Question for Extremely Attractive Men

[chinavibez]

Finding companionship is obviously harder for men than women, otherwise, you think this website or Escorts would ever exist?

The anomally is apparently ChinaVibez who uses Escorts (since he is on Merb) and claims to get many dates using online dating.

Why would anyone pay if they can get it for free so easily? ChinaVibez is mind boggling.

Why are you so obsessed with me? You’ve PM’ed me and keep tagging me. I do just fine on Bumble, and I also see sex workers, they aren’t reserved for lonely nerds who search for women at 4pm at Tim Hortons.

I’m a partner in a very demanding business and the fact is, is that sometimes I just want to bang and leave. I can’t speak for the other guys on the board, but I’m a fit guy, early 30s with a healthy income, and more often than not I get asked why the hell I’m paying for it.

The only thing that is mind boggling on this forum is how you were stupid enough to get caught and deported, and then decided to move to a city that you so clearly dislike.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Why are you so obsessed with me? You’ve PM’ed me and keep tagging me. I do just fine on Bumble, and I also see sex workers, they aren’t reserved for lonely nerds who search for women at 4pm at Tim Hortons.

I’m a partner in a very demanding business and the fact is, is that sometimes I just want to bang and leave. I can’t speak for the other guys on the board, but I’m a fit guy, early 30s with a healthy income, and more often than not I get asked why the hell I’m paying for it.

The only thing that is mind boggling on this forum is how you were stupid enough to get caught and deported, and then decided to move to a city that you so clearly dislike.

Can't agree more.

 

[Prairieboy]

Apps are F-ing horrible. Not only guy to girl ratio so high, there is also an algorithm going against you. ChinaVibez claims he gets matches and dates... Lol so maybe he's hacked the algorithm. Once your phone number is scored low by the algorithm it's hard to move back up, say with better pictures or a better profile.

Tinder opens says they adjust your algorithms based on swipes, so if you get enough negative responses, you get suppressed. It’s all part of the scam aspect, where they want to motivate men to pay for Tinder Gold (because women obviously never would).

 

[Prairieboy]

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Why are you so obsessed with me? You’ve PM’ed me and keep tagging me. I do just fine on Bumble, and I also see sex workers, they aren’t reserved for lonely nerds who search for women at 4pm at Tim Hortons.

I’m a partner in a very demanding business and the fact is, is that sometimes I just want to bang and leave. I can’t speak for the other guys on the board, but I’m a fit guy, early 30s with a healthy income, and more often than not I get asked why the hell I’m paying for it.

The only thing that is mind boggling on this forum is how you were stupid enough to get caught and deported, and then decided to move to a city that you so clearly dislike.

I would love to move to Montreal.

 

[Numerati]

These guys are con artists. I think a lot of their customer base is blonde-obsessed Pajeets who are new to America.

I have run into a few of them personally when they hit on my then girlfriend who is now my wife. LOL. What a mess and train wreck watching these guys work it.

 

[jilpale]

Was referring to you in a playful banter way. But also because your story is unique so wanted to know if you cracked some sort of algorithm code. There are 100s of posts online (like Reddit) about how hard it is for a male to get dates using online dating. Infact, I just brought this topic up with my landlord (leaving Montreal), he said the same thing. He's single, white, fit, late 20s and said he can pull in about 2-3 dates a month if he gets super lucky. Has to work hard for it though. Unless you define as "2-3" dates a month as "doing well" then I agree, top guys can do "that well".

Came to Montreal for cheap rent till I figure out what to do with my life. It's the cheapest big city in Canada but I'm leaving when my lease ends. Didn't "move" here because didn't establish residency. The arrest in US was a surprise lol.

 

[laid_back_alex]

Why would anyone pay if they can get it for free so easily?

It's not as straightforward as that.

For some people, myself included it's sometimes because of convenience and instant access. Most of the times my sexual needs are fulfilled with women I meet organically, however this requires some planning, even if minimal. There are days where I need an instant release, which I know I won't be able to get with civilians due presently not being near their places, near my place, not enough time to see them or simply them not being available at this very specific time. I often need a quick fix that just cannot wait in between work meetings that can only be provided by SPs, for which I am very grateful.

For others, they value discretion above all and paying for sex is considered by many as the most discreet and the least risky way of getting caught because of the transnational and discreet nature of it, especially incalls with the top agencies.

Anyways, to answer your question, I'm a bit old school so I don't really use dating apps although I'm sure they're a great tool. in my case, I've found success at work (both at the office & during 5-7), at the gym, wedding receptions, in my condo building, in lounges and hookah bars. A few years ago, back in 2013-2014 or so, I actually posted ads on craigslist of myself in boxer briefs with my face blurred out. I thought nothing would come of it but got 3 FWBs from it.

To give you some background info about myself I'm in same age category as ChinaVibez. I would categorize myself as a very attractive man. I am fit, well groomed and have a very down to earth personality. I would not consider my income as very generous, slightly above the Canadian employee average. However it has never prevented or hindered me from obtaining sex to be honest. I guess I could get me even more if I had a 6 digit + salary? I guess I'll never know.

Cheers,
LBA

 

[TheBlob]

Being humble is usually a good start.

But as you said in another thread, Montreal women are not up to your standard, so why bother.

 

[jilpale]

ThanksAlex, what's your favorite Montreal lounge?

