Manswers: How to pick up a stripper

master_bates

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1.Go on slow nights and become a regular

2.Sit at the bar, dont stare at the girls

3.Don't buy dances from them

4.Bring a girl with you to the club

5.Once they have your trust throw a party, they will come
 

Kepler

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I've personally known guys who've picked up strippers, for short and long term fun. (I'm not talking "take out" here, I mean real dating).


For what it's worth, I think:

#1 is irrelevant (they like you or they don't. Going more often won't make a girl like you more).

#2 is half-right: staring like you're a horny dog won't get you anywhere.

#3 is 100%. If you buy a dance, or talk in any direct way about money, you become a customer.

#4,5 Are not necessary. If the girl likes you, she'll go out with you whether or not you came with a girl, and whether or not you invite her to a party or coffee.


In general, I think you'll only be able to pick up strippers if you have no problems picking up 'civilian' girls and waitresses in a regular dance club.

Practice on the bunny slope. Do the double black diamond runs only when you know what you're doing, so you won't get injured. ;)
 

JH Fan

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Kepler said:
I've personally known guys who've picked up strippers, for short and long term fun. (I'm not talking "take out" here, I mean real dating).

Yep as long as you don't try with a 'sea-link rigger'.

Seriously ! your last quote about diamonds is right on ! Careful ! :eek:
 

Rafa

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stripper pick up

I had this chance once.

But I did not follow any rules. I was lucky, that's all.

I had a few dances with her. It was really really hot. We connected. In fact I think the connection was pretty much made, when our eyes crossed each other , when she was sitting with an other customer.
Then she came to see me, we went to the boot, after the dances, I told her I would like to see her outside....She gave me her phone and asked me to come pick her up at 3am.
I was not a 100% sure it was for pick up or take out...she brought me to her place and we had an amazing fuck, it was really amazing and she never asked for anything.
I guess it was SFE (strip friend experience)

Unfortunatly it happens to me once, although I was propose take out and phone number many times, but that's different.
 

Rafa

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not once but twice

Rafa said:
I had this chance once.

But I did not follow any rules. I was lucky, that's all.

I had a few dances with her. It was really really hot. We connected. In fact I think the connection was pretty much made, when our eyes crossed each other , when she was sitting with an other customer.
Then she came to see me, we went to the boot, after the dances, I told her I would like to see her outside....She gave me her phone and asked me to come pick her up at 3am.
I was not a 100% sure it was for pick up or take out...she brought me to her place and we had an amazing fuck, it was really amazing and she never asked for anything.
I guess it was SFE (strip friend experience)

Unfortunatly it happens to me once, although I was propose take out and phone number many times, but that's different.

I remember now...it happens to me twice, not once....

But the second time was not that great.
Second time was at Kamasutra, the girl look great she has style. Really sexy and stylish...
We had a few dances, we really connected, she finished early we went out of the club together she took my phone number and she gave me a nice kiss!
But she had to go....
I was there to see her the following night and she finish early again, and she wanted to go out, we went in a club me and her and one of her stripper friend who was working at a different strip club, (I went to pick up her friend at the other strip club...she was waiting for me...It was my fist time at that club, and I did not know the girl at all), so back at Kama to pick "my girl (SFE)". So the 3 of us now went in a regular dance club... we danced together, had fun ect. and the night was looking real good and promising...she wanted to come at my place with her friend after to sleep over.... but at one point when we were exiting the club, we went on a stupid fight about a stupidity that I don't remember and that was it, the fun was over...
 

Rafa

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So those 2 episodes, a few months from each other, gave me confidence, but now everytime I try to pick up a stripper i get either declined or get an offer for take out $, and most of time really expensive.....
And it is not only the money...it is much more exciting to have one of those princess come for you, not the money...
 
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neverbored

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I agree with most of the previous posts...

Don't go too often. No girl wants a boyfriend that spends his spare time in a strip joint. You're "hanging out" not some guy with no life. I usually go on slow nights cause that's when the girls work the less and have more time for chit chat. If a girl asks you why you go there have an answer ready. I usualy answer: Where else can I go on a "sunday or monday" to have a drink where there are pretty women? To which she'll either agree, say she's the prettiest (or something along those lines) or suggest other places (take note btw).

