!

The next day i'm flying back home & noticed she had tried calling me a few times. I also noticed an email she had sent me to apologize, explaining that she had overslept & ended up spending an entire day in bed, etc. Asking me if i was still in town, etc. If not she'd make it up, etc. I decided enough was enough & didn't even bother replying or calling her back. I heard from her again a few months later when she emailed me again & asked me if i'd see her & her best friend in a threesome. She told me her best friend was as hot as her & had been briefly in the business in the past & was offering herself either alone or with in a threesome in order to make a few extra bucks. Although extremely tempting i politely told her i'd give the matter some consideration & wished her the best. I had no interest in being scammed again by a scammer. Or two.

About a year later i'm having a chat with one of my buddies & his favorite lady who happened to be affliated to (at the time) the most prestigious agency/co-op in Montreal. I then noticed i had just received an email & to my shock it's from my former lady friend. The one who scammed me. So i decide to read it & she mentioned that she had just joined the prestigious agency that my buddy's date was with & she needed a review to help her get started. She asked if i could write her a review & also added that she hadn't forgot that she still owed me a two hour 'date'. I replied to her & congratulated her on her new agency. That i felt it was better than her current 'high end' agency and hoped she wouldn't fuck it up again. I told her that i was against writing a review of someone i hadn't even seen & even if we knew one another & i had seen one another in the past i wasn't going to do it. I also told her to forget about the money she owed me, that she could keep it & that we weren't going to see one another again & i wished her well. And guess what? Three months later her new agency fired her after hearing that she had scammed a few clients....asking them to pay for an upcoming date & then being a no-show! I laughed!

 

[Albacor]

here another example, he get scammed from @Glyscore:

"UNFORTUNATELY FELLAS......THIS IS A SCAM....I went to her appartement. Told her I was there. Prior to that I sent her 40$ as deposit requested by her. And Subbed to her onlyfans to see the content she had. So, 1h I tell her i'm here. Then she tells me she wants to see me in the lobby via cams...and ask me to send her 100$ cause she doesnt know me and she's scared...she gave me her floor appartement and the number at the same time.....in my head, im like...RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG...But I'm also like hey, the onlyfans that was on her ad is offial and I talked to her in chat and all...so I sent her 100$ via e transfert.

100$ transfered, she gave me an other floor and an other appartement number....go the the New floor/appartment number she game me....And she's like babe send me an other 50$ it gets me horney doing this part by part...yall see where this is going???? I tell her " so now you wanna get the 300$ parts by parts and im not even sure you are in this condo? Never replied again. So in the end, I lost 140$ to this bitch. I dont know if the onlyfans his hers or if its her friend...but they are scammers. Took the bullet for yall fellas. Report her fucking assss on leolist PLS. "

another victim ! guys, never learn !

 

[Flyingby]

@Albacor You are simply mentioning the stupidities of men. You aren’t mentionning the times where guys sent money to merb advertisers and everything went well.
Guys. Use your big brain. Read reviews.

 

[Albacor]

@Albacor You are simply the stupidities of men. You aren’t mentionned the times where guys send money to merb advertisers and everything went well.
Guys. Use your big brain. Read reviews.

I stick to my principals and you stick to yours ! ok ? I will never ever transfer money in advance, that's it that's all. And it's my right.

 

[Flyingby]

I stick to my principals and you stick to yours ! ok ? I will never ever transfer money in advance, that's it that's all. And it's my right.

Never told you to break your principles. Not telling you to transfer money
I am stating a fact. You are only sharing the bad stories. You’re like the tvanouvelles of merb

 

[Fullerton]

I was in the hobby for over 10 years.

It was an alternative to the hassle and exhaustion of the dating game.

I was focused on my education, my career and managing my real estate investments. I didn't have time for dating or serious relationships.

I went from a broke, hungry veteran and homeless university student to a multi-millionaire.

Now, with all the entitlement, scamming, cancellations, constant rescheduling, the hobby for me is far more exhausting.

It is never ok to mitigate and minimalize theft.

What happened to treating clients like kings?

What happened to keeping your word?

I'm glad we have maintained a reviewing process here to warn others for unprofessional behavior and poor service.

I got tired of all this and after finally meeting after many cancellations and rescheduling, I would leave unhappy and unimpressed.

Thank you to the gents that show up, pay up front, and remain respectful.

Thank you to the rare ladies that keep their word, are reliable, and treat gentlemen like kings.

 

[Fradi]

Well in line with not only sharing bad stories but some that actually do keep their word.
I have only sent a deposit twice both with well reviewed Merb Indys the first time it was a full payment for 2 hrs which didn’t work out too well but I have already mentioned it.
Second time it was with Vicky Lopez, it was through an Amazon gift card and everything went smoothly no issues what so ever.
Vicky is a sweetheart and very easy to talk to and a really nice person to spend time with.

 

[Glyscore]

here another example, he get scammed from @Glyscore:

"UNFORTUNATELY FELLAS......THIS IS A SCAM....I went to her appartement. Told her I was there. Prior to that I sent her 40$ as deposit requested by her. And Subbed to her onlyfans to see the content she had. So, 1h I tell her i'm here. Then she tells me she wants to see me in the lobby via cams...and ask me to send her 100$ cause she doesnt know me and she's scared...she gave me her floor appartement and the number at the same time.....in my head, im like...RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG...But I'm also like hey, the onlyfans that was on her ad is offial and I talked to her in chat and all...so I sent her 100$ via e transfert.

100$ transfered, she gave me an other floor and an other appartement number....go the the New floor/appartment number she game me....And she's like babe send me an other 50$ it gets me horney doing this part by part...yall see where this is going???? I tell her " so now you wanna get the 300$ parts by parts and im not even sure you are in this condo? Never replied again. So in the end, I lost 140$ to this bitch. I dont know if the onlyfans his hers or if its her friend...but they are scammers. Took the bullet for yall fellas. Report her fucking assss on leolist PLS. "

another victim ! guys, never learn !

Bro you dont have to shame me in here I know I did a mistake. I posted here so People dont get scammed like me. No need to shame me like that...

 

[Fradi]

Bro you dont have to shame me in here I know I did a mistake. I posted here so People dont get scammed like me. No need to shame me like that...

You shouldn’t feel like that most of us can’t refuse a pretty face or any other feature that turns us on, we have all been victims some of us repeatedly and not just with escorts.
Part of life. but then there are the ladies that are totally gorgeous and live up to their promises and make it all worth the chase.

 

[Albacor]

@Glyscore: Ok sorry brother, dont mean to hurt u. Just to warn others not to make a deposit in advance. Cheers!