Review inflation

[Cruiser777]

Reviews glowing with descriptions like "gorgeous", "stunning" and so on

And you believe those descriptions (Or numbers 9 and 10s ?).???
These would be for Playmates, supermodels (Miss X contestants (Before the woke garbage days)) etc etc
(And who in this category would work for a mere $200.00 or so).
Have few stunning babes show up in my Instagram, I always wished that there were few like those in MERB providers scene.

Personally I never used numbers because most of the girls would be AVERAGE to little above average 5 to 7s, although true
visualization or description just imagine the backlash I would receive. My rule of thumb, deduct AT LEAST 2 points from the
numbers given then you won't get disappointed with the high expectations.

On the other hand, I wouldn't mind giving 10s for services as I had some excellent excellent experiences
(From few girls 5 to 8 looks category. (The good old days, boy I miss them).

Another note I like to point out, sometimes I see 10s for service but with no any acronyms or details to go with it
Just long long stories that after few lines become boring to read and continue....

 

[LC18]

I know exactly which review you are referring to, but people called it out and I think even without SPs having access to their own reviews comments like that should/would have been removed by the admins.

Yes but they wouldn’t know what I’m comfortable sharing and not. Some details had been removed before I saw it but I still had to report it 2 other times to have other info removed

 

[Fradi]

Of course, I wouldn’t compare meeting your ATF to meeting your wife or having children. But there are levels to this.
For me, meeting someone, a long-term friend or SP can still have a huge impact on your life especially if it is a relationship you keep for years.

And no need for personal attacks and the mention of smaller packages.

I agree, I am lucky to have her in my life as I have said many times. She is an amazing person and I value her friendship and will forever be grateful for her kindness.
I wasn’t attacking you and you are the one that brought up dwarfs not me.
I was simply saying there is a huge difference between reality and fantasy and they are not comparable.

 

[void747]

I'm relatively new in this field and my experience is mixed. Review in MERB from community members do help align (of course YMMV). I may be generous in review if I leave happy 9/10. So it is very subjective. What I value is review that provide more context. As someone looking for SP, I would also think during the review, is it maybe a rough day for her or was the description just generic with many promises and SP doesn't deliver because she isn't comfortable with it.

There are a lot of variable into play. But once finding the right one for you, being a regular is probably a better choice and time for both seeker and provider.

 

[kkrack]

I am a bit of an expert on finding personal information. What I do is mainly social engineering. If someone knows personal information about someone else it is most of the time because that information was given. I am very careful with what I share, what I do for living etc. Sometimes we get too comfortable with someone who we are not supposed be comfortable to start with. Instead of blaming the world, own your shit and stop sharing privatw information.

When I was 20 I thought blondes were my "type". I've come to realize that there is an hierarchy in beauty. Then there is also how a person makes you feel. Attraction is a product of both.

 

[Johnny test]

attractiveness is a social construct

it's that and more, which is a good thing for humanity

 

[wolfie7]

Instead of blaming the world, own your shit and stop sharing privatw information.

This. For the SPs who complain about personal information coming up in reviews.

It's super simple. Stop it at its source - you. Lmao.

If your personal information comes up because you lack the judgment who you tell it to, that's entirely on you. Anyone with a tiny bit of sense understands that. Unless there's deep connection, and you establish trust, don't be stupid.

 

[anatomy]

Boy it seems to just be getting worse. I mean, what value do review threads even have at this point. Is there anything that can be done to change the tide or is it hopeless?

A few experiences in the last couple months have been ridiculous. Reviews glowing with descriptions like "gorgeous", "stunning" and so on to describe the looks of a SP who ends up being objectively average or below average. Literally below average... as in out of 10 random females age 20-35 walking down the street at least 5 would poll as more attractive. Words like "incredible" to describe someone who you would not give a second look in the real world. Body descriptions are even more misleading. "Curvy" turns out to be - objectively - just plainly out of shape. Reviews rave about a SP's butt and it ends up being junky and shapeless, the before picture in a before-and-after fitness transformation.

