I'd say like a doctor: "Repeat as needed."
How do you stop this?
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Even worst...I would say like zombies.We all areWe're like the Borg in Star Trek and Pablo has been assimilated
If you ever say you met a fantastic SP on this board, you get all merb zombies after you..
You drop one review, then all zombies goes on the poor girl....
Then she's not so poor so zombies begin to fall off.
Only ones with big wallets survives
...until there is a new SP appearing on board radar so they standup again...
C'est un cercle vicieux
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I've never had issues stopping. Some times for months, some times for years. It's just a matter of focusing on something else.
You might just need to go broke to be honest. That should stop you.
Like many others said in this thread, it’s not easy to stop especially not with internet. Everything seems so easily accessible, you can’t even go on Twitter in peace because guess what? We are on there too. Hell! I’ve seen SPs posting escort related content on TikTok.
Try budgeting, try occupying your free time with other activities or thoughts.
Stop coming on here, it ain’t helping
Like many others said in this thread, it’s not easy to stop especially not with internet. Everything seems so easily accessible, you can’t even go on Twitter in peace because guess what? We are on there too. Hell! I’ve seen SPs posting escort related content on TikTok.
Try budgeting, try occupying your free time with other activities or thoughts.
Stop coming on here, it ain’t helping
Truth… change of thoughts and scenery make the difference
Auto-contribute a portion of your income into an illiquid financial instrument (e.g., 3-month - 1 year CD) and set it to re-invest upon maturity. Do this so that you have just enough to live on but not enough discretionary funds sitting around at any given time to blow on hobbying. (Set aside enough liquid funds for emergencies ofc.)
Be aware of what your hobbying triggers are (e.g., this board, porn, OF, twitter, etc) and then try to eliminate exposure to them.
Try to get involved with hobbies that have a recurring time commitment. Filling up your schedule will leave less idle time you’ll be tempted to spend on hobbying. I recommend getting into salsa dancing. Not a bad way to meet and hang out with women while getting some exercise and learning a new skill. Volunteering, I find, refocuses my mental energy from what I want to how I can best help others, which makes for a decent hobbying suppressant.
Be aware of what your hobbying triggers are (e.g., this board, porn, OF, twitter, etc) and then try to eliminate exposure to them.
Try to get involved with hobbies that have a recurring time commitment. Filling up your schedule will leave less idle time you’ll be tempted to spend on hobbying. I recommend getting into salsa dancing. Not a bad way to meet and hang out with women while getting some exercise and learning a new skill. Volunteering, I find, refocuses my mental energy from what I want to how I can best help others, which makes for a decent hobbying suppressant.
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Why would you stop unless you are married and feel guilty about it, in which case that is completely understandable. However, if you are single, there is no reason to quit this hobby. We are not getting any younger, and as you age, the likelihood of being able to engage with an attractive young individual diminishes unless you are willing to pay for it.
I do not want to be the elderly person lusting after a young woman and masturbate watching adult films in front of my television. I would rather pay for sex and feel youthful again than resort to such behaviour. Furthermore, due to the current challenging dating scene, it is more cost-effective to pay for intimacy than to go on a date where you may end up going home alone without any physical connection and down 500$. Personally, I intend to continue this hobby until my last breath.
I do not want to be the elderly person lusting after a young woman and masturbate watching adult films in front of my television. I would rather pay for sex and feel youthful again than resort to such behaviour. Furthermore, due to the current challenging dating scene, it is more cost-effective to pay for intimacy than to go on a date where you may end up going home alone without any physical connection and down 500$. Personally, I intend to continue this hobby until my last breath.
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It really all depends on what you want in life and what you can afford.
If you are young and want financial freedom then this life style is not for you unless you can easily afford it and do it as a form of entertainment and fun..
This is not a substitute for falling in love with someone who is real who is willing to share their life with you, who will love you and who will have a family and a lifetime of memories with you, it doesn’t even come close.
When you compare that it is easy to stop.
I will never stop as I have had all of that in my life and now I am lucky enough to have an ATF who fills the void somewhat, who is gorgeous, kind, a friend and just an amazing young lady. I will keep seeing her as long as she wants me to or that I am physically able to.
If you are young and want financial freedom then this life style is not for you unless you can easily afford it and do it as a form of entertainment and fun..
This is not a substitute for falling in love with someone who is real who is willing to share their life with you, who will love you and who will have a family and a lifetime of memories with you, it doesn’t even come close.
When you compare that it is easy to stop.
I will never stop as I have had all of that in my life and now I am lucky enough to have an ATF who fills the void somewhat, who is gorgeous, kind, a friend and just an amazing young lady. I will keep seeing her as long as she wants me to or that I am physically able to.
Same here. You're right...it's about focusing on something else. I just put my focus and money on other things that I enjoy. I can always go back later if I want to.
What has helped me greatly reduce my number of encounters is taking a step back and tallying up my yearly spend on this hobby. After the actual monetary value spent hit me, I decided to spend X% less on this hobby and instead spend it on other things that make me happy. If you use your money to make yourself happy outside of this hobby, I believe you will play in it less.
You probably don't have an addictive personality like some of us do. I know I get addicted very easily to about anything that gives me pleasure.
@LC18 is right. Instead of coming here or LL etc ... join a bible group
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