Hey, I like my pizza with extra toppings and delivered now and then. :hungry:
Seeking is not for everyone, but everyone can take up Hobbying especially in Montreal.
Well said. I resemble that remark. :Cry:
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Hey, I like my pizza with extra toppings and delivered now and then. :hungry:
Seeking is not for everyone, but everyone can take up Hobbying especially in Montreal.
Well said. I resemble that remark. :Cry:
Eager, you're absolutely right. Take my comment as just a stand alone comment regarding romance and arrangements.
The SA site is an amazing social experiment. I'm sure academic researchers are looking at the social psychology of the male and female SA participants.
One woman can say she wants to find a meaningful, long-term relationship with a nice guy and is not interested in money. The next woman might say she wants an allowance, shopping trips and vacations. Some of this is certainly "mental gymnastics", but I wonder if the former is really a sales pitch setting up the allusion for the man. The latter brazenly non-pitch is clearly don't waste my time if you can't deliver this.
The SA site is an amazing social experiment. I'm sure academic researchers are looking at the social psychology of the male and female SA participants.
One woman can say she wants to find a meaningful, long-term relationship with a nice guy and is not interested in money. The next woman might say she wants an allowance, shopping trips and vacations. Some of this is certainly "mental gymnastics", but I wonder if the former is really a sales pitch setting up the allusion for the man. The latter brazenly non-pitch is clearly don't waste my time if you can't deliver this.
I think that in many instances of the former it is a sales pitch. Crafty SBs understand that guys want a romantic fantasy and that reading the profile is a first step in indulging that fantasy.
I don’t get caught up in the mental gymnastics and never take anything said in those profiles at face value. I try to figure out what the most economical and strategic way is to get from point A to point B, point B being the sexual endgame. It varies from SB to SB. But the ones who put up the stuff about romance and dating are women of the 50 Shades of Grey generation. It’s their way of identifying with the female character in that movie. I highly recommend the first 50 Shades movie as a film that captures the essentials of the same type of negotiation that goes on on SA. Women who have seen that film use these kinds of statements as a sort of disclaimer along the lines of “you can have sex with me, but in achieving that conquest you damn fucking sure better make me feel romanced and make it feel natural, otherwise, fuck you and move on.” That’s how I read 90% of those romance profiles.
It’s understanding their language. You have to study it and understand what you need to do.
I don’t get caught up in the mental gymnastics and never take anything said in those profiles at face value. I try to figure out what the most economical and strategic way is to get from point A to point B, point B being the sexual endgame. It varies from SB to SB. But the ones who put up the stuff about romance and dating are women of the 50 Shades of Grey generation. It’s their way of identifying with the female character in that movie. I highly recommend the first 50 Shades movie as a film that captures the essentials of the same type of negotiation that goes on on SA. Women who have seen that film use these kinds of statements as a sort of disclaimer along the lines of “you can have sex with me, but in achieving that conquest you damn fucking sure better make me feel romanced and make it feel natural, otherwise, fuck you and move on.” That’s how I read 90% of those romance profiles.
It’s understanding their language. You have to study it and understand what you need to do.
You are desperate if you beg people to choose you. I have seen that a lot, my good friend has an account and I have seen many women begging for money.
There is nothing wrong with knowing what you want and being direct.
There is nothing wrong with knowing what you want and being direct.
Personnellement j'ai eu a quelques reprise des filles sur long terme et très jolie dans le début vingtaine, a toute les fois ça été 100 pour passer environ 45 min à 1 heure ,je sais pas pour vous mais 100 pour une heure il me semble que c'est très bien et convenable un de vous fait ca 100 de lheure ? .. c'est des filles indépendante souvent au études qui préfère 2 3 gars comme ca plutôt que travailler chez tim horton au salaire minimum,et ce concentrer plus sur leurs études ou simplement pour arrondir les fin de mois. Je parlais très bien et les filles aimais le moment avec une ça durer 2 ans .joindre l'utile à l'agréable.
Why all U girls looking for "platonic"?
On the topic of whether profile descriptions are sincere, delusional, or just product placement, or a mix of... I'm looking in Mtl but regularly see profiles of college girls from Vermont or NY State, and pretty much all list "platonic" in their criteria.
What's your analysis/experience? Are they really naive 19 olds thinking someone will pay just for conversation? Is it plausible deniability if their parents or friends (or LE) find their profile? Or is it simply to feel better about it but doesn't mean anything?
