I have been doing this for a few years now and I always get the same questions: "Have you been ab*sed? Do you talk to your family? Are you single? How's your relationship with your family?
I assume a lot of people think that most of the providers come from messed up backgrounds. I have met a lot of providers and they all have different backgrounds. Some stories would surprise you. I once met a woman who had very wealthy parents but she didn't want to depend on them so she did that instead. As for myself, I come from a good family, my parents and I have a very good relationship. My mother kind of knows what I do for a living and my dad doesn't but he knows I am seeing older men.
To me, this job really is like any other job. There is a lot of stereotypes and taboos which is normal because we are still afraid to talk about it. Just know that providers aren't all in a bad position, some are and I hope they can get all the help they need.
Kyla xoxo
I assume a lot of people think that most of the providers come from messed up backgrounds. I have met a lot of providers and they all have different backgrounds. Some stories would surprise you. I once met a woman who had very wealthy parents but she didn't want to depend on them so she did that instead. As for myself, I come from a good family, my parents and I have a very good relationship. My mother kind of knows what I do for a living and my dad doesn't but he knows I am seeing older men.
To me, this job really is like any other job. There is a lot of stereotypes and taboos which is normal because we are still afraid to talk about it. Just know that providers aren't all in a bad position, some are and I hope they can get all the help they need.
Kyla xoxo