I need help...not sure what happened...

[hungry101]

I remember when I first got on the hobby scene years ago. Those first few times were difficult. Some of it may have been getting used to fucking random strangers but most of it was due to getting used to having an orgasm in a condom. That took some getting used to. And be careful with Viagra. That was great to achieve incredible erections that stayed hard but it made it more difficult to cum. With that drug, more is not better.

 

[Fradi]

Sex should be all about pleasure, hers and yours. Well in a civilian relationship anyway, it is doubtful how much pleasure an SP gets with a client, ( if you read Merb reviews plenty because we are all great and give multiple orgasms) I guess it all depends on the SP, it is hard to tell as it is a fantasy after all that they are providing.
Leave the experience to the SP and btw she doesn’t give a flying fuck if you are experienced or not as long as you treat her with respect are clean and don’t haggle you will be fine.

 

[sene5hos]

mostly because I am mostly 29, I did not have any prior sexual experience, I felt immense pressure to experience one of the most seemly important aspects in life even although my analytical mindset tells me it is not going to be great.

many people could consider me a loser in personal life, due to my medical condition in the teenage year and poor family background, I've spent my adult life focusing on career and catching up on peers, neglecting emotional and physical needs. Sexual experience is probably the best to experience when you are around 18, in college, more difficult to do it 10 years later...

For me, at least for the moment, I am less into pleasure and simply trying to gain some experience.

Excellent continue.

I understand now. I seriously think you can have a lot of fun even if you don't ejaculate.
You don't just have to focus on that like it's the ultimate goal.

I'll give you an analogy: a mountaineer tried to climb a high mountain, but he did not succeed, on the other hand all along the way he saw very beautiful landscapes.