Hello all,
Why so much people trip on anal? I mean shure it must be tight but is it worth it?
I never really tried it. Seems such a delicate part of the anatomy.
"You may want to ask your
gay friends who may offer some insight."
Thor, I understand you were simply asking about the difference between the vaginal and anal/greek sex experience. Since you have never tried it this would seem to indicate clearly you are not "gay". Why anyone then had to make such an association was unnecessarily impudent, baiting, and thoughtless.
I also don't see the relevance of continuing personal medical history that by individual proclamation has had no connection with anal sex. Yes, there are serious possible risks and complications with anal sex, but NOT any more frequent or more risky than with vaginal sex depending on the caution of the practitioners, and only slightly different in very specific ways. For any sex, the key is to be aware of the risks, carefully be sure to make the best preparations and take the best precautions whether it is vaginal or anal. Some of what is being said hear is using worst case scenarios and unrelated personal episodes by those who have absolutely no experience with anal seemingly to impose bias against the act.
Personally, I experienced "invasive surgery" at infancy, and a couple of times later...and there is no relevance to the subject of anal sex, beyond the simple natural fact that sex itself has risks depending on the situation, and any surgery is risky. Since any sex is risky to slightly varying degrees, and even vaginal sex can be extremely risky depending on the persons and the situation involved, the way some things are being presented it would seem that either NO SEX is the best answer, or there is possibly a bias and possibly a sexual orientation phobia at work here.
In regards to anal being unnatural in purely functional design aspect, oral sex seems to be almost totally absent from the revelations of the chief anti-anal advocate even though the mouth is not functionally natural for the penis, and oral is also a large part of the "gay" sexual repertoire.
I think those who can't help but impose unseemly and possibly bigoted biases on the subject of anal (male on female) sex here should remember this is a sex board that is open to exploring all sexual options that are reasonably safe and mutually consented by the partners. Anal sex is one of those options to discuss here, not an "unnatural" deviation any more than a very wide range of others such as DP, BDSM, Domination, toys, etc...or Oral. If it is not to your taste then fine. Many of these aren't to my taste either. But imposing bias, especially when you have NO EXPERIENCE on the subject, has no place.
Cheers,
Merlot