How likely are you to report a bad hobbying experience?
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I feel the same way about sessions too and I don't have performance issues. I just think that statistically if I don't click with a well-reviewed provider, I'm likely responsible for a part of that. Don't get me wrong, I'm not beating myself up about it, I just know I'm not for everyone, paid or otherwise, and that's ok. Plus, I like to be a work-in-progress, with room to improve, rather than think I'm some pussy-slaying cocksmith for whom the woman is likely the reason things don't work.
The hygiene issue was pretty bad that a lot of sp wrote a paragraph on their website to highlight that a good hygiene open the door to good services and I’ve been some agency owners making post here about hygiene as well
A client who got limited service because he stinks can certainly write a bad review but we should look at the bigger pictures. An sp who generally has good reviews and one dirty guy wrote a bad review pretty much say it all.
This is a review board and we have the liberty to write comment as we please
A client who got limited service because he stinks can certainly write a bad review but we should look at the bigger pictures. An sp who generally has good reviews and one dirty guy wrote a bad review pretty much say it all.
This is a review board and we have the liberty to write comment as we please
Same, sometimes it clicks great and I feel like 20 year old me (ok 30), and other times, not so much
Early on in my hobbying, I was more honest. the reality is our experience or view on the events are our own perspectives of how it was for us.
We have no clue what the other person is going through, or what is happening in their lives. There is also the chemistry of the bond between two people, if the bond just clicks it doesn't have to be greatest session it just feels good.
So in the last 5-10 years of my visits, some not even posted here. If the experience was sub par, I keep that to myself.
We have no clue what the other person is going through, or what is happening in their lives. There is also the chemistry of the bond between two people, if the bond just clicks it doesn't have to be greatest session it just feels good.
So in the last 5-10 years of my visits, some not even posted here. If the experience was sub par, I keep that to myself.
If you want to truly be professional, do what the top leaders like Buffet (and unfortunately what Trump used to do when he was on the Apprentice), which was to critique in private and support in public. The reality is that its two strangers are meeting and both don't know each other's likes, preferences or dislikes so it's better to voice that during the booking or even right after when you are leaving. If there is something that is actually horrible that happened, then voice that online.
Hi, you have to be very careful even doing that. Some people go straight from 0-100 at the slightest critique and see it as a personal attack.
In the context of meeting an SP or with sex in general, I find what works best is to praise when things are good. If somethings not done to your liking, say "I can't wait for you to do [action]" or I really loved when you were doing [action]", please do it again." I make it sound like i'm begging for it in a playful way. I always voice it in a sense that consent is required, not as a command.
If something really feels bad, i'll start with "I'm sorry" and carry on with something like, "this isn't feeling good for me" or "this kinda hurts. If it's ok, we can try something else"
I do agree it has to be diplomatic. From what I've seen, SP are at the end of the day service providers and they want to provide a good service even if it's gfe. Sometimes it's not a real gfe cause real gfs usually aren't aiming to provide great service. Sometimes that goes too far to the other way where it can get obviously fake, but if they are willing to that, you would they they would be willing to modify something they are doing to make it better for you. And the experience would only be better if they are actually there to change the experience rather than you months later at home not liking it. I've asked for example what position they like and if it's not the same as mine, then I just ask if I stick with what I like.
I'm more likely now. I've seen well over 500 women and I've seen a lot of apps come and go. If I could go back in time..I would have send back quite a few girls who were cold, or disrespectful to me in the first 5 mins of an appt. I'm probably like most other merbites..eventually an agency is gonna think it's a "you" pro lem and not the girls fault if you do this enough so we generally suck it up and just call it a loss at the end if the day by going thru the whole aoot hoping for the vibe or service to get better but it doesn't
Thats very kind of you.
Personally i write reviews regardless if good or bad, i just express my interpretation of the encounter objectively and include the good or bad and good and bad.
In cases where its theft or a scam, i will be less amicable of course.
In cases where its those rare incredible encounters, i wait a bit until reviewing and sometimes dont get around to doing a review or doing a review in time (like the venezualian goddess naty who i honestly hoarded lol, or the imane from my lounge thread i want to review but shes no longer working, or the french from france girl with a columbian mix and latvian, what an uncommon rarity being latvian and columbian and born in france.. she was probably the hottest girl i have ever seen. But she was only in montreal for a week and i intended on reviewing her but just was too busy and now she is gone)
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It shouldn't be a question as a review is a review and if you feel it was bad then that's what it is, other will maybe write positive one for same provider experience and we decide by reading all and make or choice. BUT in real it's kind of more delicate sometime because you don't one to be rude or have bad influence for a kind woman or fear comments back... so sometime it's not that easy to critic even if legit. After all it can't just be a 100% positive for all girl review site, it's normal to have bad review at time and be able to deal with and take it as constructive, but speaking by experience even if you are gentleman in your review some can't take it (provider or other merb member that love that provider) 
