Question for Extremely Attractive Men
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Yea but some dudes chowzy are just oblivious to their hotness. Like they are really humble and be like “me? Naaaahhh bro, like Henry cavill be hot, not me” and we gotta be like “yo that’s f’ing Superman dude! You can’t compare yourself to the dick of steel”. These “humble hotties” as I call them get plenty of attention.
I would agree good looking guys don’t have issues with the top 10% of women and if they happen to have a decent sense of humour and some social skills it becomes almost too easy.
“Shtick” well all depends what you mean by it, if you mean the good looking guy with the unbuttoned shirt mouthing off a torrent of pick up lines, most women have their jerk detector handy and they usually end up making up encounters to tell their buddies than actually getting any.
“Shtick” well all depends what you mean by it, if you mean the good looking guy with the unbuttoned shirt mouthing off a torrent of pick up lines, most women have their jerk detector handy and they usually end up making up encounters to tell their buddies than actually getting any.
I partially agree with this.
In my experience, specifically with extremely attractive men and women, it’s a matter of education. The more educated, the less of a douchbag very attractive guys tend to be, and the less of an entitled princess very attractive women tend to be.
I do fully agree with life being on easy mode, in a sense, if you are in the top 5% of the looks department. It manifests itself very differently based on gender, but applies to both men and women equally. However, it also requires certain social skills to fully take advantage of.
I don't agree with this statement, I have worked all my life in Universities (Montreal and McGill) and in University hospitals, so we agree that almost all these men are intelligent, and the majority are male are physically attractive or have a lot of charm, and this also applies to foreign students.
I don’t think it has much to do with education.
I knew great looking women who were university graduates and they were total Princesses and made horrible dates.
Same thing with some good looking educated guys who were douchbags.
I have seen it in SP with two of my favourites, complete opposites, one is highly educated, elegant always looks as if she has stepped out of a fashion magazine.
The other is like a rockstar, tattoos , piercings, I don’t think she is a university graduate.
Both are very intelligent, kind, totally gorgeous, neither acts like a Princess although one definitely looks like one.
They are both a joy to spend time with.
I knew great looking women who were university graduates and they were total Princesses and made horrible dates.
Same thing with some good looking educated guys who were douchbags.
I have seen it in SP with two of my favourites, complete opposites, one is highly educated, elegant always looks as if she has stepped out of a fashion magazine.
The other is like a rockstar, tattoos , piercings, I don’t think she is a university graduate.
Both are very intelligent, kind, totally gorgeous, neither acts like a Princess although one definitely looks like one.
They are both a joy to spend time with.
Fradi. You are stating exceptions
I agree with Bamjay. More education. More culture. Usually less douchebag and less princessy
Inherited richness creates douchbag and princess
I agree with Bamjay. More education. More culture. Usually less douchebag and less princessy
Inherited richness creates douchbag and princess
I guess we are going to disagree just because you are educated it doesn’t exclude you from being a princess or a douchebag.
Same as a lack of a university degree doesn’t make someone less kind, impolite or even intelligent.
Stereotyping is probably the worst mistake you can make.
What would most people think of Merbites and SP I wonder, would you agree that their perception would apply to all or that they have no clue as to what they are talking about.
Same as a lack of a university degree doesn’t make someone less kind, impolite or even intelligent.
Stereotyping is probably the worst mistake you can make.
What would most people think of Merbites and SP I wonder, would you agree that their perception would apply to all or that they have no clue as to what they are talking about.
I go with Fradi. What ur saying is more education doesn’t mean a hot chic or dude is not a douchbag or bitch right? Don’t think it makes any difference as to how humble someone is.
jilpale, to be honest I highly doubt location has anything to do with it. I am sure you have tested the nightlife in downtown, plateau, griffintown etc... Usually top guys have game/glamour/socialability, please be honest, how is your game?
For myself, i dont consider myself that attractive but I’ve been told several times that I am but life didn’t treat me that way. I know at least from my poor experience that looks mean nothing if you have nothing else to back it up unless you look like brad pitt.
I can say with certainty that about 10 years ago, my game on a scale of 1 to 10, was a solid negative 1 (-1). I remember one time my crush walked up to me to chat, i got so choked up, i literally ran away. Pathetic. With some time, I would say my game is now in the high 7s, which im pretty proud of considering where I’ve come from.
so how are you truly with the ladies?
Chowzilla is asking the $64,000 question. Unless the dude has SOME game, looks means shit.
I can remember in high school an acne scar ridden guy who did unusually well with girls. It was because he had major, major game. Game is what separates the player from the wannabe in this field.
It's analogous to a Football QB who is able to make plays on 3rd down and long vs. one who cannot. You get to a point in a conversation with a lady where it's 3rd and long and you can either close the deal or not. The successful QBs are able to make plays, and the successful womanizer similarly is able to close and make the play.
I think guys here are making way too much out of this “Game”.
I never had issues with getting dates with attractive women.
I did not practice my game, never knew you had to have one, I guess the trick is just to be natural and not be intimidated because a woman is gorgeous.
Gorgeous women get lonely, and guys get tired of beautiful women also.
Problem is most guys go into it without any confidence and think they have no chance, which basically ensures that they don’t.
I never had issues with getting dates with attractive women.
I did not practice my game, never knew you had to have one, I guess the trick is just to be natural and not be intimidated because a woman is gorgeous.
Gorgeous women get lonely, and guys get tired of beautiful women also.
Problem is most guys go into it without any confidence and think they have no chance, which basically ensures that they don’t.
That is “game” though, your 1st sentence I cite, lol!
