... Every single individual in this 'hobby' has his/her reasons to be in it. How they discovered it can also be very different from one individual to another. When i entered the hobby, i figured it would only be a one-time thing, then head back into a long-term relationship & i'd likely never go back to hobbying. Boy, was i wrong!
I'm curious to what led to others such as myself entering this hobby. I'm certain our reasons are very different & the reasons for remaining in the hobby also differing considerably from one to another. What initially led to all of us being connected to one another today?
so i honestly had a tough time recalling my 1st meeting with an SP. we're going back 13yrs and the location and sp weren't all that memorable.
i was in a casual relationship at the time and was mainly focused on my career. work involved long hours and moderate travelling. at some point i asked myself what's the point of making money if i'm just gonna burn myself out and not enjoy it. not to mention work was getting in the way of my sex-life. that's when i decided i would try to fix these issues, balance work and play, get more sex. first stop, the local and probably only strip club in hamilton.
but after 2months of dropping lots of cash, finding a few gems with extras and one girl who could do this amazing oral vibrator bj (she might've been humming the national anthem for all i know or care), i realized i was generally getting teased and the limited opportunities to release who meeting my needs. i mean i was hitting the peelers 5 out of 7 nights for 3 months and it just seems to be a completely inefficient way of getting off and took some haggling to get what i wanted... too much work for little return.
at that point i decided to turn to the good ol' yellow business directory and looked up an escort agency. after speaking to 3 agencies, the prices seemed unreal? 120-160$ and I get full service. WTF, the girl will blow me, swallow, mpos sex, give me a private dance or 20, sit + chat ... for a full hour??? I gotta book a girl. so i decided to go with an agency in the outskirts of Toronto which was the closest agency to my place at the time and i asked the booker who was on. after hearing a brief description of 4 girls, i said i'd like the brunette with the natural C-cup chest for an hour and booked for 2AM. I asked what the girl would be wearing and the booker told me short skirt, heels and stockings... sounded good to me.
prior to me 1st ever session i figured i'd hit my usual strip club and have my fav oral vibrator girl work me up to a simmer. a couple of hours later, i went home, got ready for the appointment like it was a date/booty call and freshened up and prepped.
2AM rolled around and nothing.
2:15 crickets.
2:30, i'm tired, the strip club buzz (booze and buzz) has long since worn off.
2:45 i get a call telling me the girl's running behind and will be out to my place by 3AM.
3AM, nothing.
3:15, i'm f'ing falling asleep.
3:30 i get a buzz from front doorman, oh F! me... i hope the doorman Jimmy is going to keep him mouth shut about this the next time i see him in the elevator. yeah, send up my guest.
3:40 ... 10mins later... she got lost in my 25 story building? WTF? light knock on the door.
I opened the door, this was it ... special delivery, 1 order of brunette in heels, short skirt, natural C's and stockings. Well, in walks Natasha. She was a brunette alright, but she was not white, she was west indian, curveball!!! those natural C's were natural, but they were on a girl with a belly (great legs, but like a bowling ball with sticks) so i guess she was a small B with McDonald's big macs to boost her to a bloated C-cup. The heels were unnaturally high at 4-5" on "KISS" platforms highlighted by Red stockings on that west indian completion. it was all a little outta whack from what i envisioned which wasn't realistic to start with. then the face... wow,
krusty the clown has less make-up and the use of bright red and peacock blue eyeshadow just don't work on a brown lady, krusty and the
joker, yes ... this girl ... hell no. so what do i do, it's 3:40AM, i've got to work at 7:00, food is ordered + delivered, do i eat or send it back? shit or get off the pot! I'm a guy, so i obviously let her in and she asks me if i like her look ... umm, yeah... it's exotic! she removes her coat to reveal the top heavy assets including the belly behind a red sequinned tube-top and i'm thinking i've invited a street walker from main street. i offer her a drink, coke and rye and we retreat to the balcony to light up cancer sticks. she tells me she's a nursing student finishing up at mcmaster U. does mcmaster even have a nursing program i'm thinking, who cares, i'm hot and bothered by the nursing student thing having had my fill during university so this is good. she then asks if this was my 1st, and of course i tell her NO, my 3rd lol like it matters 1st or 3rd. she rolls off the list of restrictions (1 SOG) and extras that come with th appointment... i'm amazed i haven't booked a girl sooner. she then leads me back inside into the bedroom and attempts what i'd describe as chicken or dog (some off-balanced animal) trying to do a strip tease... no, wait, Elaine from Seinfeld or Tina Turner's strut. she dances up to me and peels off my clothing and i'm thinking this is great service... no more peelers.
the action starts and she's planting her face into mine. as she's doing this all i can think of was her lipstick is mashed all over my mouth, and it tastes nasty. Natasha then proceeds to smoother her right breast into my nose and mouth, I can't breathe as she leans me backward and is on top of me... 1min later i have to rolls her off... tip: easier to roll a round girl off than push upwards. lol she then asks if everything's ok, and i naively say sure, you're a rockstar! Natasha then claws back to me and grabs my dick and starts to stroke it ... and i mean stroke like she's polishing chrome. then she started 2-handed pumping me. at this point i'm wondering is she trying to get me off before FS??? sure feels that way. so i stop her and ask her to play with herself which she did... of course, she had to layer on a heavy porn moaning act what had me cracking a grin because i laugh anytime i hear fake porn moaning and the "Oh Yes Baby! Do you like that?!" At that point, she informs me i've got 15mins left and i'm looking at the clock and she's only been there for 15mins all the while Natasha added it's really only 50mins and since i'm not in Toronto, it takes them time to get to the next appointment so what would i like to do, HJ BJ or trying a quickie for 10mins... wait, thought there was 15mins left on what was 45mins? redflag, note to self ... establish time and session duration next time around.
Finally i tell Natasha, i wanna fuck her for 9mins... and she says "Fine but are you sure you're going to finish in time?!?" all i could think was "Shut the f! up! ... i didn't know these were timed trials!!!" So she slaps on the rubber and i go to town in doggy hoping to avoid the belly and face. the sight lines are poor. lots of bulging around the mid-section and even worse, the loud fake porn moaning. 3mins in, she lays me on my back and goes into intense HJ mode... a minute later she looks at me and exclaims "You naughty boy! You came!" which surprised me since i know when i cum and i didn't cum... then she looks at her right and opens her palm to show me some white frothiness... and states "Yes, you did and here it is!"... more redflags! so what do i do? i said fine, call your booker and add another hour. that was rookie all the way but when you're worked up and there's a naked woman ... fat, nasty make-up and ripping you off left and right, what are you going to do, the same right!?!?! i mean it was a little after 4AM and i was determined to finish what i started damn it!!!
needless to say the "2nd hr" or the next 15mins were a success and she was out the door by 4:20... the damage: sleep deprived, paid for 2hrs and got 45-50mins, cost 340$ with tip (such a rookie) = priceless 1st experience with an SP.
lessons were learned and it wasn't long before i picked up the phone again to order in. the strip club visits dropped off the radar within a month, mainly because my fav oral vibator girl was retiring to quiet St. Catharines, ON and the rest of the roster were worth the time now that i had discovered the world of SP's... efficient, wide selection, hassle free and no strings!
PS. i actually saw Natasha again a few days later, but it was midday in the parking lot in front of the local Chapter/Indigo/Starbucks ... she looked the same with that krusty the clown make-up and outfit, heels and around the arm of a much older gent who seemed pretty happy as they strolled across the parking lot in board daylight. after that i never saw Natasha again!