Noob in need of advice from the experienced

[hungry101]

Aww come on. Look at the money we spend on vacations to lay on a beach or lift tickets or golf courses, hunting, fishing trips....I was in NYC and they wanted 350$/ticket to see Hamilton. I'd rather spend an afternoon with Heaven for about the same price/hour.

You just have to do some budgeting and wait for the right opportunity and then have at it. After every session ask your self if it was worth it. They call it a hobby and like many hobbies it can be expensive. It's like collecting famous stamps. Do your research and pick a girl or two. Just don't go overboard. I see no need to break the bank with overnight dates or to keep a girl her entire shift. Set some boundaries. Limit your self to a couple of 1 or 2 hour dates with girls that charge a reasonable fee/hour (say 200$-400$/hour) and then step back and re-access: Is this for me?

 

[friction0010]

@hungry101 - $250 / $500 for 1 / 2 hours with a beautiful darling who has that to-die-for body I could have only dreamed of getting my hands on (let alone my hands and mouth all over and jimmy inside), and who whose only goal for those hours is to make sure I have such an amazing time that I'd be willing to do it again and again and again with her week after week is money very well spent. I've paid a lot more for a hell of a lot less from women in the past. Even better, I don't have to do or say anything I don't want, and can choose to never ever see or talk to her again if I want, with no fallout.

A lot of reviewers on here usually talk about "round 2" after a brief cooldown & pillow-talk period that usually immediately follows the end of round 1. Is that the norm? Should it be established up front before you begin fooling around? Or is it totally for the SP to decide based on how long round 1 lasted, how she felt about it, and how much time is left on the meter, or would it be something I would have to initiate/ask for if there was enough time left?

When I started seeing my last ex and it had been quite a long time since i'd had any kind of regular action, I made it a practice to rub one out an hour or so before she'd come over to help my main dude to not be so super sensitive and keep me from popping like immediatly. It was always pretty embarrassing if it happened and i know it's nothing too unusual, especially for the pros i'll be getting, but I'm not sure what is in my best interest here. Say fuck it, don't worry about it and go ahead and just let it be quick since a round 2 or even maybe 3 is to be expected if time permits, or really try to have a "solid" and "good" memorable experience that has no potential personal shame to it, as if it was a lady I was hoping to impress a little bit.

I'm well situated as far as the ED meds go, and plan to use them wisely.

 

[hungry101]

Some girls are one and done and others are there to have sex so they fuck you for as long as they are in the room (until shower time). Much has to do with chemistry. Read their reviews to get a sense. Talk to the booker and ask. I've never asked the girl. It just happens. Like a recent review with Cycladonianights wrote, if you cum in the first 10 minutes I think the girl is going to let you have another SOG if you want it.

One funny story...there used to be this SP Leah of Eleganza. I got into town and I called John and set up a date with Leah and it was rather random. Afer making the date, I went to her review session after making the date and I saw about 2 or 3 recent reports complaining about her that she wouldn't allow CIM... So I called John and told him if she won't allow CIM then send someone else. John told me to settle down and that Leah was OK etc. An hour or so later, I opened the door and Leah is standing dressed to the nines in a black dress and heels. The first words out of her mouth were "So I heard you want to cum in my mouth eh?" A few minutes later we were on my couch drinking a glass of red wine and she said OK, you will cum in my mouth and then we will drink some more wine and then we will go againIt was such a great date. Between sessions she sat in my lap totally nude, drinking wine and laughing. The lesson is don't let one or two reviews make you sour on a girl.

 

[jalimon]

Limit your self to a couple of 1 or 2 hour dates with girls that charge a reasonable fee/hour (say 200$-400$/hour) and then step back and re-access: Is this for me?

Yep that is what I do. But the step back are important. I call it the detox period The problem is when you see girl that want to be in the room and have sex as much as you it will, no matter what, get to your head. I often walk back from incall location and I look at other people in the street. Mens, girls, couples, young, older... And I think in my head probably 999 out of 1000 never had sex in their whole life like I just had 10 minutes ago... So yes the step back at some point are very very important.

Or is it totally for the SP to decide based on how long round 1 lasted, how she felt about it, and how much time is left on the meter, or would it be something I would have to initiate/ask for if there was enough time left?

The problem is majority of client are 10 minutes popper who will then pay full and leave. This totally spoil many girl. And many girl are only in this because of these easy dudes. That is why I wrote below you need to dig and find the real trooper

Cheers,

 

[tv01d]

I’ll be doing this for the first time too, I was going to go with Ruby Redd first, but hearing about Sasha or Katrina they seem to be better option, who would you go first ?

 

[TheJames101]

I’ll be doing this for the first time too, I was going to go with Ruby Redd first, but hearing about Sasha or Katrina they seem to be better option, who would you go first ?

I haven't seen Ruby, but Katrina or Sasha seem like far more of a consistently amazing experience.