How to quit the Hobby/Addiction?

[EagerBeaver]

Unfortunately that is true. Our whole system is set up to allow treatments for assorted mental disorders whose creation was due to a host of mental health professionals needing justification to bill for their treatments. I am heavily involved as an erstwhile “mechanic” in this system who tries to sort out the fake from the real and advise insurers and others accordingly.

I don’t believe sexual and food addictions are real or actual disorders. I don’t believe in gambling addiction. I have alcoholics in my family but I never became an alcoholic. At the end of the day I believe in freedom of choice and accountability for one’s own behaviors.

I have it in my ability and power to control how much I have sex. Deep down I know this and so do all of you. When it’s NOT controlled, it’s weakness- not addiction.

 

[jalimon]

This isn’t really different than the need for lots of arrests and imprisonment to feed the prison industrial complex.

A tremendous number of college graduates finish with soft majors, particularly psychology and social work.

The more people who can be convinced they have a mental condition, the more people who can be steered toward therapy and the more the insurance companies can be billed.

When they take matters out of the hands of the church and into science, you just get a different group of shysters.

It's a lot different. There is more rigid work done by an organization like WHO then all different religion of the world who bring so much hate. Religion that were all invented by men to discriminate against women and treat them like second class piece of shit.

Cheers,

 

[EagerBeaver]

Marital therapy and counseling has in many cases become a very important if not chief vocation of many clergymen. One of my clients, whom I actually really like and think is a good man, is a Christian minister with graduate degrees in divinity and counseling. Much of his time is spent mediating marital problems of his parishioners, and I would guess that those issues include infidelity, adultery, and perhaps in some cases, sexual addiction or purported sexual addiction. To go along with the routine marital conflicts that arise. This is what the parishioners get in return for their Sunday donations.

This also reminds me I have to call him tomorrow. The dude is a good source of potential business. Clergyman clients are a hard on for anyone who wants to make rain.

 

[jalimon]

WHO is a European political fluff organization, not a bunch of real doctors practicing real medicine.

At some point real doctors need to put their practice behind to helps others. If not that's all they would do. Practicing the same stuff forgetting their main goal is to try to avoid practicing by having the population in better health condition. So they teach and they lead medical association. Yes there is a lot of politics and money driving these association awry at times but down the road we are far better off with them then without. I have been in this business for 20 years now. You will not convince me with some article found on google.

Cheers,

 

[heliragedeleted]

It's a lot different. There is more rigid work done by an organization like WHO then all different religion of the world who bring so much hate. Religion that were all invented by men to discriminate against women and treat them like second class piece of shit.

Cheers,

No religion was not invented to control women. That is just a byproduct. It was invented to control people and get rich. Then again I’m a very religious person.

 

[cpp433]

No religion was not invented to control women. That is just a byproduct. It was invented to control people and get rich. Then again I’m a very religious person.

To be more specific, to control the masses.

 

[OnlyDoggy]

I am stopping. I won't come back until II'm married with kids.

 

[henri007]

I am stopping. I won't come back until II'm married with kids.

Good for you. I guess you find love now. If you get married, don't come back here either. Good luck.

 

[jalimon]

I am stopping. I won't come back until II'm married with kids.

That's the way to go believe me nothing beats that!

Problem for me is I am divorced with kids so no good reason to stop! And beside I am just starting to get the mojo in this hobby

Cheers,

 

[remuus]

I have similar addiction to porno and sex fetish. Every weekend I take a part in some crazy events like cross dressing gang bang parties. It is really interesting and funny things. Special for ot I regularly bought new latex stuffs like outfits on https://www.rubberloft.com/ I think in the future I need to fight with my addition to fetish.

 

[cloudsurf]

How to quit the hobby. Short answer is.....die.
Longer answer is quit reading reviews...thats only the first step though.

 

[OnlyDoggy]

My grand parents were together for 68 years. All they needed was each other. All people need is to find that one person in 7 billion.

Reading the forum or not is not gonna make a difference. Thats not the temptation. The temptation comes when night rolls around, the dick is hard, and the mind weak from the absence of meaningful connection that leads to a white volcano explosion in the pants.

 

[Fradi]

My grand parents were together for 68 years. All they needed was each other. All people need is to find that one person in 7 billion.

You are right it is possible to be with only one woman and be totally happy if you are in love.
There is such a thing as someone created especially for you.
Nothing beats being in love with the right woman and a family.

 

[jalimon]

Hum Fradi, Onlydoggy some of us (probably many) actually separate sex from love.

For me it has always been 2 different things. I guess no wonder I am no longer with the mother of my kids

Cheers,

 

[Annie Sexy]

Jalimon ne dit pas de sottises, c'est en effet complètement différent mais quand les deux sont ensemble c'est juste parfait
Et le sujet, je crois que c'est comme la cigarette ou autre substance, prend énormément de volonté...

 

[Fradi]

Hum Fradi, Onlydoggy some of us (probably many) actually separate sex from love.

Cheers,

For me the best has always been with the one you love , now with an ATF that there is a connection with way more than with any other.
For some it is not about how deep one can swallow your dick or whether they allow anal or not or how many orgasm you can give or get.

 

[jalimon]

For me the best has always been with the one you love , now with an ATF that there is a connection with way more than with any other.
For some it is not about how deep one can swallow your dick or whether they allow anal or not or how many orgasm you can give or get.

Perfectly understand and agree with your point. To each is own. But just a note that for me too it's definitely not about how many orgasm I give as usually it's none haha

Jalimon ne dit pas de sottises

J'essaye je te jure!! Mais diantre à force d'en lire ici on vient qu'on en écrit malgré nous

 

[Rollin Hand]

Not ever having tried t quit, I would probably try t taper down. Lessen your frequency till you can quit.

 

[Annie Sexy]

Je te comprends tellement jalimon je suis jamais capable de me fermée c'est plus fort que moi hahahaha

 

[hobbier]

Avec mon ex, la mére de mes enfants, on avait du sexe très intense et on s'embrassait comme des ados même après 18 ans....mais elle est finalement partie à cause de mes multiples escapades et aventures...

@jalimon...je suis comme toi...amour et sexe sont dans 2 différentes sphères...par contre quand tu as les 2 avec une même personne alors là c'est le feu d'artifice!!

Et pour revenir au sujet de comment faire pour quitter le hobby...comme l'a décrir cloudsurf.. il faut soit crever...soit devenir aveugle...soit pour des hommes de mon âge, arrêter de prendre soin de soi-même et devenir gros, laid et pas propre...donc c'est comme se laisser mourir