Look, I completely understand when a SP delivered on friendliness, effort and service that the instinct to be generous. But giving a false impression of her appearance does a disservice to the other reviewers here. Why not just be honest and say she had average face, wore no makeup, has never been to the gym but was nonetheless really accommodating, sensual and I had a great time. We can all relate to experiences like that and we'll know what's actually in store if we make a booking. (And dont get me started on reviews that straight up read like love poems. I feel embarrassed just reading a few lines of those.) Ultimately, if every review is gleaming then why have a review board in the first place?

Don't know if anyone here has browsed through ukpunting. That is, in my opinion, the model for an impartial but respectful review board with positive/negative/neutral reviews, all for the benefit of the greater community. Feels like merb is clearly going in the opposite direction.

 

[anatomy]

I find that 80-90 % of the hobby is based on deception. From false pictures and descriptions to false promises of services rendered and their cost, etc.,etc. I didn't say 100% because there are ladies (usually at the higher end of the industry and pricier) who deliver as advertised and even beyond. These are the gems.

 

[Fradi]

I find that 80-90 % of the hobby is based on deception. From false pictures and descriptions to false promises of services rendered and their cost, etc.,etc. I didn't say 100% because there are ladies (usually at the higher end of the industry and pricier) who deliver as advertised and even beyond. These are the gems.

The elephant in the room $$$$ tends to have that effect.
This however is true with many things you purchase hence the phrase buyer be ware.

 

[Julia Sky]

Imagine if someone was like "people who don't leave reviews on google or Yelp shouldn't be allowed to see the reviews and ratings or to use these sites"

The board isn't just for reviews. It's financed by our ads and I think it's perfectly valid for a client to prefer staying low profile especially in a climate where you guys are essentially criminals for hiring us. It's okay to read reviews even if one doesn't write any, and that is true for many businesses. I would hope people read reviews before they hire a professional regardless of the field - accountant, lawyer, escort, nail stylist, a custom birthday cake, you name it - and regardless of if they also write reviews or not.

Also? Beauty is 100% subjective, this isn't a debate it's a fact. Tastes are not universal and nobody gets to decide what others find attractive.

I was initially going to respond to individual comments but I got a headache and figured a general answer would work better lol.

 

[Enjoying life]

I think women are far more critical and cruel to each other about their looks than men are, perhaps not to their face, but behind their back definitely,

As far as reviews, most ladies have a web sight, twitter etc… with more than enough photographs so you can get a fairly good idea except maybe their face of what you are going to see, so if you don’t get what you want it is on you for not doing your research.
In the end what have you lost a couple of hundred bucks and you may still have had a woman going all out to please you even if she wasn’t the super model you thought she would be. Not the end of the world lol.

Seeing an SP is not a life defining moment, it doesn’t end your world if she is not the Disney Princess you have been dreaming about.
She is not your wife, lover or girlfriend, she didn’t meet your expectations, do better research and perhaps dip into your wallet a bit deeper.

Pictures can be different from actually meeting face to face but I always find SPS even more attractive in person!

 

[LC18]

This. For the SPs who complain about personal information coming up in reviews.

It's super simple. Stop it at its source - you. Lmao.

If your personal information comes up because you lack the judgment who you tell it to, that's entirely on you. Anyone with a tiny bit of sense understands that. Unless there's deep connection, and you establish trust, don't be stupid.

Personal information could be identifying tattoos, piercings, beauty marks or your nationality. Am I supposed to rip off my tattoo just before the client comes in to make sure he’s not going to mention it in a review?

 

[Enjoying life]

I wouldn’t call it a life defining moment, when I met my wife and when my children, grandchildren were born that was. I would call it amazing luck and a fabulous surprise you should never confuse these things. There is no comparison with sharing your life, your love your dreams with someone and paying to see someone, no matter how gorgeous how kind and even if you become friends like I have with my ATF.
I know the difference between reality and fantasy lol.

I have run into one or 2 of the dwarfs also but they weren’t that bad. Sometimes gems come in smaller packages.