Some of them can be cute but I wouldn't drive to Burlington just for coffee
On the topic of whether profile descriptions are sincere, delusional, or just product placement, or a mix of... I'm looking in Mtl but regularly see profiles of college girls from Vermont or NY State, and pretty much all list "platonic" in their criteria.
What's your analysis/experience? Are they really naive 19 olds thinking someone will pay just for conversation? Is it plausible deniability if their parents or friends (or LE) find their profile? Or is it simply to feel better about it but doesn't mean anything?
Some of them can be cute but I wouldn't drive to Burlington just for coffee
The girls want easy money. Minimal effort and believe it or not there are men who pay just for companionship or conversation. These girls usually go into this because they want money without having sex otherwise they would just work as escorts. That is my take on it.
It does seem like they discontinued the app, but I always thought SA was more easily navigable on Safari, and that the app sucked monkey balls. Maybe that was why it was discontinued. Another problem with the app was when you got a message it sent a prominent message on your screen. None of these things are good or discreet and you don’t want that app icon on your phone necessarily. To me it didn’t add much in user friendliness over navigating the site in Safari and maybe the public agreed.
Thanks guys.
BTW, is sex on the first date a thing with SA people? Was chatting with a girl who seemed to be in that; almost brought up the topic herself. but I was being a bit sceptic. Anyone here had such experiences?
The short time I was on it I had 2 meeting with sex but without $$ either. Simply told them i do not pay for social but would meet them if that made them feel good.
Had 3 other with sex on the first date. One that I met at a coffee shot nearby and told her if she was comfortable we would move on to my place. We did not even order coffee
Cheers,
Just curious, on an average what was the $$ have you paid on SA dates?(if it's okay to answer it here) Usually, you talk about a duration? or you go with the flow. I'm aware this thread may have answer to these questions; will go through that long thread. Still thought of asking you once.
On SA it may be more expensive per say , but dates are usually much longer than 1 hr and easy going talk, chat ,drinks, romance etc..sometimes it last even overnight.
Secret is if they say 1 hr they are pros , so are false SA..LOL so I avoid.
Most are just fun gals looking for easy cash as they say better than working at Macdo.
You just have to weed them out..Im haveing a ball there wow for me.
I dont have enough time $$ for all on my list! ,I wish I did
Secret is if they say 1 hr they are pros , so are false SA..LOL so I avoid.
Most are just fun gals looking for easy cash as they say better than working at Macdo.
You just have to weed them out..Im haveing a ball there wow for me.
I dont have enough time $$ for all on my list! ,I wish I did
For the last 2-3 years I completely stopped seeing SPs and very seldomly saw MPs. I’ve had a number of experiences with Montreal women on SA, and most were delightful. The thing is, you have to spend time reading profiles, but also read between the lines. The ladies expectations range from next to nothing, to high maintenance ones who will ask you for a monthly agreement, a credit card, vacations, etc. But these extremes are the exception.
Probably met close to 20-30 women on there (or more, I didn’t really count! LOL). Again, a very large spectrum in the types of relationships I had (and still have). Some want money and reluctantly offer sex, and some women are primarily there for sex (like us) and they ask for money simply because it’s easy money. They get to choose who they meet, and the respect you show them at the beginning of the written exchanges is of the utmost importance most of the time. I have also had a few no-shows, either because the girl backed off at the last minute, or she felt so bad about herself about meeting strangers for money that she simply disappeared.
What kind of women are there? Again, the full spectrum! Mostly students, but also women living a separation, or the looser types of girls too, there to do anything for a few bucks... I could tell about so many types!
- The shy student you meet at a coffee, who likes you, and becomes the most devilishly horny woman you can imagine.
- The young woman who likes sex in the morning (6:30am!) and asks you to go wake her up at home every week or so, leaving her door open.
- The sexaholic who is there for her own fun and literally jumps on you and almost rapes you every time she enters the hotel room.
- The one who wants to be abused, inviting you to her place, waiting for you nude on the bed, asking you to fuck her in the dark and leave 100 on the table (didn’t even see her face).
