How do you stop this?
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im older and often grumpy. Yesterday i had a really good encounter with a sw at lunchrtime and i was kinda 'high' for the rest of the day. Definitely a drug.
I mean I have a penis and It's meant to do something. What else would i use it for apart from peeing? let's not forget it's colossal size.
As my salary threw, the “quality” of women got better. It got safer. Now I can “afford” 250-500; a weeky. I don’t really have any disposable income but I’m very comfortable. I can spend as much I want when it comes to shopping and restaurants with my credit cards..
I’ve been trying to save money for a down payment for a property for the longest time. One of my goals is to be very tatted.. but I can’t save.
But I’m somewhat responsible, I know rent and bills come before escorts. Whatever is left over is my escort money. The only way I save is by giving it to my mom or trusted friends.
I hope this answers your question
Thanks, I guess it means you overspent on SPs before and now you can actually afford the 250-500 weekly, which is nice.
By the way, when I say disposable income, I mean exactly that money which is spent on SPs, shopping, restaurants etc.
Rude as hell lol, she shouldn't have had to pay (as in, lose income and time getting ready) because you have a problem. Next time I suggest saying the phrase before you even contact an escort, or suck it up and pay up tbh.
Agreed. Hopefully he compensated her for the "cancellation".
No you can't. Because...
I really hate to break it to you, but you're setting yourself up for major financial and emotional problems. Just wait till you hit 40 and start reevaluating your choices in life.
Earning 150K per year in your early 30s is great, but you're throwing it all away. You have to find a way to put a good chunk of that money aside.
Thanks for sharing and good luck!
Also reading this says it all:
We should put on our credit card only what we can spend, credit is to be reimbursed fully at the end of the month. Using credits any other way is setting yourself up for failure.
Best financial advice for anyone who wishes to start taking control of their money.
Second best financial advice:
Once you have cleared your credit cards debts and learnt to reimburse fully each month, start putting a percentage of your earnings aside AS SOON AS THE PAYCHECK COMES IN.
So let's say you earn 6000$ every 2 weeks, right away put 1000$ aside (RRSP for example) and learn to live with 5000$ every 2 weeks. It's not as hard as one might think. You just get used to it.
Once you have cleared your credit cards debts and learnt to reimburse fully each month, start putting a percentage of your earnings aside AS SOON AS THE PAYCHECK COMES IN.
So let's say you earn 6000$ every 2 weeks, right away put 1000$ aside (RRSP for example) and learn to live with 5000$ every 2 weeks. It's not as hard as one might think. You just get used to it.
This makes no sense at all, I moved back with my mother 2 years ago she is 81 and she is unable to do simple things around the house, i have a family home to take care off, i also give her 500$ per month rent, and i pay groceries, we also have 4 cats so i pay for cat food vet etc.
When i had my condo i gave into this addiction and my credit card blew up to 7000$, this whole ordeal along with my mortgage and lifes issue car breaking down, vet etc, took me about 10 months to clear. I learn my lecon, this was back in the days SP at agencies cost 220$ with the GFE service (that most of the time never offered).
I am 52 and still have high libido, but i decided to take a break i been seeing my SP for the last 5 years at 1-2 times per week, 120$ per shot, and i did the math, i am a single worker i make less than 70k per year now, my car is fully paid, i have no debt because the family home as been paid for such a long time.
This is called responsibilities and priorities, for me spending 500$ on an SP is a no go, a rather watch internet porn and be satisfied with this. I started to invest money in mutual funds, RRSP and celi a long time ago, and recently stop ordering junk food, so i can save even more, but with what i have to pay per month i could go nuts and get the high end escorts even the ones at 300$ per hour. But since i have a goal to retire before 60 i rater work toward that goal then spend my money on sex. And believe me in the last 30 years i been booking SP on and off i did spend a lot of money on this hobby.
For me what did it is that to be honest right now at least for me there is nothing interesting that is affordable, my regular sp of 5 years was too much now, texting everyday, giving me compliments that are simply not true etc, I guess i went cold turkey, she wanted to have sex during her period i got mad that was not the first time she did stupidities like this, and we just both stop texting each other, to be honest its been about one month now and i feel great, this was getting toxic.
With the price of houses so high you need to reevaluate your priorities, do you want to save money and buy a house, condo, semi detach or spend all your money on sex wake up older and realize you have nothing in front of you.
3rd best financial advice, totally related to this hobby: Set yourself a reasonable budget for hobbying and don't go over.
I've always been transparent about this. My budget is 1000$ per month. This month, I blew it early on my birthday fuck fest. Since then, even though I'm fucking horny, I refuse to book another SP. Mental toughness ostie....
I have better things to do with my money.
I've always been transparent about this. My budget is 1000$ per month. This month, I blew it early on my birthday fuck fest. Since then, even though I'm fucking horny, I refuse to book another SP. Mental toughness ostie....
I have better things to do with my money.
1000$ per month this is exactly why i stop seeing my regular SP, she wanted to boost her price, 120$ twice per week we are at 960$ per month, which is insane when you think about it for what 1h of sex per week, 4h sex per month. How much grocery can you buy with that amount of money or save.
Bro... can you not share my dilemma publicly?
On a more serious note, I think if you are earning 150K at 30 you'll be fine as long as you switch your spending behavior in the next few years.
It actually baffles my mind when people do not use their credit card this way. You can ask your financial institution to pay off your credit card in a regular cadence.
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