Never been a fan of seeking arrangement, or in fact the "packages" offered by independents (who are often older than the average sex worker and, to me, less attractive than my favorites) that includes multi-hour companionship and food.
It is similar to the investment world. If you desire a diversified portfolio, it really no longer makes sense to put your whole portfolio with a financial guy who is charging 2 percent of the total each year. You are losing money on the cash portion that now earns 0-1 percent. That guy is worth his 2 percent for the stock and perhaps bond portion of the portfolio if he can earn you well in excess of his 2 percent fee. What is the solution? Invest and manage the cash portion yourself.
All of Montreal's highly reviewed sex workers are worth the $200 or so an hour fee, especially if you last a while, or can get it up twice in the hour. But should you really be paying a sex worker anywhere close to that, of even half that, for social interaction and mutual enjoyment of food? It is like paying the financial guy 2 percent to manage your cash.
Seeking arrangement and similar sites make their profit on the fact that a lot of women who have sex for money cannot deal with being hookers and a lot of guys purchasing sex cannot deal with being johns. You just posted on merb. Say I am a John, and you will start down a path that will save you money in comparison to your plan.
For a portion of what you allocated in your original post, you can find at least three or four regulars to see once a month, and leave a slot or two open each month for seeing someone brand new to you. You are probably bored with your wife. Seeing just one other person is not going to help that much. But you want some continuity and familiarity - you are a married man after all. So having some regulars is a good idea. Use incall for discretion, and it will save you on hotel bills and provide less paper trail. And if you use one agency that has incall, you will have a lot of discretion. One phone number or one series of texts that can easily be deleted.
I assume your wife now thinks Cook-ing is a city in China near two others she has heard of in China, Fuck-ing and Clean-ing. Identify some good restaurants with bars and eat there. Get to know the chick serving the bar and talk to her regularly. You will end up conversing with her as much as you would with the expensive independent escort during the meal portion of her package, or with the Seeking Arrangement chick who is Definitely Not A Hooker. Take off that wedding band when you enter, too. You might get laid eventually. And bring a newspaper to read. It will be nice to keep up with Sports while eating instead of listening to your wife bitch at you about things. You will save a fortune only buying food for yourself instead of for two people.
Lastly, I bet you half the guys on merb regularly participate in a half dozen Internet discussion forums on a multitude of topics, sex being only one of them. Don't underestimate the use of technology to fill the social interaction gap in your life. And if true face to face interaction is a necessity, don't ignore professional and social groups. You can enhance your professional life and perhaps help your community. Talking to the hooker, or the Seeking Arrangement girl Who Is Definitely Not a Hooker for a couple of hours after sex (in addition to talking to her in between rounds which you would do with any escort, anyway) isn't going to do either of those things.
To me, sex workers are for sex, and I truly love and appreciate them. But outside of possibly using them as guides in foreign countries, I just can't see the benefits of paying them for activities other than sex, particularly when you are on such a budget that you could realistically only see one, and she wouldn't be that impressed with your spending level, anyway.
, god blessed them and good luck in their “civil” life
