How to be a bad client
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oohhh i have another. Happened to me last week.
#9. Meet the provider in the lobby and say: “sooooo, let’s talk about this rate. How about we bring it down waayyyy closer to market rate.” After having initially agreed to her full rate when booking of course.
I don’t get men like that isn’t their word worth anything?
If you can’t keep your word your not worth shit.
just being the devil's advocate here...
But this is the same as providers agreeing to this and that on X rate/amount and once the client gets there, they go "oh I don't offer this or that". Happened to me "oh my girlfriend wrote the ad for me, it wasn't me" wtf...
Obviously not all providers are like that... just like not all Johns are like #9, but it does take all kinds to make this world/hobby
You are absolutely correct my comments apply to providers as well. I will never see a provider again who doesn’t keep her word and tries those tactics.
Luckily there are many out there who are not like that and those are the ones to repeat with.
no one said every guy is like that. This is the thread “How to be a bad client” and he was one.
Furthermore, usually when we say “but isn’t it (x) the same as … (y)?”, it’s because x is being considered wrong while y is considered ok - which isn’t the case here.
So what you’re saying is it was okay for him to do it because girls do it too? This is why we ask you guys for 3 generations of ancestry, your wife’s middle name, your left kidney and your firstborn.
and then that leads us to our #10..
10. Don’t do this:
Context: his intro message was super abrasive (“Hi sweetie are you available for an out call in Montreal right away? In ville st laurent,. I pay cash . No deposits”) then be offered a “deposit” via gift card but he’d only give me the number when I get there… )
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Just added that. Believe it or not the bold part does happen to us. You really don’t need to tell us we were your second choice. It’s not useful.
Sometimes they book with the first that replied, and sometimes they go through every step only to cancel just before the booking is confirmed. The former is not less frustrating!
Wow! What a socially inept individual. By reading the text message exchange this guy has communication issues, serious inferiority, and self-esteem issues and seems miserable. Pathetic...
It is really such a shame anybody has to deal with this kind of crap.
I don’t do deposits either (except with a photo of the redemption code of a gift card) or a photo ID, but I could never talk to a woman like that.
Then again I will not attempt to see someone who states that they insist on a deposit and a phot ID. I just don’t trust someone I have never met that much no matter how good their reputation may be. References no problem.
Didn't this guy have parents.
I don’t understand what this kind of rudeness is supposed to achieve.
Bad client: cheap, dirty, demanding , rude and often high or drank. The same is typical for boyfriends many of the same girls have and whom they f-k for free
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Even if some of these losers have enough "game" to get a non-SP woman, the explicitly transactional nature of sex work and not seeing SPs as human beings allows their assholery to push the limits.
As Fradi said, it's unfortunate any SP has to deal with this nonsense. But despite the hassle dealt with, there are guardrails that prevent SPs from seeing these guys in the first place or seeing them again. So then imagine the horror when you remember some of these guys are in the dating pool--cuz the guy stealthing with an SP is the same guy stealthing with someone he met on Bumble.
As Fradi said, it's unfortunate any SP has to deal with this nonsense. But despite the hassle dealt with, there are guardrails that prevent SPs from seeing these guys in the first place or seeing them again. So then imagine the horror when you remember some of these guys are in the dating pool--cuz the guy stealthing with an SP is the same guy stealthing with someone he met on Bumble.
and the worst is that I wasn’t even adamant about the dang deposit… and he got his panties in a wad at my first alternative suggestion.
Like sheesh, be happy I even have that many options to replace deposits homie .. wtf
You are way better off that you didn’t see him.
Not someone you should be seeing actually nobody should give him the time of day.
I am not surprised though people just don’t give a shit today who they insult.
The stupidest thing in the world is to piss off an SP even before you see them or during and then expect to have any kind of connection or enjoyable session.
Honestly I am so thankful to the 2 ladies that I see most of the time, they are so kind and thoughtful and it is such a pleasure to spend time with them.
Some people are clueless.
These fools probably insult the cook or server before they receive their food.
Is common sense that dead?
These fools probably insult the cook or server before they receive their food.
Is common sense that dead?
This seems to be kind of a silly thread. Does it take a discussion like this for a man to treat a lady with respect?
No. Sometimes ignorance is the reason for a certain behaviour, it's not always malicious. It can give answers to clients who don't know what went wrong on their first contact with a provider. From experience, clients seem very oblivious to how their requests and way of doing things impact us.
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