 

[Prairieboy]

I’ve honestly never been great with women, but the bigger problem is there are too few Canadian cities with a lot of attractive single women where there’s at least a chance. Vancouver, Toronto, and Montreal seem like the only ones. Alberta/Sask/Manitoba have women obviously, but they get paired up in their early-mid 20’s and there is very slim pickings >30 or for a guy who is late 30’s+. The male to female ratio is also too high. I have a good job where I am, but it’s dating hell to be honest... but no guarantee moving will change that for me either so I’m feeling stuck.

 

[The Nature Boy]

the fact is, is that sometimes I just want to bang and leave.

Yup, yup..tons of playas go to SP’s. Their ladies BBBJ suck, they love them but find the intercourse underwhelming with civies. And some guys just like buffet banquets instead of Chinese food every night.

 

[jilpale]

Montreal SPs are not bang-able. There was an agency long Time ago in 2008 when I last visited, called Asservissante, that had women my type, I had a good time, but they don't exist anymore. I'm visiting Toronto again in a month, so it should be fun. It's so easy to become homeless in Toronto, the SPs are very addictive.

 

[The Nature Boy]

What difference do u find in ladies in TO vs MTL? Especially civie chics? I find the MTL girls much more friendly than TO?

 

[jilpale]

What difference do u find in ladies in TO vs MTL? Especially civie chics? I find the MTL girls much more friendly than TO?

I don't know, I haven't dated in either city but for SPs, in Toronto, the volume and quality of women is insanely Euphoric. It's very easy to find your ideal type, readily available, whenever you want. They're really pretty too. Downtown Toronto has some very upscale luxury type women that live and work in those Condos. They're flawless MetArt types. No words for them. Even older ones. FemJoy. Look at those Adult studios and their work. You can find similar looking girls in Toronto. It costs more but no disappointment. Excellent service too.

 

[jilpale]

Okay so it turned out I was staying in the wrong part of town (Laval) and thus not seeing my type.
I checked out "South shore" and they had ton of women my type. My apologies for my comments. Quebec is beautiful.
Heard it's much cheaper to live there too. Condos are like 900/m

 

[sene5hos]

It's certain that a handsome man almost always leaves one step ahead.

It's true that Laval is a big city, so it takes a car. If you don't get out of your "the wrong part of town" as you say, but take your car.

In years past I would often eat out on the terraces at Centropolis, and I saw tons of very pretty women, of all ages and genders.

You said: "I checked out "South shore" and they had ton of women my type", I'm very surprised!!, it's you found a ton of women, let's go

 

[jilpale]

I didn't check out Centropolis but when I walk around Laval or grocery stores, I feel like I'm in Italian Arabia with Greek / European types. Beautiful too but I like plain Jane types.

 

[hungry101]

Back in the day I was considered quite attractive. I had my moments. However, I would say that I spent more Friday and Saturday nights then I can remember, shit-faced at Denny's ordering the Grand Slam Breakfast and then going home and wacking off. These days the Millennial's have apps that they can just swipe on and I think that helps to increase the odds. My son who is a better looking guy than I ever was and is extremely successful has spent a lot of time unfulfilled and frustrated. He thought he has found what he wants and now he is not so sure. I think natures big trick is to make us all feel a bit unfulfilled so we try to spread our seed everywhere.

The grass is always greener on the other side. In reality, everyone is a bit frustrated. Even in the escort world we all are on this journey to find the perfect escort and the reality is, as time goes by, it becomes a little tougher to walk away from a session blown away or even feeling fulfilled. But still, I've enjoyed my pay-for-play days as well as anything else. Be content with what you have. Enjoy the hobby.

 

[bamjay]

Downtown Toronto has some very upscale luxury type women that live and work in those Condos. They're flawless MetArt types. No words for them. Even older ones. FemJoy. Look at those Adult studios and their work. You can find similar looking girls in Toronto. It costs more but no disappointment. Excellent service too.

If you're in Montreal and truly a top tier type of guy looking to date these high end type of girls, go hang out at this place https://www.fourseasons.com/montreal/dining/restaurants/marcus-restaurant-and-terrace/ in the Four Seasons.

You don't have to go there late at night, although it gets most interesting later in the evening on the terrace.

About a third of the girls you'll meet there are escorts or sugarbabes.
Another third are in some sort of serious relationship, on a date, or something along those lines and unavailable.
The last third will be there ready to mingle with the other half of the 1% top echelon...

Although these days it's sadly not quite the same vibe as it was before the pandemic.

 

[EagerBeaver]

In my opinion this thread has a naive and shallow premise that a man who has superior good looks will be able to get all the free action he needs. In my opinion "shtick" is as important as looks- the ability to make women feel comfortable around you and actually enjoy your company is a skill that some good looking men do not have. I know one guy who falls into this category. I would say he is very above average in looks- maybe top 15%- but he has been thrown out of strip clubs, had drinks thrown in his face and even had escorts walk out on him because he is a complete and total fucking social trainwreck. It is/was so bad that although he wanted to join me and 3 other guys on a trip to Montreal, we unanimously (4-0) voted not to bring him with us because we felt he would damage our own collective social activities as a group. I feel sorry for the guy but he has some disorder that grips him when he is with women and it's a fucking poison that needs to be controlled, like other poisons.