- The young woman you see twice a week for sometime, who gets attracted to you because you help her with different things in her day to day life (helped her move at the last minute, bought her washing/drying machines, etc), and wants to drop the arrangement completely and ask you to move in with her. (It obviously didn’t happen, but although I don’t have sex with her anymore, I still see her every other week and act as a mentor and father figure for her).
- The student living in MTL but from another city, and in need for help at the beginning, but eventually wants to see you every week even when you say you can no longer afford it, for a ridiculous amount per month, and eventually for free, simply because she likes you so much (I had to tell her my wife caught me in order to be able to set her free, she wouldn’t want to let me go).
- The very brainy medecine student would had a kid who died a few years back, was and still is really disturbed by that and couldn’t meet gentlemen in a regular social setting, so turned to SA. She was assistant heart surgeon! She still needed some warmth she couldn’t get otherwise but on SA.
- Women who some men would consider “less desirable”, but SA was a way for them to feel attractive.
- Women who were a deep sh*t financially, and who needed help, SA being a not so bad way to get out of trouble quickly.
- One women who had been in a relation with a single man for the first 10 years of her sexually active life, and I was her 2nd sex partner. Damn was she nervous, but Oh VERY appreciative in the end!
- Also a few escorts, but it’s a small percentage. You can spot them easily in the first written exchange and rule them out.
Bottom line, most are regular women, and it’s really addictive (Yeah, it’s always been my problem!)
Enjoy!
CA
Probably met close to 20-30 women on there (or more, I didn’t really count! LOL). Again, a very large spectrum in the types of relationships I had (and still have). Some want money and reluctantly offer sex, and some women are primarily there for sex (like us) and they ask for money simply because it’s easy money. They get to choose who they meet, and the respect you show them at the beginning of the written exchanges is of the utmost importance most of the time. I have also had a few no-shows, either because the girl backed off at the last minute, or she felt so bad about herself about meeting strangers for money that she simply disappeared.
What kind of women are there? Again, the full spectrum! Mostly students, but also women living a separation, or the looser types of girls too, there to do anything for a few bucks... I could tell about so many types!
- The shy student you meet at a coffee, who likes you, and becomes the most devilishly horny woman you can imagine.
- The young woman who likes sex in the morning (6:30am!) and asks you to go wake her up at home every week or so, leaving her door open.
- The sexaholic who is there for her own fun and literally jumps on you and almost rapes you every time she enters the hotel room.
- The one who wants to be abused, inviting you to her place, waiting for you nude on the bed, asking you to fuck her in the dark and leave 100 on the table (didn’t even see her face).
- The young woman you see twice a week for sometime, who gets attracted to you because you help her with different things in her day to day life (helped her move at the last minute, bought her washing/drying machines, etc), and wants to drop the arrangement completely and ask you to move in with her. (It obviously didn’t happen, but although I don’t have sex with her anymore, I still see her every other week and act as a mentor and father figure for her).
- The student living in MTL but from another city, and in need for help at the beginning, but eventually wants to see you every week even when you say you can no longer afford it, for a ridiculous amount per month, and eventually for free, simply because she likes you so much (I had to tell her my wife caught me in order to be able to set her free, she wouldn’t want to let me go).
- The very brainy medecine student would had a kid who died a few years back, was and still is really disturbed by that and couldn’t meet gentlemen in a regular social setting, so turned to SA. She was assistant heart surgeon! She still needed some warmth she couldn’t get otherwise but on SA.
- Women who some men would consider “less desirable”, but SA was a way for them to feel attractive.
- Women who were a deep sh*t financially, and who needed help, SA being a not so bad way to get out of trouble quickly.
- One women who had been in a relation with a single man for the first 10 years of her sexually active life, and I was her 2nd sex partner. Damn was she nervous, but Oh VERY appreciative in the end!
- Also a few escorts, but it’s a small percentage. You can spot them easily in the first written exchange and rule them out.
Bottom line, most are regular women, and it’s really addictive (Yeah, it’s always been my problem!)
Enjoy!
CA
CA, first of all, great to see that you are doing well and enjoying life. I'm sure many other longtime members feel the same about you.
Thanks for sharing your experiences. I and others would love to hear more about them. I haven't had nearly the number of experiences you have had on SA, but like you, I have encountered (in person and virtually) a variety of women with a variety of motivations and expectations. Some guys enjoy that and others don't. As I and others have often said, the sugar game is not for everyone.
I hope you stick around here a bit and share your experience and wisdom.
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