Never forget they are regular girls doing irregular work. Also, these girls are looking for the first reason to put you in the loser group. Don't give them a reason to. (and buying a dance is the fastest way).

Bear in mind unless you're a stud, party animal, alpha male type with cash to spend without care, it will be a little harder. Just not impossible.
 

master_bates

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^

The reason they gave #1 on the show to become a regular was to get the

girls trust and show them you are a nice guy. Once you get 1 you dont

have to go to the club anymore :D


Ralla, you got the 1st girls #, you didnt call her back after that night?
 

Techman

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I've had relatively long term relationships with a number of dancers over the years. lasting from a few months to a few years, and each one started out with getting her to dance. Don't be afraid to get a girl to dance. You're in a strip club. It's expected. Besides, if you have ever been in that club before and had dances, you can be certain that she will eventually find out.

This is something that I have found that works... go with a friend the first couple of times after you see her the first time. Make some eye contact, maybe a bit of small talk and see if she comes around again to check you out a bit. If she does, then find out when she works by asking either another girl if you know one there, or a waitress. Do not ask her directly. Or just call the club the next night to see if she is there. Wait a few days or a week, then go back on your own on a quiet night and have her dance a few dances and spend most of the time talking to her instead of having her dance. Find out some details ie. married? boyfriend? girlfriend? raises pitbulls? If any of those answers happens to be yes, walk away. It's much easier to get details if you are a regular in a club or know someone who is that can get some info from a waitress or another dancer.

Like anything else, if you want a lady to take you seriously then take her seriously. Treat her like a lady. Be nice. Be yourself.
You would be surprised how few men actually do that.

The main advantage in trying to ask out a dancer is that you know when she will be working so you can take a bit of time to get to know her. Don't rush it. It's not like seeing a girl in a bar and having to make a move that night because you don't know if you will ever see her again.

And yes...it is a big help if you are a regular.


But if all you are looking is a free and easy lay, then forget everything above. Just walk in, spend tons of money and hope to impress someone. Then again...call an escort. It will be cheaper in the long run.

Techman
 

maximus

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I agree with Techman be yourself these girls have heard all the bullshit.Once you go out with her treat them like any other girl you go out with,make them feel special.
 
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Mike Mercury

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1.Go on slow nights and become a regular

An empty club is an empty club. Empty of patrons & empty of dancers.

2.Sit at the bar, dont stare at the girls

Sit at the poker machine.

3.Don't buy dances from them

Correct.

4.Bring a girl with you to the club

Tacky.

5.Once they have your trust throw a party, they will come

Hmmmm. Seems roundabout good idea.
 

Rafa

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pick up not take out

Daringly said:
I have been offered take out at club downtown about 3 times in the last couple of years and i am anything but a regular. Sometimes all it takes is to be willing to spend money, at times money talks, bullshit walks:)

We are not talking about take out here. Take out is a lot easier to find, some will never do that, and some will do it a lot and some will do it very limited times.
But pick up, is the girl will meet you and do it for free.

It is completely different and a lot harder.
 

Mike Mercury

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Rafa said:
Take out is a lot easier to find,
But pick up, is the girl will meet you and do it for free.
It is completely different and a lot harder.
Hmmm. I wonder why? Yeah right! She has a gold mine in her undies and I have a gold mine in my wallet.:D
 

Gotsome

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Succesfull pick up lines that have been used for strippers

"Hey, how about we go over to that booth over there and get that hot gorgeous naked body all over me BABY!" + offer her $$. You would be surprised how positive a response she will give to this suggestion.
 

JH Fan

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Gotsome said:
"Hey, how about we go over to that booth over there and get that hot gorgeous naked body all over me BABY!" + offer her $$. You would be surprised how positive a response she will give to this suggestion.
Okay Gotsome !
This one I don't get it !:confused:
This is what I have been doing all these years to get dances...and it worked ! :D