Star-Man- Impressive realization. The research is with you. Critical thinking/ judgement takes the longest to fully develop, and those parts of the brain do continue developing (becoming more wired, lets say) through early 20's, these days. Probably why college students act so foolishly (can't explain the rest of us).
While I'm throwing in my psychologist knowledge, couple more things for the record:
Gambler and Erase - Paxil is actually often prescribed to decrease obsessive compulsive behavior these days. No reason why it should increase it. Only thing coming to mind is that these kinds of new antidepressants can be very activating in general. Able to do more when on them than when in a total slump.
The SP thing does seem like a quick fix, and those of us with mild or not so mild mood issues are more susceptible to needing/benefiting from the quick fix. Some people seem to have a higher threshold for stimulation, need more to keep their attention, and can't be satisfied easily with the monotony of everyday life. ADHD. Perhaps Erase said this, but ADHD and mood issues are highly correlated in the general population. For people with ADHD, like myself and probably most merbites, things are not as reinforcing for them in general, and reinforcers extinguish quickly. Erase made a good point about difficulties in working towards things requiring delayed gratification. Classic ADHD. Can be feuled by experiences. In my opinion, kids not learning as well in school these days is probably related to hours spent in high-stimulation screen activities (TV, electronic games). This stuff renders their teachers a duller version of Charlie Brown's teacher than ever. Most kids would rather play Wii than fight the elements playing a real game of baseball outside. So what we do (indulge) can certainly exacerbate what our genetics (ADHD) dictate. Back to drugs. No reason Paxil should make things worse, and given the side effects, may even help a sex addiction. Stimulants for ADHD may or may not help. The Harvard Mental Health Letter says some drugs, like Wellbutrin and BuSpar may actually increase desire, so may want to stay away from those. What about finding a partner who loves sex and refuses to let it get old? Easier said than done, I suppose. And perhaps sex with a spouse will always get old (?). Wish I could find someone who's not found that to be true.
While I'm throwing in my psychologist knowledge, couple more things for the record:
Gambler and Erase - Paxil is actually often prescribed to decrease obsessive compulsive behavior these days. No reason why it should increase it. Only thing coming to mind is that these kinds of new antidepressants can be very activating in general. Able to do more when on them than when in a total slump.
The SP thing does seem like a quick fix, and those of us with mild or not so mild mood issues are more susceptible to needing/benefiting from the quick fix. Some people seem to have a higher threshold for stimulation, need more to keep their attention, and can't be satisfied easily with the monotony of everyday life. ADHD. Perhaps Erase said this, but ADHD and mood issues are highly correlated in the general population. For people with ADHD, like myself and probably most merbites, things are not as reinforcing for them in general, and reinforcers extinguish quickly. Erase made a good point about difficulties in working towards things requiring delayed gratification. Classic ADHD. Can be feuled by experiences. In my opinion, kids not learning as well in school these days is probably related to hours spent in high-stimulation screen activities (TV, electronic games). This stuff renders their teachers a duller version of Charlie Brown's teacher than ever. Most kids would rather play Wii than fight the elements playing a real game of baseball outside. So what we do (indulge) can certainly exacerbate what our genetics (ADHD) dictate. Back to drugs. No reason Paxil should make things worse, and given the side effects, may even help a sex addiction. Stimulants for ADHD may or may not help. The Harvard Mental Health Letter says some drugs, like Wellbutrin and BuSpar may actually increase desire, so may want to stay away from those. What about finding a partner who loves sex and refuses to let it get old? Easier said than done, I suppose. And perhaps sex with a spouse will always get old (?). Wish I could find someone who's not found that to be true.