How important is her “O”

[Flyingby]

Seen some posts about guys who spend lots of time trying to get a girl to O
How important is it to you?

for me. Meh. Great if she has one during sex. I will daty for 5 mins to fet her wet. But not gonna spend too much more time than that. Reading some reviews. Some guys seem to sacrifice their own orgasms for the ladies

sidenote. I am talking about SP, not girlfriends, wives or mistresses. In those cases I will do what it takes and take the time that it needs

 

[STAEDTLER]

Well, I guess it's all relative...,

To chemistry and connection. For me, only a few ATF would get from me that kind of special attention. Furthermore, this would never jeopardise my own pleasure, cause the lady will always return the favor.
Sidenote : to get a girl to O is something very nice to partake...,

 

[cloudsurf]

It doesn`t matter to me if it`s a wife , gf or escort .....I treat them all the same. These days I enjoy it when a women gets into it and finishes with several orgasms during session. Not always the case since some women don`t ever orgasm or take forever to achieve one.
During my younger years and through my marriage , I couldn`t give a flying fuck if my partner had an orgasm. I came when I was ready and if she wasn`t, then too bad.
Now that all changed with my first serious gf after my divorce. She told me that if I don`t make her cum then she won`t let me cum. So that`s when I started taking an interest in women`s orgasms
Rabbit one day you`ll get old like me and not all your body parts will function like they do now....and you may discover the pleasures one can get from pleasing a woman.
As far as we know, humans are the only animals that take pleasure in pleasing their mates.

 

[sene5hos]

Like I said before, when you pay to have an intimate relationship with an SP, it can change the stakes, and when it comes to orgasms, it's sometimes hard to separate fiction from reality.

In short, the SPs are among the best actresses.

To establish a good chemistry, we too sometimes could be not being 100% honest.

 

[minutemenX]

Fake orgasm is the most common trick not only for SPs but also ordinary women. One popular SP who has been praised for her frequent orgasms told me that she can have an orgasm only when she masturbates in a bathtub. I would not deny that it sometimes happens with a client, but good luck to differentiate real from the fake one.

 

[TheJames101]

Fake orgasm is the most common trick not only for SPs but also ordinary women. One popular SP who has been praised for her frequent orgasms told me that she can have an orgasm only when she masturbates in a bathtub. I would not deny that it sometimes happens with a client, but good luck to differentiate real from the fake one.

Exactly this. It's very easy for women to convincingly fake an orgasm. It's very hard for a man to tell the difference, if not impossible at times. So the importance of the "O" becomes uncertain.

 

[Fradi]

Personally I would be very happy if she has an orgasm as I would like to be able to please her as much as she is pleasing me.
How much of that is true or real is anyones guess and I am not about to dwell on it or write about it.

 

[Skym]

Its whatever for me, as long as she eats my nut, thats all that matters lol

 

[Indulger2]

I always, always, always, make sure she orgasms at least once before me, or bring her to the edge to keep her horny, and wanting to be more nasty. With SPs and relationships. IMO it's the best way to get the best outcome, b/c of simple statistical fact that (most) women recover much faster/can have multiple ) Os in series, and the psychology of her being pleased first. For me, the few times I came first, made things less good. I can tell when they fake, and never repeat with fakers.

 

[Fradi]

Well here is the thing, like I said before I would be thrilled if I was able to please any SP half as much as they please me, but here is reality.
While I think I still look decent for my age it is not like when I was in my 20-30s when I was a trained athlete without an ounce of extra on me and could pretty much attract almost any girl that I went after especially in my own community where I was well known.
Right now they are not seeing me for my looks, I am not kidding myself and why would they get so exited over jumping in the sack with someone twice their age at least.
I don’t kid myself or write reviews detailing all the imagined Os lol, I am just simply grateful that I can afford to and that such gorgeous women are willing to see me.
My goal is not to give Os, but to be easy to be with, safe and that they will have a pleasant time and perhaps enjoy a nice glass of wine, some pastries and some pleasant conversation along with their bedroom talents with an older guy who considers himself lucky to see these stunning women.

 

[Iceman71]

This is such a polarizing topic and It really comes down to a personal preference. I prefer to provide orgasms because as I get older, I have a different expectation when I have an encounter with an SP. Busting a nut is fine but when you really provide an orgasm for me nothing beats a woman's reaction after her O. Nothing wrong with the fellows that just want to bust a nut but providing an orgasm is also enjoyable for those that are into it. For the faking element previously mentionned, some SW might fake it but not the majority.

 

[Jericho_2021]

Seen some posts about guys who spend lots of time trying to get a girl to O
How important is it to you?

for me. Meh. Great if she has one during sex. I will daty for 5 mins to fet her wet. But not gonna spend too much more time than that. Reading some reviews. Some guys seem to sacrifice their own orgasms for the ladies

sidenote. I am talking about SP, not girlfriends, wives or mistresses. In those cases I will do what it takes and take the time that it needs

Like you, I do not believe in those things (talking about SPs, of course, and not wives, girlfriends). But you are right, I know there are hobbyists who believe in that. Anyways, I am paying for me to get my own "O" , obviously, and not the other way around ;p

 

[ShyMan]

I imagine most SPs cannot achieve O's with each Hobbyist during their shift. If DATY does not work, I sometimes ask the SP to rub her C while my Junior goes in and out. I typically do DATY to "break the ice" and show her respect for her time, efforts and body. The encounters are transactional but like sene5hos, I do DATY to kindle more chemistry with the SP. Like the rabbit, if she's not feeling it, I stop DATY after a few minutes. And if there's no chemistry, I end the session early---why torture myself. (After the encounter begins, I consider the donation hers and cut my losses.)

 

[nico61]

The majority of women orgasm through clitoral stimulation that’s a proven fact. i was reading that studies showed that only 30% of women orgasm with penetration. That little “devil “as my wife ( God rest her soul) used to say, was the trigger for her multiple orgasms. Daty and manual stimulation would get her off everytime. I assume some SP‘s are Really great actresses and I guess they want you to feel good that you got them off. Remember the scene in the movie with Meg Ryan, ‘when Harry met sally’ how good was she? I nearly came in my pants when i first saw that scene...lol. How important is her “O” maybe not with every John she sees!!

 

[acoly]

Only really care about the O of girls whom I am close and frequent a lot (The handful I have seen like 20 times each). Other girls I don't force it and not a big deal if they don't, but I still try none the less.

The ones I frequent I put forth more effort and since we are close, I know they don't fake it. I rather them not fake it when they don't O.

And to add to the above, a lot, if not all, girls don't O easily. Imagine seeing numerous men a day, so you can only O so many times if you do. Plus a lot are strangers; they need to be comfortable with someone to O

 

[cloudsurf]

I will go on the record and say that any escort who masturbates regularly will have a genuine O with a client who knows how to please her .

 

[IamNY]

If an SP is paying me for her "O" then it's very important. Since I'm paying, my "O" takes precedent.

 

[Charles Darwin]

Not important to me at all, I have had to shut up SPs that did the fake org'ies.

 

[djlucky7]

I'd love for that o to happen but it's not my main priority. I personally know a few SPs and most fake orgasm but this should be common sense and if you feel you can get ALL SPs to cum, well i have bad news for you. My goal is to make sure they're having a good time and just enjoy whatever is happening. I do however get annoyed when they moan in an exaggerated manner.

 

[kabukicho]

I really like seeing them O. half the time it's not worth the time chasing their O esp. if you get them only at the end of their schedule etc as they have been desensitized through their day, it's hard for them to O again and will take more of your booked time to get there.