Mail Order Brides - Would You Do It?
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Kepler said:
I guess I missed out on these women while I was in Montreal for five years. The one I was with for my duration was certainty not that type.
I do agree, with some disappointment that perhaps MOBs are not the best solution since there's a huge impracticality on weeding out who the schemers would be.
But having to settle for a career bitch is just not an option and I would think many of you would agree as well since after all, we are all here on Merb.
I met a guy in Montreal who went to Cuba and got a wife. They did split up for awhile and she went back home but they got back together again and are still living in Montreal.
Lanum said:
Thats exactly what I'm talking about
The worst part is you're still responsible for them legally,financially,etc for x
amount of years even after you have been divorced!!
master_bates said:
That's kind of the same way with domestic women after they put you through the legal ringers. Maybe this mail order/foreign bride thing isn't that practical after all which is really too bad for most of us. Finding them domestic women who are not ball busting career bitches AND who won't weight 300 pounds in several years will be a challenge indeed. I guess that's why those of us here hobby in some frequency or another.
I only do mail order girlfriends.... Mail order wives are just as bad as regular wives...
Either way you need to make sure they use FedEx or DHL to mail your bride... If they mail your bride the cheap way, she may be damaged in transit and will definitely be bent and wrinkled when she arrrives. On top of that, you might have to deal with the smell which is like the hull of cargo ship and can last weeks.
BD
Either way you need to make sure they use FedEx or DHL to mail your bride... If they mail your bride the cheap way, she may be damaged in transit and will definitely be bent and wrinkled when she arrrives. On top of that, you might have to deal with the smell which is like the hull of cargo ship and can last weeks.
BD
ExoticSpirit said:
I dont mind career women but at least if you do divorce you're
not responsible for them afterwards. You go your own way and its
done.
The other issue in my limited experience is that the higher level a career woman is, the bossier she tends to become. The exception are school teachers. All of the teachers I've dated tend to be bossy since I suppose they are use to telling kids what to do all day. But I would think that secretaries, admin staff level, etc, are less bossy, at least in my observation.
Didn't want to start a new thread but this is close.
On a winter break in Asia and search expat pubs to quaff back a beer or two at night. Many expats from the UK, Scotland, Australia etc around 60ish with an Asian mate half their age. Now in most of the pubs the guys are watching sports and chatting with each other while their partners are just there, a dead look in their eyes thinking WTF am I doing here ( my guess ). I am planning to spend my winters in warmer climates but have no plans for a full time mate, not in my plans at all.
On a winter break in Asia and search expat pubs to quaff back a beer or two at night. Many expats from the UK, Scotland, Australia etc around 60ish with an Asian mate half their age. Now in most of the pubs the guys are watching sports and chatting with each other while their partners are just there, a dead look in their eyes thinking WTF am I doing here ( my guess ). I am planning to spend my winters in warmer climates but have no plans for a full time mate, not in my plans at all.
This idea is telling on how you see women. As some strange other thing you can own instead of another human being.
Also this is human trafficking and not sex work. Not sure how this is allowed on this forum.
Also this is human trafficking and not sex work. Not sure how this is allowed on this forum.
Most times it is the exact opposite.
It is women abusing men and using them as a ticket out of their miserable lives in different parts of the world.
These usually end in a complete disaster most often for the men, they get married and then realize that even when the woman has the best intentions which is seldom the case, the culture shock, the language barrier, being left at home alone while the man goes off to work without any family or friends becomes just too much to bear, the often age difference doesn’t help either because these women are not coming here because they have fallen madly in love with a man twice their age.
This usually ends in divorce/ separation with the man forfeiting half his life savings and perhaps paying alimony for the rest of his life.
I pity any man who would attempt this ridiculous arrangement.
There are more than enough women looking for love and marriage in your own back yard.
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Having spent a lot of time in Asia and Africa I totally agree.
In a strange way the relationships that work there are transactional (cleaning lady with benefits) or more equal (woman has some career going on) or true cultural immersion (like an Asian woman who studied French or a western man who speaks the local language).
Last thing you want is to constantly have a conversation about moving them here or taking care of their kid. Some people want to do that if course, just saying the topic come back all the time with some women there.
And it is not only men. I know many Canadian women who married a cuban or dominican man (it seems reasonable when you are love bombed or dick drunk) and can’t think of a single successful outcome.
Of course, there are always exceptions!
In a strange way the relationships that work there are transactional (cleaning lady with benefits) or more equal (woman has some career going on) or true cultural immersion (like an Asian woman who studied French or a western man who speaks the local language).
Last thing you want is to constantly have a conversation about moving them here or taking care of their kid. Some people want to do that if course, just saying the topic come back all the time with some women there.
And it is not only men. I know many Canadian women who married a cuban or dominican man (it seems reasonable when you are love bombed or dick drunk) and can’t think of a single successful outcome.
Of course, there are always exceptions!
I have known 3 men who brought Asian wives to Canada, all were divorced after a few years and half or more of their money gone.
I wouldn't call this human trafficking as the men went to Asia and met someone who was looking for a sugar daddy. So Seeking Arrangements is also human trafficking?
I knew many that went to Eastern Europe to countries where they were born and spoke the language and they brought back wife’s in their own age bracket and out of all of them that I know of only one lasted. These guys were all in their 20-30 but wanted someone from back home with their culture.
This was still during the end of the iron curtain communist times.
First time I went back I was 21 and had women hanging all over me wanting a ticket to the US, most couldn’t even understand that Canadians didn’t have free entry and work permits into the US. I was there to visit relatives and a vacation not looking for a wife.
I was never that dumb to entertain the idea of bringing one back to Montreal there were plenty to choose from even in my own ethnicity in Montreal.
Yes I speak the language fluently and was married to one who grew up in Montreal. I understand the culture and my children all speak many languages but my home is here, my children and grandchildren were born here. I like visiting and vacationing there but I wouldn’t want to live there.
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