This is my replay to the lawmakers:
I am a single shy guy, 36, a genius in computers/software, have 3 successful companies. Widely respected and cherished by people in my peer group and my customers.
My mind gets stuck when I talk to girls, because I grew up in tech schools AKA "Male monasteries".
I don't get laid, if a woman says something harsh to me, my mind can freak out really bad and I could literally cry out of desperation and frustration.
What should I do? "Kill myself"? Watch porn? Seek sex in Venezuela? What? I want some lawmaker tell me that!
What should a man like that do? "Get a girlfriend" He can't, Ok, that's the reality, he can't. He is a human being too.
I am not a tool to this society to invent, innovate, work, pay horrendously high taxes and not even have a right to harmlessly get laid with a woman who obviously enjoys her profession!!! If these lawmakers so smart, let them write software and work like I do. "Bunch of knowitalls".
In ancient tribes, elders knew that if a guy is left without a woman, he will not contribute to society and after a while completely freak out. They even invented a marriage between 1 woman and several men just for that.
Why is it a crime for a mature adult to seek actual help from a professional escort who can help him unblock himself? Am I beating her up or something?
Why is it a crime?
If you are protecting "minors" set a minimum age for "sexual services" like 25. I can't believe a 33 year old woman needs protection from me.
If a person forces another person to perform any act, not just sexual, make that a crime!
I am not forcing anybody. I need compassion and emotionally-safe environment to develop myself. I don't want to hurt anybody.
Another example,
a guy goes through divorce, and he is about to completely freak out, take a gun and start shooting his ex family with his kids and everybody on the street. Don't tell me it "never happend in Canada", it happens way too often...
No, he is not a criminal. He is a man driven to a desparation because nobody cares about what is ESSENTIAL NEED FOR HIM and everybody Criminalizes everything he is doing.
FYI there are 100 billion neurons in each of our heads. Can somebody tell how will they react in a deeply frustrated state?
Isn't it better to let him hire escorts to prevent this, to change his outlook on life and see the life from a different angle and perspective?
Should I become a Prime Minister to shut these feminazis up?
The way this law is written is completely unreasonable, very vague and creates more harm than good. Other than human trafficking, advertising to minors, nothing makes sense in this law.
It's a typical feminazi law, and I hope that it will either not go through, get amended, or simply not get executed in reality.
Because I can't imagine a common-sense judge judging a guy like me in his situation to seek simple "training wheels" in a form of paying a much more experienced woman for her time to have sex with him.
If they prevent that, the number of rapes will go higher, is this what they want?
They should accept the reality of life that we are primarily animals and only thin layer of upper cortex makes us humans. And that Sex is not a luxury, it's a necessity. They should make procurement of sexual services SAFE for all parties involved and not criminalize it. Make escorts able to call police if they are beaten or abused!!! GEEZ!!! It's common sense!!! These are women, daughters just like everybody else. They deserve protection too!
If they are afraid to call police, for sure they will be abused. Make contractual obligation to perform sex "non-obligatory" in other words even if we sign a written contract, you can say "I am not doing that just because, here is X% of your money back good bye". And that's it, there is no more ground for abuse, force, etc.
Make agencies TALK OPENLY with recruits about what is expected of them and all the nuances of the profession and what to do in each case.
Criminalizing it will create a much more abusive situations where Drug lords will own brothels and do whatever they want with whomever they want and nobody will be able to do anything. It's the opposite of what this law wants to achieve.