How do you manage it if (big if, I know
) you do not spend the full $1000 in a certain month? Does it roll over into the next month or do you invest it into something else? (savings or other forms of entertainment)
How do you stop this?
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) you do not spend the full $1000 in a certain month? Does it roll over into the next month or do you invest it into something else? (savings or other forms of entertainment)I could think of potentially two ways. First one is the finacial one - either you can no longer afford it, or start thinking the money could have a better use, etc. Second - and that's for me personally - i would stop if i had a girlfriend thats both hot and trustworthy. Hot - for me to constantly enjoy every inch of her body over and over again. Trustworthy - to know that shes my person, and i am hers - no matter what happens in life.
I don’t think anybody could have written a better or more intelligent explanation and advice.
You say you have struggled with addiction yourself, I hope you are now happy and content with your life and resolved your issues.
Personally I was addicted to smoking cigarettes even though I started smoking late as I did not smoke while I was playing sports.
In the end I guess you can do anything you put your mind to. One day I decided that it was time to stop, threw the half pack I had in my pocket in the garbage and haven’t smoked since. First 2 weeks were a nightmare and then it started to get easier and easier that was 14 years ago.
I am not addicted to seeing escorts or sex, when my wife passed away I didn’t have sex for 5 years.
I could stop if I wanted to but seeing as I enjoy seeing the ladies I am seeing, there is no reason to and I am not interested in dating.
The ladies I am seeing are friends, I have known them for many years, they are gorgeous, kind and amazing to be with, if they ever become unavailable I will stop seeing escorts.
It's completely different to see escorts because you enjoy it instead of feeling resentful and having a compulsive need to see as many escorts as possible and complain that they didn't give you the rush of dopamine you needed (which requires more and more hardcore stuff and people who fit more and more unattainable standards at a very cheap rate).. For me the issue was alcohol and now I can have one drink or a few and stop and I enjoy them and I can go several days without drinking and I don't think about it.
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It as now been 1 month since i stop seeing my regular SP, and to be honest its a relief, how hard was it, not hard at all when i realize all her game, and the bullshit lies she was telling me about my looks, and more. She said she lied to all her regulars I was the only one she was honest with. And sometimes she made it sound like she wanted to be my girlfriend, you are the only one of my regular that don't cheat on his wife you are a great man.
Then she started to talk about the cost of life and how pushing 40 she wants to raise her price. She is so stupid because the conversation after sex were always the same, how many times did you masturbate this week, do you masturbate at your job some of my clients do and stupidities like that. She once talk to me about zelda tears of the kingdom because one of her clients told her its an incredible game, but other then that she has nothing. You can't talk with her about anything she is so stupid she doesn't even know that London is the capital of England.
Now the other thing is looking at all the money I been putting into sex since 2013 makes no sense at all, and looking at the current SP and there insane price vary from 300$-500$ or the leftovers at motel chez nous who also boosted there price at 200$, i rather stay home save money and watch internet porn which honest for the past month have not been so bad.
Getting fit losing weight and i might try to see if i can meet someone in this fucked up world we live in, but so far i realize how screwed up this SP world is and for some odd reason I don't want to be part of it anymore.
Then she started to talk about the cost of life and how pushing 40 she wants to raise her price. She is so stupid because the conversation after sex were always the same, how many times did you masturbate this week, do you masturbate at your job some of my clients do and stupidities like that. She once talk to me about zelda tears of the kingdom because one of her clients told her its an incredible game, but other then that she has nothing. You can't talk with her about anything she is so stupid she doesn't even know that London is the capital of England.
Now the other thing is looking at all the money I been putting into sex since 2013 makes no sense at all, and looking at the current SP and there insane price vary from 300$-500$ or the leftovers at motel chez nous who also boosted there price at 200$, i rather stay home save money and watch internet porn which honest for the past month have not been so bad.
Getting fit losing weight and i might try to see if i can meet someone in this fucked up world we live in, but so far i realize how screwed up this SP world is and for some odd reason I don't want to be part of it anymore.
How many times are you going to log on here to let us know you're relieved you stopped seeing your regular SP and you think she's evil and stupid?
If you don't want to be a part of this "demimonde" anymore may I suggest spending more time at the gym or something and less time on merb complaining about her?
If you don't want to be a part of this "demimonde" anymore may I suggest spending more time at the gym or something and less time on merb complaining about her?
For me cutting back on the hobbying was pretty easy, the return on investment is just not there anymore. Pre covid I had a couple girls a used to see , prices were reasonable and service was great now if you want decent service the price is way higher than five years ago so while I still see girls from time to time I’m way less active than I was and I kinda like it this way.
