How to be a bad client

[Jordd]

This might come as a shock for some of you but a lot of us consider wanting to f**** the whole session very rude. We all know why you come to see us but offering a break, water or just asking if we’re ok is appreciated.

Same goes for purposely delaying your orgasm. If you’ve been at it for 30 mins with no intention to cum it’s not exactly fun. Take a break, have some water, let yourself be teased a little and then go back at it.


PS: intention and capacity aren’t the same.

P.S 2: I guess this would mostly apply to sessions that are 60 mins and longer

Hmmm…. makes me wonder why you started the “What makes you cum instantly thread”!!
lol How did it work out?

N.B. Finger in the )x( does it for me every time. Grabbing the balls works pretty good too!

 

[Jordd]

Who do you see who offers only a 2 minute session. In a 1 hr visit that leaves 58 minutes of cuddling, chatting, and just enjoying eachothers company.

But what about the shower? Haha

 

[LC18]

Hmmm…. makes me wonder why you started the “What makes you cum instantly thread”!!
lol How did it work out?

N.B. Finger in the )x( does it for me every time. Grabbing the balls works pretty good too!

It’s only happened to me once this year that the man gave me little to no break and it wasn’t fun. I’m usually smiley and happy but it was simply exhausting and not the good kind of exhausting.

 

[Rebaynia]

But what about the shower? Haha

Depends on the SP.
I take mine after the hour chime goes off. Unless i feel the need right away after coitus mind you, there can be exceptions. I enjoy the afterglow time together. When there isn't any post-release time, I don't enjoy the visit as much, and am less likely to visit next time.

 

[Jordd]

It’s only happened to me once this year that the man gave me little to no break and it wasn’t fun. I’m usually smiley and happy but it was simply exhausting and not the good kind of exhausting.

Can I ask a dumb question? Does this happen because the client can’t cum? Or because they want to cum multiple times? They don’t want any down time in order to “maximize” their “return on investment”?

 

[LC18]

Can I ask a dumb question? Does this happen because the client can’t cum? Or because they want to cum multiple times? They don’t want any down time in order to “maximize” their “return on investment”?

They only cum once and will cum at minute 57 or 59 which makes it very unpleasant and it’s not because they can’t cum. They will mention “I don’t want to cum now” and it’s already 40 mins in. Usually men that can’t cum because of stress, sleep or other reasons know it already and will stop on their own.

I’d rather we go 2-3 rounds at least I can have some breaks in between.

 

[Flyingby]

They only cum once and will cum at minute 57 or 59 which makes it very unpleasant and it’s not because they can’t cum. They will mention “I don’t want to cum now” and it’s already 40 mins in. Usually men that can’t cum because of stress, sleep or other reasons know it already and will stop on their own.

I’d rather we go 2-3 rounds at least I can have some breaks in between.

This is interesting
So. Hypothetically a real scenario
Book 90 mins
Quick first sog. 10 mins chat break. 2nd round 10-15 mins including foreplay. Another 10 mins chat break. And one final round maybe 15 mins including foreplay
That works fine? Or is that considered a fuck session that you hate?

 

[LC18]

This is interesting
So. Hypothetically a real scenario
Book 90 mins
Quick first sog. 10 mins chat break. 2nd round 10-15 mins including foreplay. Another 10 mins chat break. And one final round maybe 15 mins including foreplay
That works fine? Or is that considered a fuck session that you hate?

To me, it’s perfectly fine. I have enough time to recharge

 

[CuriousGent]

They only cum once and will cum at minute 57 or 59 which makes it very unpleasant and it’s not because they can’t cum. They will mention “I don’t want to cum now” and it’s already 40 mins in. Usually men that can’t cum because of stress, sleep or other reasons know it already and will stop on their own.

I’d rather we go 2-3 rounds at least I can have some breaks in between.

Would you ask for a pause or break during the meeting if the men keep delaying? Or ride it out and just not take anymore booking for that client?

 

[LC18]

Would you ask for a pause or break during the meeting if the men keep delaying? Or ride it out and just not take anymore booking for that client?

