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The Nature Boy

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Like the Indian dude from Big Bang theory? Have you guys tried slipping him a little rum in the coke?
 

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In my opinion this thread has a naive and shallow premise that a man who has superior good looks will be able to get all the free action he needs. In my opinion "shtick" is as important as looks- the ability to make women feel comfortable around you and actually enjoy your company is a skill that some good looking men do not have. I know one guy who falls into this category. I would say he is very above average in looks- maybe top 15%- but he has been thrown out of strip clubs, had drinks thrown in his face and even had escorts walk out on him because he is a complete and total fucking social trainwreck. It is/was so bad that although he wanted to join me and 3 other guys on a trip to Montreal, we unanimously (4-0) voted not to bring him with us because we felt he would damage our own collective social activities as a group. I feel sorry for the guy but he has some disorder that grips him when he is with women and it's a fucking poison that needs to be controlled, like other poisons.

I think MOST super attractive guys, do not come with awesome personalities. Why would they? They probably got through life with their looks and bro-like personality, with no adversity towards that, almost have no reason to be nice. This is the original meaning of a douchbag. Unfortunately this applies to women as well.
100% agree with the theory of the "shtick", that's what reigns king at the end of the day. Short term, looks wins, but takes a mature and humble woman to notice a "shtick".
I learned a new term 2 years ago, sapiosexual, someone who is attracted to a person's mind and intellect. We need more sapiosexuals in this world.
 
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Chow - Too bad I don’t book escorts based on their IQ. Bra size might be closer LOL. But I do appreciate it, especially after the sex is over and we are talking.
 

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Yea but some dudes chowzy are just oblivious to their hotness. Like they are really humble and be like “me? Naaaahhh bro, like Henry cavill be hot, not me” and we gotta be like “yo that’s f’ing Superman dude! You can’t compare yourself to the dick of steel”. These “humble hotties” as I call them get plenty of attention.
 

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I would agree good looking guys don’t have issues with the top 10% of women and if they happen to have a decent sense of humour and some social skills it becomes almost too easy.
“Shtick” well all depends what you mean by it, if you mean the good looking guy with the unbuttoned shirt mouthing off a torrent of pick up lines, most women have their jerk detector handy and they usually end up making up encounters to tell their buddies than actually getting any.
 

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I think MOST super attractive guys, do not come with awesome personalities. Why would they? They probably got through life with their looks and bro-like personality, with no adversity towards that, almost have no reason to be nice. This is the original meaning of a douchbag. Unfortunately this applies to women as well.
I partially agree with this.

In my experience, specifically with extremely attractive men and women, it’s a matter of education. The more educated, the less of a douchbag very attractive guys tend to be, and the less of an entitled princess very attractive women tend to be.

I do fully agree with life being on easy mode, in a sense, if you are in the top 5% of the looks department. It manifests itself very differently based on gender, but applies to both men and women equally. However, it also requires certain social skills to fully take advantage of.
 

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I partially agree with this.

The more educated, the less of a douchbag very attractive guys tend to be,

I don't agree with this statement, I have worked all my life in Universities (Montreal and McGill) and in University hospitals, so we agree that almost all these men are intelligent, and the majority are male are physically attractive or have a lot of charm, and this also applies to foreign students.
 

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In summary:

Bamjay = educated guy = less attractive

Me = educated guy = attractive
 
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I don’t think it has much to do with education.
I knew great looking women who were university graduates and they were total Princesses and made horrible dates.
Same thing with some good looking educated guys who were douchbags.

I have seen it in SP with two of my favourites, complete opposites, one is highly educated, elegant always looks as if she has stepped out of a fashion magazine.
The other is like a rockstar, tattoos , piercings, I don’t think she is a university graduate.

Both are very intelligent, kind, totally gorgeous, neither acts like a Princess although one definitely looks like one.
They are both a joy to spend time with.
 

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Fradi. You are stating exceptions
I agree with Bamjay. More education. More culture. Usually less douchebag and less princessy
Inherited richness creates douchbag and princess
 

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I guess we are going to disagree just because you are educated it doesn’t exclude you from being a princess or a douchebag.
Same as a lack of a university degree doesn’t make someone less kind, impolite or even intelligent.
Stereotyping is probably the worst mistake you can make.
What would most people think of Merbites and SP I wonder, would you agree that their perception would apply to all or that they have no clue as to what they are talking about.
 

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I go with Fradi. What ur saying is more education doesn’t mean a hot chic or dude is not a douchbag or bitch right? Don’t think it makes any difference as to how humble someone is.
 

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Where do you guys go out ? What spots in particular ? What times? (Traffic)

jilpale, to be honest I highly doubt location has anything to do with it. I am sure you have tested the nightlife in downtown, plateau, griffintown etc... Usually top guys have game/glamour/socialability, please be honest, how is your game?

For myself, i dont consider myself that attractive but I’ve been told several times that I am but life didn’t treat me that way. I know at least from my poor experience that looks mean nothing if you have nothing else to back it up unless you look like brad pitt.

I can say with certainty that about 10 years ago, my game on a scale of 1 to 10, was a solid negative 1 (-1). I remember one time my crush walked up to me to chat, i got so choked up, i literally ran away. Pathetic. With some time, I would say my game is now in the high 7s, which im pretty proud of considering where I’ve come from.

so how are you truly with the ladies?
 

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Usually top guys have game/glamour/socialability, please be honest, how is your game?

Chowzilla is asking the $64,000 question. Unless the dude has SOME game, looks means shit.

I can remember in high school an acne scar ridden guy who did unusually well with girls. It was because he had major, major game. Game is what separates the player from the wannabe in this field.

It's analogous to a Football QB who is able to make plays on 3rd down and long vs. one who cannot. You get to a point in a conversation with a lady where it's 3rd and long and you can either close the deal or not. The successful QBs are able to make plays, and the successful womanizer similarly is able to close and make the play.
 
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I think guys here are making way too much out of this “Game”.
I never had issues with getting dates with attractive women.
I did not practice my game, never knew you had to have one, I guess the trick is just to be natural and not be intimidated because a woman is gorgeous.
Gorgeous women get lonely, and guys get tired of beautiful women also.
Problem is most guys go into it without any confidence and think they have no chance, which basically ensures that they don’t.
 
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I guess the trick is just to be natural and not be intimidated because a woman is gorgeous.
Gorgeous women get lonely, and guys get tired of beautiful women also.

That is “game” though, your 1st sentence I cite, lol!

Lots of guys never get tired of beautiful women. How and why would you. Sure, if you have found the “one” it’s another story.
 
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Why would you?
Why would you think that a gorgeous woman cannot become a pain the ass and nag the shit out of you just like any other.
No matter how gorgeous she is your dick will go limp when all you hear is constant bitching.
That is when it is time to move on to the next gorgeous woman.
 
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