Julia, have I ever told you how much I love you? I love the way you throw words around and in such a way that, how can people possibly get offended.
more than 80 percent of canadian are living on credit lol. Just keep paying the minimum and dont realize how fked they will
Be down the line. And over 60 are living paycheque to paycheque. And by the way things arent getting any cheaper financially and not getting any easier.
How dare you Julia? Please speak only for yourself. Personally, I am disappointed that he did not mention the AI rap song which he made for her to listen.
I think I will never stop
I know this is an addiction, but this addiction cured me from severe porn addiction which caused me erectile dysfunction.
Thanks to escorting I didn't watch porn since one year (not even a single frame) and I'm rock hard at every date.
I make good money. I see SPs 1 to 2 times a week. It's not even a budget at this point.
I know it sound crazy but stopping this might actually be a bad decision for me.
Or it's just an excuse I'm telling to myself because I'm too afraid to try all the excellent advices from this thread.
I know this is an addiction, but this addiction cured me from severe porn addiction which caused me erectile dysfunction.
Thanks to escorting I didn't watch porn since one year (not even a single frame) and I'm rock hard at every date.
I make good money. I see SPs 1 to 2 times a week. It's not even a budget at this point.
I know it sound crazy but stopping this might actually be a bad decision for me.
Or it's just an excuse I'm telling to myself because I'm too afraid to try all the excellent advices from this thread.
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Most of all, don't come to this forum asking for advice about that. It's like an alcoholic walking into a dive bar seeking advice on how to quit drinking.
If the need to stop is purely financial, then putting together a plan based on your current income, expenses, savings necessary to invest for retirement, and then coming up with a budget would help. De-prioritizing other discretionary expenses such as expensive homes, cars, restaurants, vacations etc. can give you the budget needed for the hobby. Ideally, acquiring the skills for a high income profession will help make this planning easier.
If the concern is emotional or the inability to form real world relationships, then learning to compartmentalize could help. There is great joy in real relationships as an employee/employer, parent/child, sibling, friend, gf/bf etc. and keeping them while enjoying the hobby is possible.
And the best way to navigate and balance all of this is to have a healthy body and mind. So, as has already been said, eating healthy, exercise, meditation, and sleep will help.
This hobby addiction though does seem different from substance abuse addictions in that you can generally be more in control. And I am grateful to have met some amazing women that make me smile a lot more, and have enhanced my life significantly.
If the concern is emotional or the inability to form real world relationships, then learning to compartmentalize could help. There is great joy in real relationships as an employee/employer, parent/child, sibling, friend, gf/bf etc. and keeping them while enjoying the hobby is possible.
And the best way to navigate and balance all of this is to have a healthy body and mind. So, as has already been said, eating healthy, exercise, meditation, and sleep will help.
This hobby addiction though does seem different from substance abuse addictions in that you can generally be more in control. And I am grateful to have met some amazing women that make me smile a lot more, and have enhanced my life significantly.
Got around 20 of them posted.huh?! where are the reviews lol?
Sometimes SP don't want reviews too and I respect that.
Keep trying to stop another 53 years, I believe you will succeed.
offended by what exactly lol people like her make me laugh even more of course i kind of touch her job, she makes her money like this while i restrain, she is just like any other SP offers a dream and lies etc. Nothing new here. She could just not read my comment but i guess its too much for her.Julia, have I ever told you how much I love you? I love the way you throw words around and in such a way that, how can people possibly get offended.
Don't know where you got your numbers from but in fact...
Fewer than half of adult credit cardholders (47%) carried a balance on a credit card for at least one month in the past year, according to a May 2024 Federal Reserve study. Job No. 1 for anyone with a credit card is to pay off that balance in full at the end of each month.
Meaning 55% pays the total amount each month in USA
As credit cards are the most popular form of payment in Canada, it's not surprising that as of May 2023, the total credit card debt in Canada was $96.9 billion, and 42% of Canadians have credit card debts that are not paid off.
Meaning 58% pays the total amount each month in Canada.
I know it is common those days to claim the situation is dark and darker but it doesn't reflect realty.
Paying for sex industry is not more dommageable than paying for a luxury house or a big car that one can't afford. As long as the bills fit the money income, not much problems. To each to decide where it is best to spend his money.
Some have extra money after paying the bills and saving for the future and spend little or not at all on SP. Other have no savings, hardly pay their bills accumulating debt and are still spending too much on SP. For those, big problems will come for sure.
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