Lots of guys never get tired of beautiful women. How and why would you. Sure, if you have found the “one” it’s another story.
Why would you?
Why would you think that a gorgeous woman cannot become a pain the ass and nag the shit out of you just like any other.
No matter how gorgeous she is your dick will go limp when all you hear is constant bitching.
That is when it is time to move on to the next gorgeous woman.
Why would you think that a gorgeous woman cannot become a pain the ass and nag the shit out of you just like any other.
No matter how gorgeous she is your dick will go limp when all you hear is constant bitching.
That is when it is time to move on to the next gorgeous woman.
Fradi,
Perhaps you are not familiar with social anxiety disorders, "being natural" in some cases means major stage fright and feet inserted into mouth. Guys choke with women just like soccer players choke on a penalty kick and kick it 10 feet over the net.
In the universe of guys who don't have anxiety issues, some are more gifted talkers than others and can put women at ease and schmooze them: the 3 guys I used to bring to Montreal with me are all in the financial industry and work as salesman of securities. They are gifted schmoozers and I have seen them operate with civilian women as well as escorts and they have game. This means women are comfortable around them and are somewhat entertained as opposed to being bored or feeling awkward. In a party setting it's important to have some social skills and promote festive atmosphere rather than defeat it. My observations are that some guys are much better at it than others. I also believe games can be worked on and improved, no different than the soccer player working on his PK after he kicks one 10 feet over net. Practice and repetition hones skills. For me Seeking Arrangement was a good ongoing practice session on maintaining my own game because most of the women there that are worth seeing you have competition for. and if she has an offer of what she wants from you and 5 other guys, she is going with the guy who has the best rap. Many on SA don't even want to talk financials until they have chatted with you, which is a vetting process. In effect its to see if you have game or are a creep. And if you are socially dysfunctional, or even below average in game, you get beat and you lose. It's sport, like soccer.
Perhaps you are not familiar with social anxiety disorders, "being natural" in some cases means major stage fright and feet inserted into mouth. Guys choke with women just like soccer players choke on a penalty kick and kick it 10 feet over the net.
In the universe of guys who don't have anxiety issues, some are more gifted talkers than others and can put women at ease and schmooze them: the 3 guys I used to bring to Montreal with me are all in the financial industry and work as salesman of securities. They are gifted schmoozers and I have seen them operate with civilian women as well as escorts and they have game. This means women are comfortable around them and are somewhat entertained as opposed to being bored or feeling awkward. In a party setting it's important to have some social skills and promote festive atmosphere rather than defeat it. My observations are that some guys are much better at it than others. I also believe games can be worked on and improved, no different than the soccer player working on his PK after he kicks one 10 feet over net. Practice and repetition hones skills. For me Seeking Arrangement was a good ongoing practice session on maintaining my own game because most of the women there that are worth seeing you have competition for. and if she has an offer of what she wants from you and 5 other guys, she is going with the guy who has the best rap. Many on SA don't even want to talk financials until they have chatted with you, which is a vetting process. In effect its to see if you have game or are a creep. And if you are socially dysfunctional, or even below average in game, you get beat and you lose. It's sport, like soccer.
Beav,
I won’t go into discussing the reasons why soccer players roof penalty kicks, as I have saved many in my time and even the coolest guys like Messi, Ronaldo and old timers like Puskas have roofed the occasional one, and some goaltenders have a knack for saving more than others, although I firmly believe in the old saying that it is impossible to save a penalty kick you can only blame the kicker for screwing up.
Back to “ Game” I suppose acting natural and not being intimidated is probably considered game which TNB pointed out.
I think SA is not such a great example as I consider it just another form of prostitution and $$ plays far more of a role than game.
I think women are not nearly as superficial as men when it come to looks they are more likely to go with an average looking guy if he has a good sense of humour and treats them well.
We may be talking about the same thing you guys call it game, for me it is just being yourself with them.
I was never pushy with women or practiced pick up lines or considered myself a player, perhaps just lucky I guess who knows.
I think just having confidence and not letting the fact that a woman is gorgeous intimidate you is what it is all about.
I was lucky enough to learn that early on in high school when I ended up at a dance alone because I was to chicken to ask this gorgeous Italian girl to come with me. It ended up she was alone also and we hooked up at the dance, she told me she was waiting for weeks for me to ask her. I have never been intimidated since.
Sure you get turned down sometimes, just like job interviews, not the end of the world.
I won’t go into discussing the reasons why soccer players roof penalty kicks, as I have saved many in my time and even the coolest guys like Messi, Ronaldo and old timers like Puskas have roofed the occasional one, and some goaltenders have a knack for saving more than others, although I firmly believe in the old saying that it is impossible to save a penalty kick you can only blame the kicker for screwing up.
Back to “ Game” I suppose acting natural and not being intimidated is probably considered game which TNB pointed out.
I think SA is not such a great example as I consider it just another form of prostitution and $$ plays far more of a role than game.
I think women are not nearly as superficial as men when it come to looks they are more likely to go with an average looking guy if he has a good sense of humour and treats them well.
We may be talking about the same thing you guys call it game, for me it is just being yourself with them.
I was never pushy with women or practiced pick up lines or considered myself a player, perhaps just lucky I guess who knows.
I think just having confidence and not letting the fact that a woman is gorgeous intimidate you is what it is all about.
I was lucky enough to learn that early on in high school when I ended up at a dance alone because I was to chicken to ask this gorgeous Italian girl to come with me. It ended up she was alone also and we hooked up at the dance, she told me she was waiting for weeks for me to ask her. I have never been intimidated since.
Sure you get turned down sometimes, just like job interviews, not the end of the world.
