OK, CA, I'd like to know about the financial arrangements that you have made.
Do you usually pay per encounter or do you work out a weekly or monthly allowance?
In either case, what are the typical terms of the deal in dollar amounts and frequency and duration of the meetings?
Also, do you typically meet in an hourly motel or at the residence of the girl?
It would be interesting to know about such things for a city like Montreal, where it is so easy to find great escorts at reasonable prices.
A while back, I started with an ex-escort (not met on SA but here on MERB), and I was giving her $1,000 a month. She had kept 2 ex-clients, and I was one of the lucky ones (she told me only much later, as for months I tought I was the ONLY one). Then the finances became a bit difficult and I lowered the amount, and eventually stopped. I still have lunch with her once in a while, but she out of the biz now. That was before.
Nowadays, I never give more than $200 par meeting. Many women want more than that, and I have been labelled as "cheap" by a few. I don't mind. I'm a nice guy, I know it, and even if I give them less than some other men, I know they will have a great time (and NO I'm not delusional! LOL). But it goes very different from one woman to the other. Some will accept $150 right off, other will bargain it up or refuse less than so or so (250, 300, 400, 500 go figure!). One girl even asked me 5000 a month. I told her it was 60k$ NET a year, more than most people, and to come back on earth! LOL On one occasion, the young woman didn't want much, just to meet someone nice. She proposed $100 per meeting. I accepted (obviously!), but she only talks Spanish and not me. Google Translate is very useful, but although she's (still) a dream to be with in bed, it makes communication difficult and gets a lot of the pleasure away because we can't joke and laugh together. I still see her once every month or so. Last week I met an older woman for breakfeast. I din't want to see her because she is my age and obviously not as exciting as younger women I used to have fun with, but she kept telling me my profile was unique and it would be so bad to not at least get to know each other and see where it leads to, and yada yada yada. I gave in and in the end she was very nice. When ended up in a hotel room, had fun during 2 hours, and all it costed me was the breakfast and the room. She didn't want anything for herself, just to have fun.
Bottom line, nothing is set in stone. You propose, she disposes.
Where do we usually meet? Again it depends. I normally propose the hotel, but sometimes the girl prefers the simplicity of staying at home. My best encounters were at the woman's place. You bring her nice things to eat (coffee, croissants, whatever), and she leaves her door open for you to come in early in the morning, silently to not wake her up, get undress and slide under her sheets, cuddling her warmth (and waking her up). Mmmmmmm!
With two other ones it was more of a struggle. Both had roomates, and we had to time ourselves in such a way I could come in after they left, and before they come back. I tried with both of them to suggest it would be fun WITH her roomates, but it didn't work! hahaha
The duration of the meetings? Most of the times there is no set timing. In fact, if there is a timing, she's most probably an SP in disguise. Normally you're together for as long as you feel good together. It's normally between 1 to 4 hours, mostly in the range of 2-3 hours. With some women I used to go to a resto almost every time (that was in my "green" days), but mostly now you meet directly at the hotel or at her place, a bit of small talk, you have fun together, calm down talk and joke around, go at it again, calm down, go at it a third and last time, and off you both go.
One thing I learned about women that I didn't really realize when I was seing escorts (and with previous ex's or my wife), it's that MANY women are as sexual as us men can be! And I guess the fact they are on SA it's because they are open minded to start with, and are more lickely to like sex than the "usual" woman. I told you before, and I reapeat it: Many of these women have almost been raping me (and I love it!
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I hope that answers your questions
CA