ive had more than a few moments where i REALLY regretted my encounter. It was either because:
* I 'stayed' rather than bailing before the encounter started when i realized I was not attracted to the person i just met 3 seconds ago
* not being able to get hard during an encouunter even though I am attracted (see my thread on rebooting my brain -
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?179548-Time-to-reboot-my-brain&highlight=reboot)
* despite being attracted and able to get hard not enjoying encouter because the provider offers bad service
To add insult to injury, you then proceed to pay a relatively large sum of money for something you did not enjoy. Man, I have felt bad in those situations, and even questioned many times if I have a problem/addiction.
Strangely, however, I never felt like I had a problem when I had a good encounter :smile: To the conntrary I feel like it was money very well spent, that my soul is refreshed, etc...
The trick is to not have (or greatly reduce) those bad encounters. If you are having trouble getting hard, and are a habitual porn user, reboot your brain. I did it a few months ago, and now I so much moore enjoy sex, i am back to being like a teenager, even sometimes not being able to withhold comming.