Hello KS,
I'm not sure if a thread already exist for this.
I've never tried Greek and afraid to. An (experienced) SP once told me that Greek does not lead to orgasm for women.
Is Greek something that a Hobbyist needs to experience at least once in his life?
What's a "bucket list"?
I was very nervous about having greek with an escort too because of what I believed was the higher risk reasons. Then after a number of years one lady made an unsolicited offer and I took it. I found it quite erotic. This lady was ready.
Some offer greek, but they do it poorly. These ladies are obviously putting themselves through some pain for the extra profit. It's not enjoyable for them and so it's also not enjoyable for the client. These ladies usually put down very firm rules about what will happen, and the action is typically brief, satisfying no one.
Others who may offer it or who you may ask may not be ready. They are trying to be careful to make sure they are prepared properly with the appropriate cleansing, and if all is not correct greek will not be allowed. One gorgeous escort I just met does offer greek, but she told me that besides the cleansing there is also "mental preparation". To me this indicates a responsible person, but unfortunately with whom greek is a trial for her and may not be worth doing.
Frequently, size matters. I've been told by a number of ladies they won't do it even for the extra fee if the situation before them is too much to handle, and you don't have to be a monster to be turned down.
As for the statement by the lady "that Greek does not lead to orgasm for women" I would say someone was speaking for themselves. This may be true for most women, but it is definitely not true for a significant number. Of course the sampling I have experienced is pretty small, but orgasm does happen either through greek alone or more often assisted by simultaneous masturbation and other erotic play. One lady I know is capable multiple orgasms in greek. NO...I'm not claiming to be great, it's much more about what turns her on.
If you are going to do this you had better do a thorough research, and provide notice a day ahead if possible. One porn actress I met, well known for greek, said she would not do it without 24 hours notice. This won't be necessary for many who do greek, but the kind of lady willing to do greek on a moments notice is much more likely to be willing to accept the extra fee than provide a worthwhile experience. Only 3 I have met were worthwhile out of about 7. Choose wisely.
Cheers,
Merlot