If you are the only one paying all the bills, house and vacations then it’s way better to have a single life and enjoy the company of SPS!

 

[kkrack]

Beauty is subjective indeed.

 

[kkrack]

Personal information could be identifying tattoos, piercings, beauty marks or your nationality. Am I supposed to rip off my tattoo just before the client comes in to make sure he’s not going to mention it in a review?

that's useless information unless you can correlate it with another set of information such as public pictures on instagram or facebook. If you have a public profile or your friends have public profiles where they tag you then one can correlate information. That's what I am refering to when I say people are careless. Even discussing vacation plans is careless. You never know who knows who and that's not being paranoid, anyone with some knowledge can track an unsuspecting person.

 

[LC18]

that's useless information unless you can correlate it with another set of information such as public pictures on instagram or facebook. If you have a public profile or your friends have public profiles where they tag you then one can correlate information. That's what I am refering to when I say people are careless. Even discussing vacation plans is careless. You never know who knows who and that's not being paranoid, anyone with some knowledge can track an unsuspecting person.

If someone mentions in my review that I have a tattoo on my arm that says “I’m a princess I don’t work”

and someone sees a black woman that could look like me on social media, notices that she has a tattoo that says “I’m a princess I don’t work” they’ll know it’s me. They might add me on that social media or message me using my real name.

Not unheard of, it happened to a girl that used to work in an agency and she quit right after :/

 

[Toto beefcake]

They will never understand it but they are living a fantasy with the SP's, $$ for a service. They get good, maybe even great service and all of sudden the 6/10 is a 9 because a woman was "interested". You need to understand that there is a decent percentage of clients whom regular women wouldn't even bat an eye at; hence why they pay. I have stopped reviewing all the providers I see because all its ends up being is: looks is subjective and ymmv for service bro lol.

Decent percentage is about 95 percent. And im being nice lol . But spot on.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Well here is my 2 cents (didn't read the entire thread, just page 1 and 3)

Beauty is indeed subjective. This may sound insane to some but i read recently some peoples saying Sydney Sweeney would be "mid" without her breasts. Sure not gonna lie, i love those bazoombas but even if she was a B-cup she would still be a very attractive woman. There is BBW escorts that are succesful while a lot of clients wouldn't book them because they not into that. At some point i think subjectivity plays a big part.

There is also how you may be influenced by a person. If she gives you a superb experience, of course you may feel more attraction to her. Lets be honest. Lets say she was exeptionally nice and great in bed, how would you feel saying "well physically she was slightly above average, but her service was great". Of course you can't say that. Not only cause you risk alienating the person in wanting to see you again, but also it just comes out rude imo. For the peoples who been married here, have you ever told your wife "yeah the neighbor is way hotter than you, but don't worry, i prefer your personality". ... lol

I think looks also changed a lot since my early days. Of course there is still the "stripper club look with big fake tits" but good luck finding it without tatoos. There also seem to be less of them in agencies and instead more chasing the big bucks as indies. Maybe im wrong, i mean i don't book 40 times a year like some, im in the single digit, but its just what i notice by browsing the sites etc.

As for the privacy aspect and tatoos, well its a bit funny. I never hidden that i am not the biggest lover of tatoos. I did book plenty of tatooed providers and it will not be a "blockade" for me, but i would always think she would look even better without them (or if it was just a few well placed). But funny enough it happened a few times i was just browsing twitter or instagram and was like "wait a minute..." and recognized someone because of her tatoos.

I get they can be hairbrushed out of pictures, but if you actually meet the person and remember them, well... And altough some ladies may be extremely good at keeping their socials more private, all it may take is one friend that is not as "private" posting a pic of them and there you go. Its also very easy to make connections when you know some SPs are friends etc. In this heavily digital era, its getting harder and harder to keep privacy.

 

[LC18]

Yes beauty is subjective but we can’t deny that more people are attracted to slim blondes with blue eyes. It doesn’t mean everyone is and it doesn’t mean a chubby brunette with brown eyes can’t be prettier…

Most of the responses on beauty made sense to a certain level