Neophyte question - shower, enveloppe ?

[Silver Marko]

I'm a total neophyte, so I have couple of really basic questions about modus operandi when meeting a SP.

How is the payment proceed in the context of an agency (Euphoria, etc), do we pay the girl directly or the agency ? If it's the girl, is it in a envelope at the beginning at the encounter ?

After the shower, is it expected that we dress back to normal or only keep the towel at our waist ?

I've browse the forum but didn't get clear answer on those points. Hopefully, if it can help me out it can surely help out other newbies too

 

[Connoisseur12]

I'm a total neophyte, so I have couple of really basic questions about modus operandi when meeting a SP.

How is the payment proceed in the context of an agency (Euphoria, etc), do we pay the girl directly or the agency ? If it's the girl, is it in a envelope at the beginning at the encounter ?

After the shower, is it expected that we dress back to normal or only keep the towel at our waist ?

I've browse the forum but didn't get clear answer on those points. Hopefully, if it can help me out it can surely help out other newbies too

1)You pay the girl/sp.
2)Since you're a new client they may request you pay at the beginning. I usually pay at the end so I can decide if I'm giving extra depending on service. Or if its first time with a girl, makes her feel at ease if you leave payment on table without her asking.
3) After shower I would say at least put underwear back on. I use to put back on all my clothes when I first started hobbying. Makes it feel spontaneous and like your not paying. Also I like the girl to grind on me with clothes on a bit. Lap dance feels. When it's a girl I've repeated many times ill come out naked lol. Private message me for more questions

 

[Silver Marko]

1)You pay the girl/sp.
2)Since you're a new client they may request you pay at the beginning. I usually pay at the end so I can decide if I'm giving extra depending on service. Or if its first time with a girl, makes her feel at ease if you leave payment on table without her asking.
3) After shower I would say at least put underwear back on. I use to put back on all my clothes when I first started hobbying. Makes it feel spontaneous and like your not paying. Also I like the girl to grind on me with clothes on a bit. Lap dance feels. When it's a girl I've repeated many times ill come out naked lol. Private message me for more questions

Thank you guys for the answer. Also, do you bring complete wallet with ID and credit cards with you, or leave these in the car ? Euphoria and XO seems secure, but still...

 

[tishina]

Thank you guys for the answer. Also, do you bring complete wallet with ID and credit cards with you, or leave these in the car ? Euphoria and XO seems secure, but still...

In that regard, do whatever makes you feel most comfortable. I've never had a problem bringing them.

 

[Flyingby]

Thank you guys for the answer. Also, do you bring complete wallet with ID and credit cards with you, or leave these in the car ? Euphoria and XO seems secure, but still...

I always leave in the car, i bring a bit of extra for extras and that’s it.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

3) After shower I would say at least put underwear back on. I use to put back on all my clothes when I first started hobbying.

Towel only, most girls won’t tell you but, putting back your underwear will make them as uncomfortable as if you didn’t take a shower.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Please, don't put your underwear back on! Shower thoroughly, use soap to wash every nook and cranny, and don't forget your armpits! Get out of the bathroom with your towel around your waist.

Paying before is a good way to make the provider feel comfortable, and it's not because you paid before that you can't leave a tip before leaving if you wish! Personally, in my beginnings, I was not asking for the money upfront, I was stressing throughout the whole appointment wondering if I'd get paid. Of course, I was reluctant to go the extra mile and probably even offered less sometimes.

 

[gaby]

I always leave in the car, i bring a bit of extra for extras and that’s it.

Same here...et toujours avec moi du déodorant..always paid upfront.....and occasionaly a little gift......à la seconde rencontre...lol.

 

[Flyingby]

Personally, in my beginnings, I was not asking for the money upfront, I was stressing throughout the whole appointment wondering if I'd get paid. Of course, I was reluctant to go the extra mile and probably even offered less sometimes.

best advice ever!

 

[wiinston17]

I find that paying at arrival really puts everyone's mind at ease (including myself) even with agencies. It's not like if it was satisfaction guaranteed or negotiable so might as well get that out of the way. Tipping is at the end depending how well you found the session.