I will get up and drink water. If he tries to stop me from drinking water or if he does not let me drink water alone (Coming behind me while I have sipping), I will not book again.

2-3 sips are enough for me but need a break

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I have this issue where it takes me a long time to cum. Actually, I struggle to cum by penetration period. So I can definitely fuck for a while. But that doesn't mean I'm going full piston mode for 1hour non stop and I know from experience that women don't necessarily like it (some definitely do though lol), especially SPs for obvious reasons. I also don't mind taking breaks, slowing the rhythm etc

I think communicating to the sp that they're lowed to take breaks is perfect and one suggestion I might offer is going for penetrative sex for a while and then allow to provider to make you cum in a different way

 

[ThunderLipps]

Bad client: hi babe u avail? Babe!! What's your menu how much I can be there in 30 minutes
(Then proceeds to call me a wh*re because I tell him he's being rude)

People actually do that?

 

[Rebaynia]

People actually do that?

Yes. There are many looking for providers who act like this.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Yes. There are many looking for providers who act like this.

I think a lot of these guys aren't actually looking to book us, they just want to be assholes.. It's kinda like prank callers but worse

 

[Jordd]

I will get up and drink water. If he tries to stop me from drinking water or if he does not let me drink water alone (Coming behind me while I have sipping), I will not book again.

2-3 sips are enough for me but need a break

Kind of like the old “Honey I have a headache”

 

[Jordd]

Good client : hi my name is x I'm xx years old and I have x occupation and x hobbies I really enjoy your profile and would love to book you. Are you available on these dates and times? I read your website and looked at your social media and noticed many things i liked about you! I am ready to offer information you need to make you feel comfortable.

Will cut @ paste that

 

[LC18]

Kind of like the old “Honey I have a headache”

Sorta

 

[DouMan]

people who ask a ton of questions and waste hours of my time without ever booking

More often than not the answers are already either in the published ad or website. When this happens just copy and paste something like "thank-you for your interest, you may find that information in my Ad/website" and move on.

It's a nice, non provocative way of saying wake-up idiot your wasting my time. If Dumbo still comes back with stupid questions, ignore. He was informed once and clearly does not deserve the privilege of your time or presence. Block, Next.

 

[DouMan]

Well, my services aren't listed in my ads or on my website clearly. But really often conversations last way too long than just answering a simple message.

It's really hard to feel like you're good enough in this industry, specially with the constant comparisons. Both clients and colleagues are constantly criticizing you. Am I attractive enough? Am I charging too much or too low? Should I offer something I don't want to offer because I'm simply not comfortable with it/don't like it? Am I too nice or not nice enough? Am I saying too much or not enough? It's exhausting.

Maybe a coach could be of support. Note: I am not talking about a pimp but someone that can support you in this domain.

It could be a fellow worker in the SP industry or maybe even an old client. If it is an old client it must be VERY clear that it is coaching only and never is there to be any form of physical contact, never.

But first of all YOU must believe that you are good enough and stop comparing yourself with others. And of course NEVER, NEVER, NEVER offer services that make you uncomfortable, never.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Maybe a coach could be of support. Note: I am not talking about a pimp but someone that can support you in this domain.

It could be a fellow worker in the SP industry or maybe even an old client. If it is an old client it must be VERY clear that it is coaching only and never is there to be any form of physical contact, never.

But first of all YOU must believe that you are good enough and stop comparing yourself with others. And of course NEVER, NEVER, NEVER offer services that make you uncomfortable, never.

This is my third year in the industry and I've acquired a lot of experience, I have a lot of contacts and we frequently discuss various situations together. I am not without support and I do have people I can ask for advice. There is no fool proof method to succeed in this industry and I feel pretty proud of where I am right now, i do have some success, but sometimes things can still be difficult. Something that works for one SP may not work for another. I've been given advice that didn't work for me, and advice that worked. It's a trial and error process at this point.

There are coaches and bookers but I don't trust their intentions, they are looking to take a huge cut from your salary etc. I'm not interested in that.