It’s anecdotal, but curious if any members have ever caught anything from a bbbj. I too have many years of hobbying, and never any issues. I think that if you’re regularly tested and frequent SP’s who also get tested, you should be fine.
Also, this paranoia of catching something from kissing is unfounded...of course if someone has a noticeable sore on their lips it is an issue, but otherwise this is very safe behaviour.
Read post # 50, above.