 

[Silver Marko]

Duly noted, thank you. When CIM is available do you ask / pay a the beginning of the session, or it goes with the tip?

 

[Don Julio]

2) just the towel, girls would tell you what is the point of showering if it is to put your old clothes back on?

The SP has her clothes on so it must be OK.
When I see a SP I have showered at home within the hour and all clothes I wear are recently washed.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

The SP has her clothes on so it must be OK.
When I see a SP I have showered at home within the hour and all clothes I wear are recently washed.

But unfortunately, from all the horror stories I get from SPs, it is not OK because some johns outhere are just plain, filthy pigs, and it is not written on your forehead in which category you fall. So just to be sure the girl is 100% comfortable with me, I’d rather get out of the shower with just the towel.

 

[Don Julio]

So just to be sure the girl is 100% comfortable with me, I’d rather get out of the shower with just the towel.

Makes sense.

 

[Anong]

I always give the envelope, even before going to bathroom. Recently, one SP to whom I saw few time expressed kind of unhappiness that we knew each other and why I always leave the envelope soon after entrance. But I feel comfortable in this way and believe SPs too.
If I feel to leave the tip it is at the end. Yesterday, I left $ 50 Tip to massage lady, I felt she deserved it. She do not provide BJ or full service.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Please, don't put your underwear back on!

I personally bring clean underwear in my backpack. The same way as when i receive outcall i have clean underwear on (shower being taken prior to arrival).

I usually will not put my pants back on at a incall but i come out of shower with a t-shirt (also clean) as i ain't comfortable to get shirtless in front of peoples. So clean underwear + t-shirt combo. I simply am not comfortable trying to wrap a towell over me (quite frankly i never knew how anyway).

As for wallet/ID since im on foot i obviously bring it but it never leave my sight. I do business with reputable providers and agencies anyway so im not fearfull of being robbed by violence like stories we heard at times here from shady ads.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I simply am not comfortable trying to wrap a towell over me (quite frankly i never knew how anyway).

See, its not that hard! Well, yes it is but…you get it, no?

 

[Thor Jr]

Always showered and squeaky clean, as i like the ladies to be. And as far as a towel, well, lets just say its optional. Just ask the girls at Cherrier, they are always chasing me down the hallway with a towel.

As for the envelope, with outcalls, the envelope is on the table along with maybe a gift and set next to a candle for them to see.
Incalls, as i walk in, after a kiss hello, gingerly set the envelope down on the first flat surface i see and off to the shower i go with my backpack and come out..... see above.

 

[Mandouke]

Always showered and squeaky clean, as i like the ladies to be. And as far as a towel, well, lets just say its optional. Just ask the girls at Cherrier, they are always chasing me down the hallway with a towel.

As for the envelope, with outcalls, the envelope is on the table along with maybe a gift and set next to a candle for them to see.
Incalls, as i walk in, after a kiss hello, gingerly set the envelope down on the first flat surface i see and off to the shower i go with my backpack and come out..... see above.

Am I missing something? A backpack? Toys?

I always come showered and impeccably groomed and dressed. Clean and neat.

In terms of the shower, I come out with only the towel around the waist.

I am always confounded during the shower and incalls in particular where to leave my clothing, as each place seems to be different. In massage parlours it is usually not difficult to find the place for your clothing, incalls are different.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Am I missing something? A backpack? Toys?

I bring my shower kit (wich include soap and everything) and like i said my clean tshirt and underwear in it as well as my own "debarbouillette". Sometimes i may have stopped by the store (if one that has what i like is near) to get a beer or such as well. Its one thing i loved doing in outcall is once the sex was over, i would open a beer of micro for myself and offer a glass to the SP. I don't like to drink before a meeting for various reasons including performance, breath/taste and simply being all me. But once the meeting is over, relaxing in bed with a beer was part of my "end of my meeting routine" In incall can't really do as much as it heavily depend on the time left but well..

Anyway point is everytime i go to Montreal i always have a backpack anyway to carry my cloathes and such and if i make some purchase like video games or dvd movies in pawnshops etc (less these days tough)