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How to be a bad client
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SPs also have vaccation time as well. And likely if it is her time of the month it isn't a blow-off of your time, but a delay tactic because she is actually unavailable at that moment. For some she is just hopeing you will keep intrest long enough to contact for when she is available.
Trust me, the answer is yes.
A man in his 50s once came to my incall, yelled “it’s so hot outside, I’m sweating!” and took a 2 mins shower. He did not smell fresh when he came out.
Okay I agree with you and I did mention that if she has a reasonable explanation I am willing to listen.
However things that you mention can be easily averted. If she is on vacation what is wrong with a mention on her web sight to that effect.
If it is that time of the month I don’t think it is crippling to her hand that she can’t simply text you sorry it is that time and to try again starting on this date.
Effective and respectful communication is applicable to both sides. It has happened with my ATF that it was that time of month and I still saw her there are others things to do to be able to enjoy each others company. I probably wouldn’t do that with someone I am seeing the first time though.
I consider it a complete blow off of my time if she doesn’t respond within 24 hours without a reasonable excuse and I will just eliminate her for another request.
I was talking about being completely ignored for a couple of days then a text as if nothing has happened and it is perfectly acceptable for her not to respond until she feels like it or happens to be short of funds.
Were you able to tell him to get back in the shower? The next client you see may assume that you are the stinky one if there is any lingering odor. It’s unfortunate you had to deal with that.
It’s happened to me as a client that the SP had an odor. I told her to get back in the shower or I would have to leave.
Unfortunately, I can't deal with that.
Were you able to tell him to get back in the shower? The next client you see may assume that you are the stinky one if there is any lingering odor. It’s unfortunate you had to deal with that.
It’s happened to me as a client that the SP had an odor. I told her to get back in the shower or I would have to leave.
I’m not worried about that because I usually see one person a day or one in the morning and one at night. I didn’t perform certain services and then I ignored his attempts at booking me after that
I’m curious, in your opinion, is the fact that he was in his 50s is relevant to his behavior? According to your experience, Are more mature men tend to be more careless with their personal hygiene?
I would expect that in your 50s you’d know how to shower properly. It’s not your first day in your body, you’ve been around long enough.
Most men that come to me usually have impeccable hygiene, I didn’t notice a trend in age.
move flipped flopped between having my prices or my ad or not forever (now they’re on my site cause standard lol) but hesitations was that there’s more times than I can count where it’s after talking to me that one was convinced my pricing is fair.
What is your advice on how long one should wait before contacting another SP if the first has not replied? I personally prefer indies to agency and so far have always been able to book with the SP of my choice, hopefully that was phrased correctly and not disrespectful.
But for futur reference I have not contacted multiple SP at the same time, but what is your advice ladies if no answer is received after 1 day? re-contact same SP or contact someone else? if both initial replies comme back fairly close to one another I would tend to go with the SP that replies faster but what should my reply be to the first one to let her know or not that I went with someone else without burning the bridge for a futur encounter?
personally, just the fact that you told me will make me take you more seriously the next time actually. No bridge burning here.
Simple common sense approach seems to work best. Courtesy, manners, a willingness to do the simple things like the shower upon arrival even though you've showered, shaved and are well groomed and clean. Why anyone would contact a woman in the first place if he can't afford or doesn't like her rate is utter stupidity, imo. Read her ad thoroughly and her website if she has one and of course, when I say "read", that doesn't mean go to her photo gallery and jerk off only, lol. Although, in all fairness, sometimes those photos are awfully damn sexy and it's difficult to restrain oneself. . Guys, treat the lady with kindness and respect and honor her simple wishes and you will have a wonderful encounter 99.9% of the time. That should be obvious, of course, but as we see by the earlier screenshot in this thread, self entitled douchebaggery exists and these reminders do help.
. Guys, treat the lady with kindness and respect and honor her simple wishes and you will have a wonderful encounter 99.9% of the time. That should be obvious, of course, but as we see by the earlier screenshot in this thread, self entitled douchebaggery exists and these reminders do help.
We do not know why but it seems there are plenty…
I guess most of them have some problems between ears.
Maybe Bill Clinton would say to them..."It's the economy stupids!"
A lot apply for girl too!I don't consider bad breath to be in the same category as showering although it's certainly a hygiene issue. For both parties. Brush teeth/mouthwash/mints whatever. That's especially true for smokers. Applies to the girl too, of course. Sigh. I suppose we need to create the list of bad SP behaviour too. I'm just not sure if I'm brave enough for the backlash!
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