Lol Now you are being overly dramatic. But okay if that is how you feel. But anyways that is not even the subject of this thread. Tbh I never read a bad review of you so I know if I booked you I would get a great service. The idea of reviews is to weed out the bad ones.
How likely are you to report a bad hobbying experience?
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Not to be rude but you have a lot of time on your hands hahaha.
You'd be surprised. I had to leave an outcall early once because upon undressing (after insulting me mind you), the client had bloody nipples and a 5mm thick smegma layer around the tip of his dick. Had he written a review saying I left 45mins early, you'd probably think I was the one in the wrong.
The passion… The conflict… The chaos… This thread is basically MERB in a nutshell! You gotta love it! 
To answer OP’s question: I am very unlikely to report a bad / bland session if it falls in one of the two following categories.
First, if I feel like I have anything to do with the outcome (mood, energy, expectations, chemistry…). In that case, I man up and shut up. I usually prepare enough to avoid all that, but… I ain’t getting any younger, stuff like that happens. But I’ll be damned before I jump online and blame my own bullshit on someone else.
Second, if I feel like the session suffered from factors outside the SP’s control (unforeseen delays, stress, misunderstanding with the agency/booker…). In that particular instance, I most likely won’t report it… unless other reviewers have had the same issue. Then it’s not just bad luck, it’s a pattern that deserves to be called out as it directly impacts the client experience.
But… on the off chance that I ever have a session where the SP is CLEARLY the issue (bad hygiene, substance abuse, unhealthy practices, STD symptoms, scam), you better believe that crap will get reported the second I clear the building!!! But that is HIGHLY unlikely, as I tend to do my homework quite thoroughly before booking and leave the Leolist gambling to younger / more desperate studs!
Cheers!
To answer OP’s question: I am very unlikely to report a bad / bland session if it falls in one of the two following categories.
First, if I feel like I have anything to do with the outcome (mood, energy, expectations, chemistry…). In that case, I man up and shut up. I usually prepare enough to avoid all that, but… I ain’t getting any younger, stuff like that happens. But I’ll be damned before I jump online and blame my own bullshit on someone else.
Second, if I feel like the session suffered from factors outside the SP’s control (unforeseen delays, stress, misunderstanding with the agency/booker…). In that particular instance, I most likely won’t report it… unless other reviewers have had the same issue. Then it’s not just bad luck, it’s a pattern that deserves to be called out as it directly impacts the client experience.
But… on the off chance that I ever have a session where the SP is CLEARLY the issue (bad hygiene, substance abuse, unhealthy practices, STD symptoms, scam), you better believe that crap will get reported the second I clear the building!!! But that is HIGHLY unlikely, as I tend to do my homework quite thoroughly before booking and leave the Leolist gambling to younger / more desperate studs!
Cheers!
Had he done that I would have known he was a scumbag and there must have been a reason for you leaving 45 minutes early.
I happen to know you for eight years now and know how amazing you are, and this is exactly what I would have said which would have been the right thing to do and I would have been able to because I have had many experiences with you.
This is the whole idea about reviews it works both ways it exposes bad clients also anybody who doesn’t question one or two bad review and it doesn’t enter their mind that the client must have done something wrong after pages of glowing reviews is a complete idiot. Clients that write bad reviews that are not accurate also tend to have a history of doing this something again that I can remember being brought to lite a few times.
I think now I am done in this thread.
There's a clash between old merb and new merb.
merb used to be for clients who wanted information and discuss their experience with provider good or bad. Sharing bad experience or pointing little details they didnt like in a good experience was normal. It was easy for other clients to know if they provider would be a good match for them or not. Also, some provider or agency would use the negative comments to improve, have a good reputation and make the most $$ out of it.
Today, many clients see merb as a social media. A way to communicate with girls and receiving some like emoji from them. They will try to earn "points" by saying what the provider want to hear and defending them when a client has something negative to say. Writting something negative will often lead to being called a bad client. I still encourage to share bad experience but i understand people who dont. Personally, I ignore most reviews and only trust a few clients with whom I share experience in PM.
merb used to be for clients who wanted information and discuss their experience with provider good or bad. Sharing bad experience or pointing little details they didnt like in a good experience was normal. It was easy for other clients to know if they provider would be a good match for them or not. Also, some provider or agency would use the negative comments to improve, have a good reputation and make the most $$ out of it.
Today, many clients see merb as a social media. A way to communicate with girls and receiving some like emoji from them. They will try to earn "points" by saying what the provider want to hear and defending them when a client has something negative to say. Writting something negative will often lead to being called a bad client. I still encourage to share bad experience but i understand people who dont. Personally, I ignore most reviews and only trust a few clients with whom I share experience in PM.
Just that word smegma is disgusting.
Good for you to leave. How can a man be so disgusting and not realize it?
The vast majority of my experiences have been good, but there have been several that were not, and I did write about them. That is what I understand Merb to be about, the good and the bad.
Usually, a bad review will come from me when there are;
1) Hygiene issues
2) Numerous cancellations
3) Monetary issues
4) Safety issues
Usually, a bad review will come from me when there are;
1) Hygiene issues
2) Numerous cancellations
3) Monetary issues
4) Safety issues
I am likely to report a bad experience because it may help others.
Also I have been lucky as in 20 years I had very few.
Most reviews are there to see if the expectations are fully met or not.
But then again I like to provide feedback regardless of what's the topic.
I think reporting bad experiences is crucial. If I see members who have positive feedback on a majority of their experiences then they pist something negative that bears a lot of weight especially when it's a place I go to regularly.
Also I have been lucky as in 20 years I had very few.
Most reviews are there to see if the expectations are fully met or not.
But then again I like to provide feedback regardless of what's the topic.
I think reporting bad experiences is crucial. If I see members who have positive feedback on a majority of their experiences then they pist something negative that bears a lot of weight especially when it's a place I go to regularly.
"I would have appreciated an inch or more in depth of insertion of the tongue, and a twirling motion that is a bit faster in order to satisfy my need for DFK"
#joke
I agree, these should be rather objective and less prone to subjective judgment such as the chemistry or energy.
Did you learn to stay away from Leolist too, in the process, to avoid all these "bait and switch" and bad experiences?
isn't a hickey kinda a good thing? even a gesture that contains an bit of affection?
Funny story, I met this provider overseas years ago. We spent the whole night. I was in my 20's. She was amazing. She gave me such a big hickey but I was flying the next morning to Dubai.
I got on the plane, lots of people laughing at me as they knew what I was up to the night before.
I am going back to the days before Leolist! In those days all we had was a classified ad in the Mirror or Voir! LMFAO!!
People here in general I’ve noticed are overly generous about the looks of some SP esp in the face department. Not sure if that’s because there’s no time to put on makeup between bookings but the whole GND now seems to be a normal looking person rather someone actually cute or pretty let alone anything close to traffic stopping face.
Also, there were some minor things that seem not to warrant a report. Like a girl obviously had some garlic/onion before and it smelled like that in her face area. Or a girl once asked me if I do like girls in the middle of daty. (Later on she said obviously I do but that was weird). Then one girl kept saying how smooth and soft my skin was. Like non stop. So smoooth…
I am wondering about this since I entered the industry. Where does the expectation for escorts to have extremely beautiful faces, model-like body, inaccessible look, being overall show-stoppers come from? Because my first knowledge of the concept of sex workers in life comes from street workers, which said model archetype does not apply. They exist, but those glamourous, exceptional girls would not be charging Montreal rates.
I just realized that a clarification could be that giving the hickey was considered rude? Or she was rude and gave you a hickey?
But agree that if he got a hickey it's the consequence of passionate intimacy ...
